Cap Guy Mix signals

I had previously posted here...roughly 3 months ago. I had closed out that post by not continuing with him in a romantic sense. However...now not so much the case.

Recently we reconnected after 1.5 months. A mutual friend passed away and we ran into each other at the funeral. He walked straight by me..I acknowledged him by saying hi. He gave me a hug. He sat 2 chairs down from me. After the ceremony..He barely acknowledged me. After 3 hours of socializing. I end up going home. Everyone there asked him where I was..so he texted me. His friend and I started to hang at his place. Eventually his friend left and Mr. Cap and I talked and hung out. We usually laugh a lot together and have deep talks. Eventually I head home to which he said "im not working atm so hit me up next week when you wanna hang"

I hit him up 2 days later inviting him to go hiking. He started a job. A week goes by and he hits me up with a preview of the website I created for him. Lead to hanging out again.

This time..in between the laughs, i found an opportunity to speak up..of course with tact. I let him know how I feel about his behavior last year..and that the reason I held on was because we have a subtle psychic..telepathic connection. That we must have met to do something together. I reiterated an example last year.

He smiled and chimed in "Yea i remember that day..your friend was wondering what was going on. We just mumbled sounds.

I continued to say that I was also bothered about him talking to a mutual colleague about me. That if he wants to know something to ask me directly. Otherwise, Id questions his intellect and ability to obtain unbiased truth. He just nodded and acknowledged. I asked him pretty much forr for clarity.

He continues telling me again that his was in a 13 year marriage (a long time ago) and that he doesnt date..that he is a bit rusty. That he still has some hang ups..

Throughout the day we just jump around from serious to light hearted. That was the serious part. Before all that, I wanted to indirectly show him what im about by talking about how I see things pertaining to situations around me. It lead to him saying in passing "I love everything you are. EVERYTHING" He also keeps saying everytime we hang that "he wants to have babies with me"

I responded finally "so you dont call say you are rusty and shy..but you have no hang ups on getting sex..before i consider who will be the father of my children i must consider who he is to me. Will he honor and respect me? he got side tracked and started to cook me food. He usually does this everytime im over. Anyways there are a lot of great conversations and there isnt a problem but I just need to understand this cap. Everyone says let a cap man come to you. But this cap barely gets going. Only I call that isnt a problem. Its a problem when its one sided. This cant be good for any kind of relationship. His answer to me is "I came to see you (astral project not travel) "

The last time I said no once it made him disappear for 2 months.

Sun: cap

moon: aqua

rising: sag

Mercury:sag

venus: aqua

mars: sag

The last we hung out (above) ended in a good note. I gave him a kiss and that ill need to go home. Im going to florida for memorial day. He says he'll miss me. Gives me a big hug. He keeps saying "god you have such good energy..next time ill go with you"

I then said "just shoot a text /call vs coming to me through our minds consciousness"

In my shoes I know he likes me. That is without a doubt. How do I encourage him to take more initiative?

Sometimes I do feel a lack of care. he is super conflicted.. going from extreme independence to extreme introvert.

The basic "he is just busy with work" is clearly understood. " go get a life " i got one

trust. Im probably more busy. Seeking some sort of ideas that breakthrough this hump.

my post in confusing because im stuck. Not sure what details ill need to add..feel free to ask me any questions!