ANY Capricorn woman that divorced Leo man?

Why did you divorce? What brought you to this point? We're one sign in the zodiac that is loyal till death. ESPECIALLY, when we find the mate we want to spend the rest of our lives with! When did you have your ticking point and let go of all your emotional baggage (we're highly sensitive, hidden always). Share your story, I need all the support!

Wait, you were the Cap, Ss and wife Leo?

NM! You're the Leo. See, that's the complete opposite of me. We're not like that! No lie could ever exhibit my lips. Pure honesty here. She sounds different than I, hrm. What day is her birthday?

I was raised to be both male and female, meaning vocally. So, generally, I am a very strong character. I don't like hogwash period.

A... Capricorn? Loyal?

I've never been married to a Leo, but I had a BFF male friend for several recent years. I think I was continually hurting his feelings because I'm very busy and I didn't take the time to stroke his ego. Leo's are very sensitive and take things to heart and a lot of times I didn't realize I was neglecting his emotional needs. Caps don't have a lot of emotional needs and Leo seems needy to us, even though they're really not. But they do need a lot of reassurance and attention and caps aren't good at recognizing that. For instance, if you don't respond to a text right away because you didn't see it, he is the type to assume it was a personal slight against him and would start imagining the friendship was over. I just don't have what it takes to make a Leo feel appreciated or reassured. Caps get tired of having to reassure other people.

I don't have any issues with Leos, I love their charisma and warmth and energy. I just don't think I can be in a relationship with one because there are a lot of differences in our approaches and I don't know if I could ever make one happy.

Posted by Magenta_Azure
A... Capricorn? Loyal?

Only to those that have proven they are worthy of it.

I dated an older Leo woman a little over a year ago.

What a train wreck!

This woman was like a Chihuahua nipping at my heels, and cackling like a hyena 24/7.

Had to put her on the road quickly. She wasn't a happy camper.

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Posted by Magenta_Azure
A... Capricorn? Loyal?

Only to those that have proven they are worthy of it.

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Lmfao

Cap women and Leo men do seem a bit popular. Another Cappie on here is married to a Leo. I can see how it works.

Ill never forget a Leo I met calling his ex Cap woman "h@ll on wheels" lol.

I remember meeting a leo on a trail i walk and him being one of the sweetest guys id talked to in a long while. It seems there would be enough differences for personal growth, exploration, freedom and enough similarities and excitement to hold it together.

Posted by Pensive
Capricorn woman here , married to a leo man. Feel like divorcing him every day 😉 Honestly every day i want to leave him and be with someone little less self obsessed but then cannot live with out him 🙂

in real life, i know of one capricorn female and male leo married for many years.

let's just say, that, it's not as great as the ones i've witnessed like that of, Pisces uncle/Libra wife, and pisces uncle/Leo wife. Or our neighbors Leo wife/Virgo husband. they have good relationships.

but if i did find any in real life who has a great relationship, i'd tell ya all. these are people i have known/met personally and know from relatives/ect that they are very happy too.

but honestly i believe it's because of how he's brought up/upbringing, because his brother is also the same way. In which they have long term mistresses. (it's kind of like Arnold Schwarzenneger where he had a long term mistress for decades and grown children and his wife didnt know) but his wife knows in this scenerio. true story.

i mean you can see it can work wonderfully!! like Obama and Michelle. And David Bowie/Iman.

but also most terrible, like Chuck Traynor and Linda Lovelace.

Posted by Gobshite
My last recollection of dating of a Leo woman was being trapped in her car, while she aimlessly drove around the city because she was lost (a city we both live in).

Tears were flowing, as she was on the verge of an emotional breakdown, and any efforts to reassure her were futile. And all the while, she refused to use her satnav. By the time we found our bearings, courtesy of the satnav, all the bars were closed. Yes, our final date amounted to that!

She never apologised for that night, nor explained why she acted that way. I was so weirded out by her behaviour that I was literally thankful to be in the open air, away from her car. And if I didn't gently persuade her to use the satnav, we probably would have been aimlessly driving around for a couple more hours.

So, why didn't she use the satnav and save such an embarrassing situation from happening? Why did she waste our time by not using it, thus completely ruining our date? Because she maintained that she constantly disagreed with it!

That says it all about Leo women...

