Do cancer women think they know it all—

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Nightstar on Wednesday, November 9, 2011 and has 10 replies.

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@Nightstar
15 Years

Been in a four year relationship with cancer girl, we have a 4 month old gem daughter. I've been feeling like everything I do is either wrong or not good enough, as I'm always being corrected by my cancer chick. And if she is wrong she won't let it go and gets emo on me and then keeps verbally fighting until I give in. I'm new to this board and would like some insight into cancer women.

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@CrabbyTwins
14 Years

You just had a baby, of course tension is high....It takes a lot to raise a child. Congratulations on your daugther being born alive and healthy btw....She is a cancer which means she is moody and sensitive and maybe shes the type that when she feels like her emotions are being attacked gets defensive about it....Talk to her.....Dont make an arguemnt out of it or a debate....and let her know that your not arguing or debating but that this is how you have been feeling....

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@extempjunk
15 Years

My sister acts like she does, haha...

I'm a Pisces, but I suspect Cancer does it because it's helpful, not because they think you're stupid or anything. Like Libra, it's a Cardinal sign and that makes me think they like taking charge in some way, in this case, possibly the domestic area. It's not really about criticizing someone else's abilities (read: Capricorn), Cancer just usually wants things to be as good as they can be, imo.

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@justSophs
16 YearsCancer

Yea I also like what extempjunk said. I always feel like i can come off as a know it all but most times I am being helpful.

But yea I think you are right, we s sometimes think we know it all and we do have a sensitive ego, which makes being wrong kind of sucky.

But good luck with the new baby.