Who's good for a fiery cancer girl?

I have my sun and moon in cancer with leo in my mercury, venus, mars, jupiter and midheaven, lol. My rising is also scorpio. I honestly don't have ANY idea what sort of combination a person would need to have to be pretty compatible with me. I like stability, but I also like excitement. But at the same time, I don't like people that aren't emotionally available.
I have a very short attention span when it comes to things, especially love interests. I was in a situation where I went on a couple of dates with a Virgo guy who had Libra and Leo in his Venus in Mars, but had so much earth in him that I genuinely got bored with him. Then when I was swooning over a Pisces with a Sagittarius Rising with Aries and Leo in his Mars&Venus placements, I got turned off by his lack of need for emotional intimacy.

I'm not really sure what sort of placements I should look for for a future partner. I don't want any sort of relationship at the moment, but its something that'd be nice for me to know ahead of time, lol.

I have a similar issue. Cancer Sun/Sag Ascent & Moon/ Leo Venus/Aries Mars/ Leo Mercury. I can be patient but there is a limit. I don't accept unfaithfulness or disloyalty. But I am flirtatious. I am laidback yet quick tempered and easy to forgive. I have frustrations in the romance department.

Might have to do with that cancer and leo mix, I'm a cancer sun mars and mercury,with a leo moom and asc, I like emotional people,not like depression emotions but passionate people who have deep minds and feelings, I feel like if u are not emotional connected then u are distant and I feel like I just don't no u if u don't show passion. Stability have to do with tolerance levels u like people who are loyal but had some type of interrest at the same time. When I was dating I was a attractes to fire signs because they was aggressive and out going ,had quick mines and came of passionate. But if fire sign don't have any water in them they become harsh ,not loyal bounce from people to people look for new excitement. Air signs depend on placements, is exciting but some of them are intellectual they will talk but don't really do anything lack a excitement at a point,air sign at the begining fine but can also be up and down ,but I think they carry emotions but it depend s on the person, most earth have emotions and share it with u,some stable depend on the placement too. Other water sign can become lazy and emotion stress., and would lack excitement depend on placement too

I have Juno in Capricorn and Taurus in my 7th House, so I'm going to assume that Earth just might be the way to go.
Maybe if a Capricorn guy had his Moon in Pisces or Taurus and his Mercury, Venus and Mars in Aries and Leo, it'd be perfect.

I seem to attract a lot of Capricorn men. I just hope I can catch one that doesn't have any Aquarius in him.
I've had plenty of those and they're just not for me. Lol.

Tell me about it, I am a Cancer/Leo cusp with a leo moon... LOL 🙂 I usually attract Aries men, but this time i attracted a CAP, Maybe because his venus is in Sag?

Leos all the way. Sag if you can accept the fact they will sneak out everynow and then. If not, then no sag. you will end up knocking the hell out of them. Aries but you can end up at war and they will run in shock. Them not expecting you to be able to douse their fire like you can. Fiery...so avoid Taurus and Scorp. You'll hurt them in the end. Cap will be able to handle you too. Avoid airs. Your emotions with fire behind it will turn them off. Just too darn weird to them.

^Lol! Cancerlovestaurus, your post pretty much defines my entire life. I've learned that anything with a combination of Scorpio and Sagittarius is HORRIBLE for me because the guy becomes much too dominant to the point where it seems to be borderline abusive with my combination. They have a lot of sexual energy and that's hot, but they're not entirely invested in an emotional connection for some reason because of it. So its ehh. To be honest, Scorpio guys confuse me the most because I can't read them very well at all and I have NO idea what their needs are. The irony is that I'm a scorpio rising and I was raised by a woman who was a QUADRUPLE scorpio! Lol.

