A recurring theme is that Cancer Man is complex, beautiful, strategic, capable of incredible wickedness against those who love them; and seriously accomplished when it comes to vanishing acts. And of course wildly unstable and fickle in their mood range. This ticks a lot of boxes with a Cancerian guy who i'm trying to figure out. Complex and hard to penetrate thats for sure. He's already in a relationship with a SheDevil who doesn't let him out of her sight.. although for sound reasons. We have met at my local gym.. The eye contact and sexual chemistry was so magnetic that I actually found myself swooning. How do they perfect that gaze?? its like they know you are snared and that you will be devoured, and they know that you know, and yet they are unfazed. Poetic!!! Anyways... he pursued me in a fearless and very tenacious way, which sort of undermines typical cancerian slow moving and indirect behaviour. First date was a total success. second date - thus he started with mind game tactics; where for an hour solid it was pretty much TitForTat, with me putting up a worthy challenge. Point is, that the second date ended in disaster with him stating that we let each other in too early, and that he still wants to talk if we see each other again. My reaction was to walk away in a very detached and dispassionate way (which I regret now). we were in his car, and I slammed it just for dramatic effect. He sat for about 30 seconds before driving away, and this is really where I seek wisdom from such a knowledgable fellowship. What was going on in his head when he was sitting there? Was he banking on me turning back, or was he slowly absorbing my actions and thinking oh well another who has failed miserably.. bwaha bwahahaha? Why Oh Why are they so bloody intriguing—?