She disagreed with the Global Position Satellite?

HO-LEE-SHIT

Posted by Gisselle
I don't know your story but think again. I'm a leo girl and i've been in a relationship with a capricorn man for 3 years. We always had a great time together and I really really loved him. Out of nowhere he just gave up on me and I suffered a lot after our breakup. I just can't understand why he left me. Anyway if you left a leo who's truly in love with you then you are the one who will have a loss.

Good luck

My Leo chick also had no clue why I sent her packing, despite me beating her over the head with the reasons (very bluntly I might add), about 25 times.

She still had a gaping mouth and wide eyes when I dropped her off at her house for the final time, and bid her farewell.

"What happened? I don't understand? Why are you doing this?"

Me: Facepalm --- rubs temples -- "Bye".

*Screeches out of driveway*

hilarious. but this is all getting really embarrassing.

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Posted by Gisselle
I don't know your story but think again. I'm a leo girl and i've been in a relationship with a capricorn man for 3 years. We always had a great time together and I really really loved him. Out of nowhere he just gave up on me and I suffered a lot after our breakup. I just can't understand why he left me. Anyway if you left a leo who's truly in love with you then you are the one who will have a loss.

Good luck

My Leo chick also had no clue why I sent her packing, despite me beating her over the head with the reasons (very bluntly I might add), about 25 times.

She still had a gaping mouth and wide eyes when I dropped her off at her house for the final time, and bid her farewell.

"What happened? I don't understand? Why are you doing this?"

Me: Facepalm --- rubs temples -- "Bye".

*Screeches out of driveway*

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My friend, I have but one thing to say:

Caps always believe that they are being clear when in fact they are being far from clear.

Now this Leo chick might very well have been dense, but I'm still willing to bet that you weren't as clear as you thought you were being.

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Posted by Gisselle
I don't know your story but think again. I'm a leo girl and i've been in a relationship with a capricorn man for 3 years. We always had a great time together and I really really loved him. Out of nowhere he just gave up on me and I suffered a lot after our breakup. I just can't understand why he left me. Anyway if you left a leo who's truly in love with you then you are the one who will have a loss.

Good luck

My Leo chick also had no clue why I sent her packing, despite me beating her over the head with the reasons (very bluntly I might add), about 25 times.

She still had a gaping mouth and wide eyes when I dropped her off at her house for the final time, and bid her farewell.

"What happened? I don't understand? Why are you doing this?"

Me: Facepalm --- rubs temples -- "Bye".

*Screeches out of driveway*

My friend, I have but one thing to say:

Caps always believe that they are being clear when in fact they are being far from clear.

Now this Leo chick might very well have been dense, but I'm still willing to bet that you weren't as clear as you thought you were being.

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I was so clear it was downright uncomfortable, LOL.

Like me saying "Hey, it's over. I don't want to see you anymore, and I am in no way attracted to you -- at all!! Please, leave me alone.

She was just that dense and in no way a reflection on Leo women at all.

I love Leo's....just not her. 🙂

In her defense, she is a fixed sign. By the end of the date you were at the conclusion of the entire relationship, while she was technically still in the midst of the date. I guess, for a normal human being, the is a bit much to process so quickly.

I do think our thought process is a little different because its so final at any moment, and since we keep so much of it in, its definitely recieved differently.

Posted by lnana04
In her defense, she is a fixed sign. By the end of the date you were at the conclusion of the entire relationship, while she was technically still in the midst of the date. I guess, for a normal human being, the is a bit much to process so quickly.

I do think our thought process is a little different because its so final at any moment, and since we keep so much of it in, its definitely recieved differently.

HAHA.

Here's the rest of the story:

We were actually out of town on a trip with some of my friends when all this occurred.

Shitty timing on my part, yes. But, I tried to wait, and my hand was forced due to her pressure and insistence. She was making an ass out of herself, and me, in front of said group of friends. I was forced to lay the cards down for her, privately at first -- then this dingbat chose to drag my friends into the fray. That's when I got brutal with my feelings.

For the next 2 days of the trip, she continued to throw herself at me (sexually), and I rebuffed her on each occasion, asking her if she understood English. She continued despite my coldness, and condescension.

