Can someone explains what is this?

He is a capticorn and am i leo.. We've meet long time ago like 7 or 8 years ago while we were still teenagers .. We were best friends but the click was obvious so it got developed dramatically as we fell in love with eachothers and everything was perfect .. After 4 years he proposed But just then things started to go wrong... His family hates me for unknow reason and they hurted me and kept ruin things between us in a very twisted ways and he sometimes stands with me and sometimes stands with his family side .. Till it got too complicated and we broke up .. For 2 years i didnt know anything about him .. But he was studying abroad and when he cane back he contacted me and tried his best to get me again in his life ... Sadly he wom .. I loved him all over again except he recked me never kept his promises and it was obvious he wasnt sure of what he wants .. We kepy in this cycle for another 2 yeara .. Then a month ago things started to go even worse we are fighting a lot and he was so mean he ignores what ever i say and keep ignoring me for days or even weeks ! And i cant take it !! Then i started to force him to talk to me and explains why he is doing this till i made him talk he said i dont wanna be with you anymore.. I asked why ? U r the one whos ruining it and now you leave me instead of fixing it ? He said family is a reason ... But i moved on and i met someone .. I was shocked ! How could you.. We fought a lot ! And i asked him if he wouldnt treat me well then he can leave now ! He tells me i'm so special to him and that he cant affored losing me .. He again said i loved you but i moved on and i met someone.

I mean how can you move on and meet someone while the one who always loved you is still here !!! Right here !! Arguing with u to treat them well !! I really domt understand capricorns he doesnt express his feelings and he doesnt explain anything ... I hope a capricorn can understand what fucked up shit is this and can explains to me what is hapening .. Because honestly i'm davistaed and im hurt and in so much pain .. Knowinh he met someone in such a short time.. ??

He probably knew nothing could come out of it but wanted to try one last time to see if it could from what I understand once they make an emotional bond it is not easy to break but in the end they will go with the safe and practical way. Being a Leo in your head it doesn't matter because you probably feel like if someone loves you they fight for you with a passion(I have Leo Rising I feel this way too) but even if it hurts then to let you go they will in the wholeness of the word but may pop back in over the years. Or at least that are two friends experiences wi ex Caps. I am sorry you are feeling this way. I decided to put mine strictly in the bro zone he is gonna have to walk on his head upside down and backwards to get me and I am not waiting for it to happen. If he does great if he doesn't I made a great friend. I kinda felt like mine would be held back by cultural differences with his family too. So I told myself until a man wants me as much as I want them no more hoping for anything. Keep yourself busy girl pick up a new hobbie. Something you have never tried especially on your totally alone.

I can share a personal experience, was very in love with a ex, he was a Cap too. However he is much younger and I felt he wasnt stable. During the last few mths of our r/s we werent in the best of our r/s as he was stressed at work and communication wasnt my strength then. Taking the easy way, I looked out of the r/s.

Then I met someone more stable at work and rationally this other person would be better for me, thus I broke off with my ex. I deeply regretted this a few mths later, but whats done cant be undone. Sometimes Caps are too rational, we lay out reasons for being in a r/s or not and we act on it - find a solution tht we feel would be best for all.....

i think he loved you for a long time and part of him does still love you. However, the biggest issue is with his family. He has been putting them above himself and you for several years. That's why he cannot commit to you. Have you ever tried to work things out with his family? At this point, I think that's the only way you have a chance with this guy.

Okay but we are kinda comes from a different culuture than yours ... However his mom doesnt like anything about me .. She says i make her uncomfortable and his dad doesnt have an obvious side he doesnt care about this at all .. But also his mom's friend and her daughters were with me at school amd they pretended to be my friends and i believed it and when we talked about how his mother has no obvious reasons to show her hate against me i was angry and telling them that she is mean and she is unfair and why could her son stands against her and bla bla sobthey twisted my words and start telling them that i'm a mean person and if i got married with her son i'de control hin with my love to take him away from his family and bla bla shitty stuff ...

We kinda come from **

You were both stepping out on each other. Me thinks it's the attention you like and your ego can't handle not having it.

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/did-he-lose-interest-already-6681529/

Posted by Andalusia
You were both stepping out on each other. Me thinks it's the attention you like and your ego can't handle not having it.

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/did-he-lose-interest-already-6681529/

Wait... what?

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Either way, @ni1992... you may want to hop off of the Cap/Cancer axis.

It doesn't seem to be working for you. :/