I went through a lot of Capricorn guys trying to find someone to date not too long ago, but they seemed sort of...rigid for me. I also read somewhere that its going to take a while to get them to open up emotionally? ;-;

Posted by Artemis
I seem to attract a lot of Capricorn men. I just hope I can catch one that doesn't have any Aquarius in him. I've had plenty of those and they're just not for me. Lol.

sorry about your bad luck with aquas :-\ my first thought was to tell you to go with an aqua with venus in cap. my cancer girl sounds just like you. mercury, venus, moon, and saturn all in leo. her fire melts me! my venus is in capricorn and it helps stabilize her. she says in my arms she feels invincible 🙂

just look for venus in an earth sign and you should be happy

Posted by Artemis
^Lol! Cancerlovestaurus, your post pretty much defines my entire life. I've learned that anything with a combination of Scorpio and Sagittarius is HORRIBLE for me because the guy becomes much too dominant to the point where it seems to be borderline abusive with my combination. They have a lot of sexual energy and that's hot, but they're not entirely invested in an emotional connection for some reason because of it. So its ehh. To be honest, Scorpio guys confuse me the most because I can't read them very well at all and I have NO idea what their needs are. The irony is that I'm a scorpio rising and I was raised by a woman who was a QUADRUPLE scorpio! Lol.

I went through a lot of Capricorn guys trying to find someone to date not too long ago, but they seemed sort of...rigid for me. I also read somewhere that its going to take a while to get them to open up emotionally? ;-;

Scorps aren't confusing. the play the strong silent figure me out type. they are very easily hurt if you ever make it in. the only thing they are hiding is that they are really afraid of everything and everyone. they don't trust anyone and they are usually pretty plain. nothing to exciting to see. the mystery is that there is not exciting mystery. the wizard is not real. just some old guy.

Haha. That was possibly the BEST description I've read about a Scorpio or a sign EVER. LMFAO. It's true, I think. My mama's a QUADRUPLE scorpio and she literally thinks that everything is a conspiracy against her personally and is very uptight about everything..and paranoid as all hell about someone's perception of her. I also became a bit closer with a Scorpio gal that is ridiculously paranoid about everything to the point where she second guesses EVERYTHING she does because she's afraid of how she'll come off.

I personally couldn't deal with that. Scorpio being my rising already intensifies the tension between my Cancer and Leo aspects (including my sex drive--lol), so I'll leave Scorpion children to Virgos. In my experience, Virgos are just as critical of everything.

As for what sort of combination is good for me, I DEFINITELY need someone who has a fiery Mars and Venus, who's moon is Capricorn, who's rising is Pisces and who's sun is Leo..maybe.

It should be like -
Sun - Leo
ASC - Taurus
Moon - Capricorn
Mercury - Aries
Venus - Leo
Mars - Aries

Someone that's fun and sexy, yet warm and stable

well, with your request being so vauge and in no way specific, I am sure that will be an easy find LOL! 🙂 ASC taurus = slow moving and cap = patient/slow Mercury and Sun = both fire..but under great control by the Earths. That would be interesting

I totally wouldn't mind someone who'd lovingly hold me down and keep me in my place. Lol!

Im not a Cancer but ive noticed that my fav couples are cardinal/cardinal, fixed/fixed, and mutable/mutable. With that being said, maybe another cardinal will work good with your energy. Out of the cardinals, it seems cancer/cap work good but it seems cancer/libra probably work just as good or better, so libra is my vote.

Still want to know......
Perhaps I get a Cardinal boy for my birthday present?

@LunarMaiden how & why did you find a thread from 2012?? Lol

BI it's a gift, I just know how to tap into the well. 😉

But I hope you get all your Birthday wishes

Lol I meant to say that aquavita is the only other person I know who can find old threads from years ago. Its all good tho right.

This is kind of a wishful thinking type post. You can't control who you'll love and you wont care what sign he is when you meet him except to try to psych out the dynamics of your relationship with him. You should think more about what you value in a partnership and man and not what sign you are theoretically compatible with. If you're compatible with someone beyond sexual chemistry, time will tell. Good luck finding a good partner in life and don't use astrology as your guide. Use your heart and then let astrology help fill in some blanks. That's the ticket!

PS: only hid prior 2 posts b/c they were the same one & dxpnet was acting wonky saying it couldn't connect to the server. Oh well...

PS: only hid prior 2 posts b/c they were the same one & dxpnet was acting wonky saying it couldn't connect to the server. Oh well...

Este8 is soo right 🙂. I usually dont let Zodiac signs determine who i date. As long as they are treating me good, that's all that matters

Yep DXP been tripping, don't worry about it Este8. Messaging makes conversations so hard

Cancer and Pisces = perfection_?'?_?'?_?'?

^^^ LOL