On the third day, we had a long, painful drive home (6 1/2 hours), mostly silent, and when I pulled up to drop her off, I got out, helped her unload her things, and said "Sorry it didn't work out. I apologize for some of the things I've said. Farewell and good luck".

She throws her arms around my neck, proceeded to grovel and cry, and asked me was I sure this is what I wanted? Please don't do this!!!

Now, fixed sign or not, I don't think it could have been any clearer. LOL

I hear ya CapTenn!

Sometimes you just have to hurt people's feelings. I hate that, but have to resort to that sometimes for it to get through to them.

Posted by truecap
I hear ya CapTenn!

Sometimes you just have to hurt people's feelings. I hate that, but have to resort to that sometimes for it to get through to them.

I try to be nice -- always.

People just won't allow me to get by with being nice, though.

I hate being cold, but damn, it's the only thing that seems to convey the message.

You were definitely clear BUT I think you had an idea of her and the direction of the relationship before the trip. If that's the case, she should have never gone on the trip with you.

If you are really into someone I don't see cutting them completely off over embarrassment happening that quickly.

I could see where she may have been confused or felt misled. I can also see why Caps get into so much trouble.

Stories like this makes me wonder if Caps should be even more selective/picky. Wasting time and hurting feelings is not good, especially since a feeling of "this is not going to work" comes over so strongly. Then its just a clean/cold cut.

No it's really not a clean, cold cut. They know it's coming.

99% of the time, I try to tell people what is wrong, what they're doing that I don't like, what I need or don't need, what they are doing that bugs me and it seems like they don't listen. I also, would give people a warning that this has to change or it's not going to work. They don't heed the warning. Then, there's always the last straw and I try to tell them it's over. They still don't listen.

I had a cancer guy argue with me one time and I finally told him you're not hearing me! I tried explaining to him for the hundreth time why it wasn't working. He kept arguing. I finally had to be point blank rude.

Posted by lnana04
You were definitely clear BUT I think you had an idea of her and the direction of the relationship before the trip. If that's the case, she should have never gone on the trip with you.

If you are really into someone I don't see cutting them completely off over embarrassment happening that quickly.

I could see where she may have been confused or felt misled. I can also see why Caps get into so much trouble.

Stories like this makes me wonder if Caps should be even more selective/picky. Wasting time and hurting feelings is not good, especially since a feeling of "this is not going to work" comes over so strongly. Then its just a clean/cold cut.

Unfortunately, she had a small monetary investment in the trip, and had also already scheduled vacation time from work. I did try to talk her out of it, but she wasn't having any of that. I tried to bail out myself, but I had an obligation financially to my friends.

You are right, though, that I was not really that into her even before the trip, but I was still willing to give it a shot. Her decorum in public (after a few drinks) was obnoxious, and embarrassing. I can hold my liquor, and I need my woman to be able to do so as well.

Anyway, yeah, some of it was probably mismanaged by me, but damn, even after being crystal clear, she wouldn't take no for an answer!!

Funny story to tell at the very least.....

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Posted by lnana04
You were definitely clear BUT I think you had an idea of her and the direction of the relationship before the trip. If that's the case, she should have never gone on the trip with you.

If you are really into someone I don't see cutting them completely off over embarrassment happening that quickly.

I could see where she may have been confused or felt misled. I can also see why Caps get into so much trouble.

Stories like this makes me wonder if Caps should be even more selective/picky. Wasting time and hurting feelings is not good, especially since a feeling of "this is not going to work" comes over so strongly. Then its just a clean/cold cut.

Unfortunately, she had a small monetary investment in the trip, and had also already scheduled vacation time from work. I did try to talk her out of it, but she wasn't having any of that. I tried to bail out myself, but I had an obligation financially to my friends.

You are right, though, that I was not really that into her even before the trip, but I was still willing to give it a shot. Her decorum in public (after a few drinks) was obnoxious, and embarrassing. I can hold my liquor, and I need my woman to be able to do so as well.

Anyway, yeah, some of it was probably mismanaged by me, but damn, even after being crystal clear, she wouldn't take no for an answer!!

Funny story to tell at the very least.....

funny cause she wanted to date you and fought for you even tho you rejected her...and now you're talking about her as if she's an idiot.

she is an idiot for falling for a soulless entity

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She is an idiot.

Glad to see you trolling the Cap board again though. 😉

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