Rapunzel
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This how u date a cancer man ;)
thanks. this post helped a lot. when my cancer man and me were ON, it was exactly like you said! i made him blush all day every day! and he did the same for me. i have never felt SO loved in my life as he made me feel. and i know i did the same for him. but now he's ignoring me, and i chased and tried everything and he's just gone. so i'm going to stop! i KNOW what he felt before so if it's meant to be he'll come back around.
Hi Sneaky, I'm Virgo sun Leo moon.
Posted by JaguarLover
thanks. this post helped a lot. when my cancer man and me were ON, it was exactly like you said! i made him blush all day every day! and he did the same for me. i have never felt SO loved in my life as he made me feel. and i know i did the same for him. but now he's ignoring me, and i chased and tried everything and he's just gone. so i'm going to stop! i KNOW what he felt before so if it's meant to be he'll come back around.
^^^^ Every relationship is work. Its not always peachy,so just take time for yourself while he is away and reflect on you. Do somethings to stay busy...maybe catch up with old friends....maybe rid some stuff you dont need. Some quality girls night out is fun. Being alone makes the mind go in overdrive. All kinds of crazy thoughts...know what I mean. Remembet abscense makes the heart grow fonder. Keep your head up you'll be fine....and steer clear of negativity because it wont help much.
Good luck!
Piggy : )
Hi JaguarLover you are welcome. Always remember how special YOU are. These men are not rocket science. Just love on them & remain the fun girl you was in the beginning. And yes, he will be back around. He didn't forget how good u treated him that easy. When he returns, Rock His World! Just enjoy each other 🙂
@ Rapunzel Welcome to DXP!! Your post is spot on....i tried commenting above but my messages were cut off. I too have a cancer and we respect each others me time. We were together 11yrs ago...and reconnected 2yrs ago. We care about what the other is feeling. Thanks for sharing
Piggy :p
Piggy :p
Hi Piggy welcome back darlin' 😉
Rapunzel, thank you for the encouraging words! i'm feeling so much better about the whole situation today 🙂
and piggytoo240 that's so inspiring that you were together 11 years ago and reconnected 2 years ago. how awesome!
and piggytoo240 that's so inspiring that you were together 11 years ago and reconnected 2 years ago. how awesome!
Awesome post 🙂 I just recently decided to walk away from my cancer love as he was ignoring me, we were together 4 years , ive tried everything to get it to work between us but i realize the best solution is to just let go, and like i have been reading on these helpful post to disappear. a part of me hopes he comes back but then another part of me is like i know ill be ok either way. Just cant help it, the heart wants what the heart wants... Thanks for posting The Cancer man was the best men I h
Have dated, up until we started having problems. does this work for a shy introverted cancer man?
Thank you piggytoo240 for welcoming me. I'm so glad u reconnected with your cancer. This goes to show that these men never forget good loving. I hope you two have many more years together 🙂
Thank you MsLeoLove 🙂 Yes, Cancer men are so fun & so irresistible...But so are You! Never forget that. You are fabulous with him or without him.
My cancer can be very shy too. When he use to pull away i did not chase him, try to get even, or have a grand breakup, i jus simply disappeared & kept living my life happily; wearing my high heels & lip gloss too. He would come back aggressively! The point is, the more distance u give them the less space they want apart...especially if u always gave him the affection he craved 🙂
My cancer can be very shy too. When he use to pull away i did not chase him, try to get even, or have a grand breakup, i jus simply disappeared & kept living my life happily; wearing my high heels & lip gloss too. He would come back aggressively! The point is, the more distance u give them the less space they want apart...especially if u always gave him the affection he craved 🙂
Hi CluelessCancer 🙂 Virgo men are a different breed. All of us virgos naturally tend to disappear for a short period. We don't call it games, we just want to recharge or think about things or just simply dont want to suffocate u to death, but overall we still love you very deeply. As far as break ups it's a different story. Many Virgos like "making" their partner miss them. And they do it by being absent in your life completely. Sometimes no real closure either. If We think about u non stop, we'll return some how. If u hurt us It will be a heartless ending... Using our practical sense, we know you will get over it one day, meet someone new, get married & live long. It's like we don't think about how it effects you emotionally.
