Can anyone tell me the bigger lessons you learn in your 30's? Both in love and in life in general? Or advice as a cap women entering this phase?
Do any of you have deep deep intuition? Like for example, a strong feeling and a partial muddled vision, of something happening in your future? And you're right every time?
What types of relationships have been the best for you, sign wise? How did you manage the issues that arose with that sign?
What's something you want to improve about the way you work/approach the world?
Are you able to read people very well, almost to a fault? I have been called "too smart for my own good" by past lovers. The way I look at it this is: I'm really good at detecting bs, but the problem is most people are full of bs and I tend to run from it. Does this kind of stuff leave ya lonely at times?
The intuition and reading people, I attribute to my moon. Never associated it with my sun. Scorp moons have an uncanny ability to pick up vibes from people. Also, a knack for willing things into fruition.
Thirty is when I started to get it. I grew into myself and started to shed my self doubt. Dunno about big lessons, but lots of little ones that made a huge impact and gave me a new found confidence. Not the chickeniness of youth, that’s usually overcompensating for shortcomings, but actual confidence. We’re like omelette pans. Getting better seasoned with every passing year.
Romantically, I’m digging the Virgo. Over 2yrs in and still no fight or arguments. And it’s not from a lack of passion, but an ever open line of communication. Don’t care what kind of relationship you’re talking about, finding effective ways to communicate is a make or break. Semi related, that’s one of the lessons learned in my 30’s.
My outlook on life is pragmatic, which is fine, but I should work on being more positive. Also, I’m a huge procrastinator and really need to get off my duff.