The wrong Name....

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by coldwater on Thursday, November 29, 2012 and has 10 replies.

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@coldwater
13 Years

Ladies....have you ever called out the wrong name? Not necessarily during sex but maybe during a casual conversation. What did you do to afterwards?

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@coldwater
13 Years

We were actually talking about this at work today...some coworkers and I. If your mate called you the wrong name...would that make you feel bad?

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@TAURUSbelle
14 Years1,000+ Posts

HI!! Taurusbelle just stopping thru..I saw the topic from the "newsfeed"...

I Definitely HAVE had a name slip, during an argument.

I was casually seeing a young Sagg. We were sitting in his car, he was dropping me off. The next thing I know he said something that ticked me off, and brought me to the SAME level of frustration as the guy I dated before him used to do -an OLDER Sagg. (Both were DECEMBER Saggs..YES.)...smh.

Anyway, He didn't take kindly to it..So I apologized. Then he started talkin' sh*t. Asking all sorts of
"OH! So..You still talkin' to [Said name]??....How's [NAME] doin'..Tell him I said What's up?" ..then he was tried to give me the whole "Silent Treatment"..

I'm not a kid. I acknowleged the slip-up and apologized. Nothing more-nothing less. With that I said goodnight, and got out the car.

Time went on...he kept the grudge and just wouldn't let the slip-up go. When other discussions would arise, he would bring the name-drop up.. So I ended EVERYTHING altogether. I just wasn't going to allow him to drag things out to eternity with me.

Try that with someone else boo.

Several months later, he shows up at my doorstep. UNANNOUNCED.

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@CancerLeoDynamite
13 Years1,000+ Posts

I've done it, -blush- not during sex, but def during convo, or an argument..I tried to laugh it off.
yes it would upset me if it happened to me, but I'd not make a fuss.

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@coldwater
13 Years

I guess if you have been with a person a long time ...there is a certain familarity with them. I wouldnt account this slip as something intentional or suggesting that the person still harbors feelings for the other person. Even though I beleive that, I still in some way believe it would bother me.

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@incandescentcancer
14 Years1,000+ Posts

It hasn't happened either way so far however if it did, I would throw her whore ass out on the pavement and the clothes will follow through the window. If you can't remember my name when we are intimate you have no place in my life.

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13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by incandescentcancer
It hasn't happened either way so far however if it did, I would throw her whore ass out on the pavement and the clothes will follow through the window. If you can't remember my name when we are intimate you have no place in my life.

hahaha

I have such a strong desire to have sex with you, and call you George.

At least you'd give her the clothes back.

best story I ever heard was a guy friend of mine caught his girl cheating IN THEIR BED.
He dragged the guy out by his hair, punched him in the face, went back into the bedroom, picked her up and carried her outside , plopped her down on the front step, shoved a five dollar bill in her mouth and shut the door in her face.

No clothes given back (and he lives in a reallly shit neighbourhood)

heh

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@incandescentcancer
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by CancerLeoDynamite

hahaha

I have such a strong desire to have sex with you, and call you George.

At least you'd give her the clothes back.

best story I ever heard was a guy friend of mine caught his girl cheating IN THEIR BED.
He dragged the guy out by his hair, punched him in the face, went back into the bedroom, picked her up and carried her outside , plopped her down on the front step, shoved a five dollar bill in her mouth and shut the door in her face.

No clothes given back (and he lives in a reallly shit neighbourhood)

heh

LOL! Well I don't mind being George of the jungle...😛.

I can understand his rage, I would probably be the same since I really believe in people being truthful and honest. I am fine with being casual and dating a lot of different people, I am currently doing that myself. However I wouldn't lea a girl on during this phase and girls who lead on guys are irritating. I can understand him...good move on the clothes 😉