I'm guess a virgo man hurt you ? Hope not because cancer women are so cool.
I'm guess a virgo man hurt you ? Hope not because cancer women are so cool.
Posted by Rapunzel
This how u date a cancer man 😉
All you have to do is let HIM date YOU. Period. Let him plan & lead. The most you do is just show up, be sweet & be beautiful. Do nothing else! Don't chase him, stalk him, initiate too many calls/texts/emails. Know that YOU are the PRIZE. Don't lose YOURSELF when dating these men.
oooh virgo girl
Lol Hello there Incandescentcaner 🙂 Cancer men & Virgo women are a fine pair, dont you agree lol.
I always noticed that if a Cancer man is really interested he will naturally chase you. He can't help it! Virgo women are naturally hard to get & we can't help it either. It's really genuine & innocent. And you know what's fascinating? Somehow this cat and mouse arrangement works.
Once we decide to let cancer boy in, we give him all the love & affectionate he craves...Its almost like we are paying you back for all of your hard work & efforts to catch us 🙂
I always noticed that if a Cancer man is really interested he will naturally chase you. He can't help it! Virgo women are naturally hard to get & we can't help it either. It's really genuine & innocent. And you know what's fascinating? Somehow this cat and mouse arrangement works.
Once we decide to let cancer boy in, we give him all the love & affectionate he craves...Its almost like we are paying you back for all of your hard work & efforts to catch us 🙂
Posted by Rapunzel
Lol Hello there Incandescentcaner 🙂 Cancer men & Virgo women are a fine pair, dont you agree lol.
I always noticed that if a Cancer man is really interested he will naturally chase you. He can't help it! Virgo women are naturally hard to get & we can't help it either. It's really genuine & innocent. And you know what's fascinating? Somehow this cat and mouse arrangement works.
Once we decide to let cancer boy in, we give him all the love & affectionate he craves...Its almost like we are paying you back for all of your hard work & efforts to catch us 🙂
Oh believe me I understand this better than anyone else, this whole dynamic, I quite like it. Huge respect for the honesty of a virgo woman and her practical advice 🙂.
You're welcome. Glad u was honest & said you like the challenge 🙂
Posted by Rapunzel
You're welcome. Glad u was honest & said you like the challenge 🙂
Yeah, y'all make good mothers 🙂.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by incandescentcancerPosted by Rapunzel
You're welcome. Glad u was honest & said you like the challenge 🙂
Yeah, y'all make good mothers 🙂.
The cancer man and his need for a mother figure. SMH.click to expand
Can I have my bait back please 😉.
Posted by Rapunzel
Thank you MsLeoLove 🙂 Yes, Cancer men are so fun & so irresistible...But so are You! Never forget that. You are fabulous with him or without him.
My cancer can be very shy too. When he use to pull away i did not chase him, try to get even, or have a grand breakup, i jus simply disappeared & kept living my life happily; wearing my high heels & lip gloss too. He would come back aggressively! The point is, the more distance u give them the less space they want apart...especially if u always gave him the affection he craved 🙂
Thank you Rapunzel this is very helpful, 🙂 this sounds like me right now "Lip gloss and Heels" hehe...may i ask how long did it take for your crab to come crawling back after disappearing?
Hi MsLeoLover He ignored me once & I nipped it in the bud looooonnnggg ago. Seriously! I did not put up with that behavior. I corrected him in a loving but firm way. I Never overreacted with him. No blood was shed. I reacted slowly.
Example:
He ignored for 2 weeks.
I disappeared. Didn't chase him.
He returned FIRST.
I acted cool & kind.
He wants to meet up.
I show up looking smoking hot.
We talk & laugh & kiss a lot.
When we're cuddled up, in a slow/calm/firm voice I say "U know babe, i don't like when u go away like that. If u do that next time, it will hurt me greatly" *Look him in the eyes* say firmly "Do not ever treat me like that again".
Then I bury that conversation. I'm over it. No nagging.
Then i will through my arms around him & squeeze him tight.
He keeps coming back for more of me.
If he cares he will try his best to please u...They never intentionally try to hurt. So go easy on them. But stand your ground.
Example:
He ignored for 2 weeks.
I disappeared. Didn't chase him.
He returned FIRST.
I acted cool & kind.
He wants to meet up.
I show up looking smoking hot.
We talk & laugh & kiss a lot.
When we're cuddled up, in a slow/calm/firm voice I say "U know babe, i don't like when u go away like that. If u do that next time, it will hurt me greatly" *Look him in the eyes* say firmly "Do not ever treat me like that again".
Then I bury that conversation. I'm over it. No nagging.
Then i will through my arms around him & squeeze him tight.
He keeps coming back for more of me.
If he cares he will try his best to please u...They never intentionally try to hurt. So go easy on them. But stand your ground.
Posted by Rapunzel
When we're cuddled up, in a slow/calm/firm voice I say "U know babe, i don't like when u go away like that. If u do that next time, it will hurt me greatly" *Look him in the eyes* say firmly "Do not ever treat me like that again".
Then I bury that conversation. I'm over it. No nagging.
Extremely well done. This is how you do it.
Lol aww thanks. Making corrections are always best said in a intimate way & setting
.... And in a firm but loving motherly way 🙂
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by Rapunzel
When we're cuddled up, in a slow/calm/firm voice I say "U know babe, i don't like when u go away like that. If u do that next time, it will hurt me greatly" *Look him in the eyes* say firmly "Do not ever treat me like that again".
Then I bury that conversation. I'm over it. No nagging.
Extremely well done. This is how you do it.click to expand
haha, sounds TOTALLY like my Crab and I 😄
LOVE this topic, thanks Rapunzel !
Posted by Rapunzel
Hi MsLeoLover He ignored me once & I nipped it in the bud looooonnnggg ago. Seriously! I did not put up with that behavior. I corrected him in a loving but firm way. I Never overreacted with him. No blood was shed. I reacted slowly.
Example:
He ignored for 2 weeks.
I disappeared. Didn't chase him.
He returned FIRST.
I acted cool & kind.
He wants to meet up.
I show up looking smoking hot.
We talk & laugh & kiss a lot.
When we're cuddled up, in a slow/calm/firm voice I say "U know babe, i don't like when u go away like that. If u do that next time, it will hurt me greatly" *Look him in the eyes* say firmly "Do not ever treat me like that again".
Then I bury that conversation. I'm over it. No nagging.
Then i will through my arms around him & squeeze him tight.
He keeps coming back for more of me.
If he cares he will try his best to please u...They never intentionally try to hurt. So go easy on them. But stand your ground.
Omg! You are so good and helpful lol if you wrote a book I would definitely read it 🙂 I'm still in the "trying to understand" cancer men stage...but I love my cancer man. Thanks for the helpful info 🙂
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by Rapunzel
Hi MsLeoLover He ignored me once & I nipped it in the bud looooonnnggg ago. Seriously! I did not put up with that behavior. I corrected him in a loving but firm way. I Never overreacted with him. No blood was shed. I reacted slowly.
Example:
He ignored for 2 weeks.
I disappeared. Didn't chase him.
He returned FIRST.
I acted cool & kind.
He wants to meet up.
I show up looking smoking hot.
We talk & laugh & kiss a lot.
When we're cuddled up, in a slow/calm/firm voice I say "U know babe, i don't like when u go away like that. If u do that next time, it will hurt me greatly" *Look him in the eyes* say firmly "Do not ever treat me like that again".
Then I bury that conversation. I'm over it. No nagging.
Then i will through my arms around him & squeeze him tight.
He keeps coming back for more of me.
If he cares he will try his best to please u...They never intentionally try to hurt. So go easy on them. But stand your ground.
Will this work on a VIRGO male?click to expand
I think this could work on a SENSITIVE Virgo male.
Posted by VirgoshowgirlPosted by incandescentcancerPosted by Rapunzel
When we're cuddled up, in a slow/calm/firm voice I say "U know babe, i don't like when u go away like that. If u do that next time, it will hurt me greatly" *Look him in the eyes* say firmly "Do not ever treat me like that again".
Then I bury that conversation. I'm over it. No nagging.
Extremely well done. This is how you do it.
haha, sounds TOTALLY like my Crab and I 😄
LOVE this topic, thanks Rapunzel !click to expand
Thank you. I'm honored to know another Virgo Cancer couple. I'm sure he adores you!
I should write a book ?? Wow thank you!! MzLeoLover 🙂
hi, i feel the post of how to date cancer male feel so true and accurate. 🙂
anyway, now atm, i feel so desperately fragile. miss my cancer man so much.
i have on off relations with him. cos of diff opinion abt having intercourse , and im not be able to follow him. so during 8 months relations he used to have mood swings, ignored, blocked me from evrywhere. at that time. just give him space with hoping he will be better and not angry again. i know cancer afraid of rejection, but im afraid i sacrifice my virginity to the wrong guy. i know every man love it and wanna do it, i just hoping he can wait while we enjoying this relation.
im a sag girl, i just try to be optimistic but at some day, i feel so vulnerable perhaps cos i have libra in my venus. i just need loved feel cared from someone. he's my first bf (cancer in sun, cancer in venus). love him badly.
its been 9 days he decide to breaking up with me(again)in total 2 times breaking up. the first time he find me. but this time nothing happen.
the forth days of breaking up i decide to find him. first i thought yeah im a woman, so he must find me. but i read that u need to give hints if u want your cancer man back, so i find him. at the end he just said, i will not accept u anymore, delete my number dont ever contact me again. so i said, i respect your decision, cos i wanna see u happy.
i wait for few days with hoping he changes his mind, but nothing happen. so again i text him. i give 4 days in between. i realise my impatient and short tempered personality, try to get rid off it. again same thing, he even said, today i will make a new gf, and u shouldnt try to reach me again. im afraid he really mean this thing... T_T always he said delete my number.
i decide to bring he meals to his workplace, but im afraid the more i chase the more he ran away. i always think optimistic just try to have faith what might happen. and try to moving on, but still its so hard. i havent met him for 4 months, so badly badly miss him.
any advice from anyone, would be much appreciate it, i dont know whom can i share with. cos like my sis doesnt like attitude of cancer man who like to do silent mode. but again, as sag girl, it challenge me. :p
anyway, now atm, i feel so desperately fragile. miss my cancer man so much.
i have on off relations with him. cos of diff opinion abt having intercourse , and im not be able to follow him. so during 8 months relations he used to have mood swings, ignored, blocked me from evrywhere. at that time. just give him space with hoping he will be better and not angry again. i know cancer afraid of rejection, but im afraid i sacrifice my virginity to the wrong guy. i know every man love it and wanna do it, i just hoping he can wait while we enjoying this relation.
im a sag girl, i just try to be optimistic but at some day, i feel so vulnerable perhaps cos i have libra in my venus. i just need loved feel cared from someone. he's my first bf (cancer in sun, cancer in venus). love him badly.
its been 9 days he decide to breaking up with me(again)in total 2 times breaking up. the first time he find me. but this time nothing happen.
the forth days of breaking up i decide to find him. first i thought yeah im a woman, so he must find me. but i read that u need to give hints if u want your cancer man back, so i find him. at the end he just said, i will not accept u anymore, delete my number dont ever contact me again. so i said, i respect your decision, cos i wanna see u happy.
i wait for few days with hoping he changes his mind, but nothing happen. so again i text him. i give 4 days in between. i realise my impatient and short tempered personality, try to get rid off it. again same thing, he even said, today i will make a new gf, and u shouldnt try to reach me again. im afraid he really mean this thing... T_T always he said delete my number.
i decide to bring he meals to his workplace, but im afraid the more i chase the more he ran away. i always think optimistic just try to have faith what might happen. and try to moving on, but still its so hard. i havent met him for 4 months, so badly badly miss him.
any advice from anyone, would be much appreciate it, i dont know whom can i share with. cos like my sis doesnt like attitude of cancer man who like to do silent mode. but again, as sag girl, it challenge me. :p
You need to get rid him, because his actions obviously shows he don't care about you. Real Cancer Men or Real men in general don't act like this with their lady. I think if he valued you guys relationship, he would make an effort to be in your life right now. You shouldn't have to alter who you are as a woman just so he can talk to you. I wouldn't blame the whole Cancer sign because of one individual. He just simply just isn't a good man. Right now, you need to go by your heart not your feelings. There you can make the right decision that's best for you. So stop blaming yourself for something that's not your fault. He's the one that lost out, not you 🙂. Hope you feel better *HUG*
Posted by Rapunzel
Hi MsLeoLover He ignored me once & I nipped it in the bud looooonnnggg ago. Seriously! I did not put up with that behavior. I corrected him in a loving but firm way. I Never overreacted with him. No blood was shed. I reacted slowly.
Example:
He ignored for 2 weeks.
I disappeared. Didn't chase him.
He returned FIRST.
I acted cool & kind.
He wants to meet up.
I show up looking smoking hot.
We talk & laugh & kiss a lot.
When we're cuddled up, in a slow/calm/firm voice I say "U know babe, i don't like when u go away like that. If u do that next time, it will hurt me greatly" *Look him in the eyes* say firmly "Do not ever treat me like that again".
Then I bury that conversation. I'm over it. No nagging.
Then i will through my arms around him & squeeze him tight.
He keeps coming back for more of me.
If he cares he will try his best to please u...They never intentionally try to hurt. So go easy on them. But stand your ground.
^^^This is spot on.
^^ Yep exactly!!
Mother figure does not work for me.nope. as for the aforementioned stuff, yeah when u ignore or dissapear (once we care about you) we will want you and make you ours. However do it enough times and u will not see us again.
Thank you so much for the advice. i really appreciate it.
looks like i fall in love with the wrong guy. i will get rid of him. Hoping will find the right one later who knows my worth. i feel like anna and he's hans in 'frozen movie' LOL
even you as cancer man or in man perspective itself say like that, so he is really not a good guy.
i feel much better now,
thanks again. 🙂 big warm hug
have a great day for everyone.
cheers
looks like i fall in love with the wrong guy. i will get rid of him. Hoping will find the right one later who knows my worth. i feel like anna and he's hans in 'frozen movie' LOL
even you as cancer man or in man perspective itself say like that, so he is really not a good guy.
i feel much better now,
thanks again. 🙂 big warm hug
have a great day for everyone.
cheers
good or not he will give u babies@sagirl ooohhh yes babbiieessssss,lol.
good or not he will give u babies@sagirl ooohhh yes babbiieessssss,lol.
I am a little bit confused. I know my male cancer friend for almost 2 months. But he doesn't like to see me everyday and he is not showing or talking about his interest in me. I don't know where do I stand. I talked to him but he said it's obvious that he likes me as a friend - not a girl friend - like a normal friend but he is not everyday guy to see me. He mentioned also he needs time. From the times I mentioned to him that it made me sad when he is not showing if he likes me, miss me , ... he keep distance. Less phone calls, rarely texting. What should I do?
Bump because the first post deserves more attention. I'm going to stick this to my wall.
i like your post 🙂
Posted by Rapunzel
This how u date a cancer man 😉
All you have to do is let HIM date YOU. Period. Let him plan & lead. The most you do is just show up, be sweet & be beautiful. Do nothing else! Don't chase him, stalk him, initiate too many calls/texts/emails. Know that YOU are the PRIZE. Don't lose YOURSELF when dating these men.
How to act with cancer man:
Once he's won your time, u can really start to shine. When u two are around each other give him the time of his life. Focus on being unforgettable. Make him smile & feel relaxed. Be fun and sweet but not too mushy or emotional (don't turn him into your therapist) Just Be Yourself ! Try to SHOW HIM how u feel about him rather than telling him you cant breathe without him. Show him your feelings with out words. If you & him are just starting out, break the ice by touching him first. While you two are talking, touch his shoulder or knee. Let him know you are interested with your gestures. If you are bold like me, give him a girly kiss on the cheek! Or throw your arms around him. This will help if you're a really gorgeous girl, he won't feel too scared of u. The key is to be friendly with a little innocent flirting. If u are shy, be girly & smile a lot. Always laugh at his jokes & look feminine. Shy girls are very hot too.
How to speak to a cancer man:
Speak with tenderness. Don't say one critical thing about him. Don't be all forceful with him. If he doesn't do something u want, don't complain about it...just do it your darn self and get over it. Always choose your words carefully. Let him see that u are a safe haven or shelter to go to. When the world says he's crabby, moody, blah blah....u think he's absolutely awesome just the way he is!
If cancer man is ignoring:
DO NOT chase him. U disappear too! Turn the tables and make him miss u! Stay busy. Whatever u do, don't get CLINGY. texttexttextGive him space & time to remember how fun & awesome & loving u are. Snapping or begging or making him jealous does NOT draw him closer to you...Silence is a secret weapon. Lastly, don't be afraid of losing him....Please don't. Don't waste days hoping he calls u. He should be afraid to lose YOU! Get your fire back. If u have done all u can to get him back & nothing has worked, please STOP TRYING! Let him come to u for once. He will return If u meant anything to him
This is my first post on this site. Been dating a cancer man for three years & learned him well. I hope this helped 🙂
Bravo bravo it will work I just read this and I'm a cancer male ? Down to the t 69 gang yea yea
Posted by Rapunzel
This how u date a cancer man 😉
All you have to do is let HIM date YOU. Period. Let him plan & lead. The most you do is just show up, be sweet & be beautiful. Do nothing else! Don't chase him, stalk him, initiate too many calls/texts/emails. Know that YOU are the PRIZE. Don't lose YOURSELF when dating these men.
How to act with cancer man:
Once he's won your time, u can really start to shine. When u two are around each other give him the time of his life. Focus on being unforgettable. Make him smile & feel relaxed. Be fun and sweet but not too mushy or emotional (don't turn him into your therapist) Just Be Yourself ! Try to SHOW HIM how u feel about him rather than telling him you cant breathe without him. Show him your feelings with out words. If you & him are just starting out, break the ice by touching him first. While you two are talking, touch his shoulder or knee. Let him know you are interested with your gestures. If you are bold like me, give him a girly kiss on the cheek! Or throw your arms around him. This will help if you're a really gorgeous girl, he won't feel too scared of u. The key is to be friendly with a little innocent flirting. If u are shy, be girly & smile a lot. Always laugh at his jokes & look feminine. Shy girls are very hot too.
How to speak to a cancer man:
Speak with tenderness. Don't say one critical thing about him. Don't be all forceful with him. If he doesn't do something u want, don't complain about it...just do it your darn self and get over it. Always choose your words carefully. Let him see that u are a safe haven or shelter to go to. When the world says he's crabby, moody, blah blah....u think he's absolutely awesome just the way he is!
If cancer man is ignoring:
DO NOT chase him. U disappear too! Turn the tables and make him miss u! Stay busy. Whatever u do, don't get CLINGY. Give him space & time to remember how fun & awesome & loving u are. Snapping or begging or making him jealous does NOT draw him closer to you...Silence is a secret weapon. Lastly, don't be afraid of losing him....Please don't. Don't waste days hoping he calls u. He should be afraid to lose YOU! Get your fire back. If u have done all u can to get him back & nothing has worked, please STOP TRYING! Let him come to u for once. He will return If u meant anything to him
This is my first post on this site. Been dating a cancer man for three years & learned him well. I hope this helped 🙂
This is good to please a cancer man short term. But long term you’re still losing bc you’re educating him to be in control and do whatever he wants while your needs are not being met. Well, maybe if you listen, obey and wait a bit more and harder then before. How is your realationship going?
Posted by nousernamePosted by Rapunzel
This how u date a cancer man 😉
All you have to do is let HIM date YOU. Period. Let him plan & lead. The most you do is just show up, be sweet & be beautiful. Do nothing else! Don't chase him, stalk him, initiate too many calls/texts/emails. Know that YOU are the PRIZE. Don't lose YOURSELF when dating these men.
How to act with cancer man:
Once he's won your time, u can really start to shine. When u two are around each other give him the time of his life. Focus on being unforgettable. Make him smile & feel relaxed. Be fun and sweet but not too mushy or emotional (don't turn him into your therapist) Just Be Yourself ! Try to SHOW HIM how u feel about him rather than telling him you cant breathe without him. Show him your feelings with out words. If you & him are just starting out, break the ice by touching him first. While you two are talking, touch his shoulder or knee. Let him know you are interested with your gestures. If you are bold like me, give him a girly kiss on the cheek! Or throw your arms around him. This will help if you're a really gorgeous girl, he won't feel too scared of u. The key is to be friendly with a little innocent flirting. If u are shy, be girly & smile a lot. Always laugh at his jokes & look feminine. Shy girls are very hot too.
How to speak to a cancer man:
Speak with tenderness. Don't say one critical thing about him. Don't be all forceful with him. If he doesn't do something u want, don't complain about it...just do it your darn self and get over it. Always choose your words carefully. Let him see that u are a safe haven or shelter to go to. When the world says he's crabby, moody, blah blah....u think he's absolutely awesome just the way he is!
If cancer man is ignoring:
DO NOT chase him. U disappear too! Turn the tables and make him miss u! Stay busy. Whatever u do, don't get CLINGY. Give him space & time to remember how fun & awesome & loving u are. Snapping or begging or making him jealous does NOT draw him closer to you...Silence is a secret weapon. Lastly, don't be afraid of losing him....Please don't. Don't waste days hoping he calls u. He should be afraid to lose YOU! Get your fire back. If u have done all u can to get him back & nothing has worked, please STOP TRYING! Let him come to u for once. He will return If u meant anything to him
This is my first post on this site. Been dating a cancer man for three years & learned him well. I hope this helped 🙂
This is good to please a cancer man short term. But long term you’re still losing bc you’re educating him to be in control and do whatever he wants while your needs are not being met. Well, maybe if you listen, obey and wait a bit more and harder then before. How is your realationship going?click to expand
You’re very correct about not losing yourself to please/be with someone..but that goes for men/women, no matter the sign.
I’m not sure your post is what Rapunzel meant, but your points are valid. She shared her understanding of how her guy communicates, interprets others’ communication, and what works for her..much of it relating to the DATING phase.
When we meet someone, we’re interested in THAT person. If their behaviors/actions change, they may seem less attractive, overwhelming, or throw us off a bit bc “those traits” aren’t what attracted us...we may like it, or we may not.
Now, avoiding someone you’re no longer interested in may be cowardly, but it doesn’t make you a liar nor mean you deliberately lead ppl on.
Also..A man showing tons of interest, attention, and words of affirmation, may not want it mirrored (exactly) in return (May refer above if nec). In fact, many don’t, regardless of sign...at least not the first few months of dating. Many like the “courting/dating” phase, so if you start texting/calling/doting over him instead of being who you represented initially, who got fooled? If you desire a full blown, long term relationship yet become intimate before his feelings are vested ...and then he backs off....you prob chose that step too soon (come on, it’s not new information)
Last thought..
One may say “I love you and want to be with you forever & ever”
...BUT really mean “I love the feeling I have when I’m with you and want to feel it forever & ever “. Learn the difference
Posted by AngeliaPosted by nousernamePosted by Rapunzel
This how u date a cancer man 😉
All you have to do is let HIM date YOU. Period. Let him plan & lead. The most you do is just show up, be sweet & be beautiful. Do nothing else! Don't chase him, stalk him, initiate too many calls/texts/emails. Know that YOU are the PRIZE. Don't lose YOURSELF when dating these men.
How to act with cancer man:
Once he's won your time, u can really start to shine. When u two are around each other give him the time of his life. Focus on being unforgettable. Make him smile & feel relaxed. Be fun and sweet but not too mushy or emotional (don't turn him into your therapist) Just Be Yourself ! Try to SHOW HIM how u feel about him rather than telling him you cant breathe without him. Show him your feelings with out words. If you & him are just starting out, break the ice by touching him first. While you two are talking, touch his shoulder or knee. Let him know you are interested with your gestures. If you are bold like me, give him a girly kiss on the cheek! Or throw your arms around him. This will help if you're a really gorgeous girl, he won't feel too scared of u. The key is to be friendly with a little innocent flirting. If u are shy, be girly & smile a lot. Always laugh at his jokes & look feminine. Shy girls are very hot too.
How to speak to a cancer man:
Speak with tenderness. Don't say one critical thing about him. Don't be all forceful with him. If he doesn't do something u want, don't complain about it...just do it your darn self and get over it. Always choose your words carefully. Let him see that u are a safe haven or shelter to go to. When the world says he's crabby, moody, blah blah....u think he's absolutely awesome just the way he is!
If cancer man is ignoring:
DO NOT chase him. U disappear too! Turn the tables and make him miss u! Stay busy. Whatever u do, don't get CLINGY. Give him space & time to remember how fun & awesome & loving u are. Snapping or begging or making him jealous does NOT draw him closer to you...Silence is a secret weapon. Lastly, don't be afraid of losing him....Please don't. Don't waste days hoping he calls u. He should be afraid to lose YOU! Get your fire back. If u have done all u can to get him back & nothing has worked, please STOP TRYING! Let him come to u for once. He will return If u meant anything to him
This is my first post on this site. Been dating a cancer man for three years & learned him well. I hope this helped 🙂
This is good to please a cancer man short term. But long term you’re still losing bc you’re educating him to be in control and do whatever he wants while your needs are not being met. Well, maybe if you listen, obey and wait a bit more and harder then before. How is your realationship going?
You’re very correct about not losing yourself to please/be with someone..but that goes for men/women, no matter the sign.
I’m not sure your post is what Rapunzel meant, but your points are valid. She shared her understanding of how her guy communicates, interprets others’ communication, and what works for her..much of it relating to the DATING phase.
When we meet someone, we’re interested in THAT person. If their behaviors/actions change, they may seem less attractive, overwhelming, or throw us off a bit bc “those traits” aren’t what attracted us...we may like it, or we may not.
Now, avoiding someone you’re no longer interested in may be cowardly, but it doesn’t make you a liar nor mean you deliberately lead ppl on.
Also..A man showing tons of interest, attention, and words of affirmation, may not want it mirrored (exactly) in return (May refer above if nec). In fact, many don’t, regardless of sign...at least not the first few months of dating. Many like the “courting/dating” phase, so if you start texting/calling/doting over him instead of being who you represented initially, who got fooled? If you desire a full blown, long term relationship yet become intimate before his feelings are vested ...and then he backs off....you prob chose that step too soon (come on, it’s not new information)
Last thought..
One may say “I love you and want to be with you forever & ever”
...BUT really mean “I love the feeling I have when I’m with you and want to feel it forever & ever “. Learn the differenceclick to expand
Oops..I meant we must learn the difference ☺️
Would you mind checking out my post? You seem seasoned in the ways of the crab men and I definitely could use some help!
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All you have to do is let HIM date YOU. Period. Let him plan & lead. The most you do is just show up, be sweet & be beautiful. Do nothing else! Don't chase him, stalk him, initiate too many calls/texts/emails. Know that YOU are the PRIZE. Don't lose YOURSELF when dating these men.
How to act with cancer man:
Once he's won your time, u can really start to shine. When u two are around each other give him the time of his life. Focus on being unforgettable. Make him smile & feel relaxed. Be fun and sweet but not too mushy or emotional (don't turn him into your therapist) Just Be Yourself ! Try to SHOW HIM how u feel about him rather than telling him you cant breathe without him. Show him your feelings with out words. If you & him are just starting out, break the ice by touching him first. While you two are talking, touch his shoulder or knee. Let him know you are interested with your gestures. If you are bold like me, give him a girly kiss on the cheek! Or throw your arms around him. This will help if you're a really gorgeous girl, he won't feel too scared of u. The key is to be friendly with a little innocent flirting. If u are shy, be girly & smile a lot. Always laugh at his jokes & look feminine. Shy girls are very hot too.
How to speak to a cancer man:
Speak with tenderness. Don't say one critical thing about him. Don't be all forceful with him. If he doesn't do something u want, don't complain about it...just do it your darn self and get over it. Always choose your words carefully. Let him see that u are a safe haven or shelter to go to. When the world says he's crabby, moody, blah blah....u think he's absolutely awesome just the way he is!
If cancer man is ignoring:
DO NOT chase him. U disappear too! Turn the tables and make him miss u! Stay busy. Whatever u do, don't get CLINGY. Give him space & time to remember how fun & awesome & loving u are. Snapping or begging or making him jealous does NOT draw him closer to you...Silence is a secret weapon. Lastly, don't be afraid of losing him....Please don't. Don't waste days hoping he calls u. He should be afraid to lose YOU! Get your fire back. If u have done all u can to get him back & nothing has worked, please STOP TRYING! Let him come to u for once. He will return If u meant anything to him
This is my first post on this site. Been dating a cancer man for three years & learned him well. I hope this helped 🙂