Cap women... wtf

is it worth it dealing with a work-a-holic cap? she's a sweet, nice girl... Friday night,we made out, she held my hand all night, shes a sweet girl.

afterwards she was like I don't have a lot of time in my life.. she does work two jobs. I think she's trying to keep her distance.

Should I just end it with her and just be friendly? She really enjoys our time together...plus the make out session was nice... but I already know how I am and not enough attention I'm going to look around.

or

is she just testing me to see if its worth putting the time into advancing our physical connection.

thanks @greylatern

and that's really my point. we just started, so while I like her, I just don't want the obligation of "not looking"...while she might be feeling a different way as she's spending her free time with me.

What's up with us Sag-Cap crushes,seem so often 🙂 like others said it seems she's very busy but wants to spend her time with you. BUT knowing us Sags and our need for attention plus in this scenario you're a man...doesn't look very promising unless you're really crazy about her and ready to have huge amount of patience. For me as Sag woman it's not working out well with Cap male...seems less likely to work with Sag male and Cap female. But again if you can gather a lot of patience for her schedule and can really be faitful to her then go for it 🙂

Posted by hellosaggy
is it worth it dealing with a work-a-holic cap? she's a sweet, nice girl... Friday night,we made out, she held my hand all night, shes a sweet girl.

afterwards she was like I don't have a lot of time in my life.. she does work two jobs. I think she's trying to keep her distance.

Should I just end it with her and just be friendly? She really enjoys our time together...plus the make out session was nice... but I already know how I am and not enough attention I'm going to look around.

or

is she just testing me to see if its worth putting the time into advancing our physical connection.

it sounds like she's on a mission to accomplish some sort of financial ? goal - ask her why she works two jobs - there is a reason and that is worth a lot in my book anyway - sometimes there is no time for someone who needs far more than we do when we are in that place - because we have a job to do first - literally ... it does suck tho (says my lazy azz Taurus) and my Aries Venus wants to hang out too lol ...

Posted by hellosaggy
thanks @greylatern

and that's really my point. we just started, so while I like her, I just don't want the obligation of "not looking"...while she might be feeling a different way as she's spending her free time with me.

She never asked you to 'not look' so idk why you would feel obligated.

well she is a bartender... during spring/summer tourist season she can get away with working one job on weekends while taking classes in college. now that the tourists are gone she picked up another gig to work on Sundays, Mondays, and Thursdays (Football season) to make more money.

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Posted by hellosaggy
thanks @greylatern

and that's really my point. we just started, so while I like her, I just don't want the obligation of "not looking"...while she might be feeling a different way as she's spending her free time with me.

She never asked you to 'not look' so idk why you would feel obligated.

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So it should be understandable that people look around when they date someone unless specifically said otherwise? In my understanding it's the opposite of that.

And regarding this issue to OP simply ask her what she sees you like/what she would like it to be? But good luck with getting that out of Cap in short time lol they simply can't state their mind from what i see so far

Posted by hellosaggy
is it worth it dealing with a work-a-holic cap? she's a sweet, nice girl... Friday night,we made out, she held my hand all night, shes a sweet girl.

afterwards she was like I don't have a lot of time in my life.. she does work two jobs. I think she's trying to keep her distance.

Should I just end it with her and just be friendly? She really enjoys our time together...plus the make out session was nice... but I already know how I am and not enough attention I'm going to look around.

or

is she just testing me to see if its worth putting the time into advancing our physical connection.

i have a very good idea about Capricorn women,

because my grandma was one,and my mother in law and my middle school all through high school best friend was one.

unless...you are Barack Obama...

or Prince William

she got no time because she need to make that money...

depends though, what are her placements? lol

@Malak

That's my point. If she's giving me her free time and in my extra free time I am keeping my options open its not a good look.

The hand holding makes it more than just a casual dating type situation. I can't see her having more free time until the spring.

Her placements:

Sun, Mercury, Mars, Uranus, Neptune in Cap

Gemini Moon

Sag Venus

Scorp Pluto

She's being factual and moving slow it seems. She will give you time when she fully trusts you. That's my advice as a Cap woman....

Just be honest and clear about your intentions and needs! 😊 She told u straight up how it is regarding her free time.

Caps don't test

She has a gem moon and sag venus! She might surprise you with quickies here and there if nit much time is left 😎

Posted by hellosaggy
@Malak

That's my point. If she's giving me her free time and in my extra free time I am keeping my options open its not a good look.

The hand holding makes it more than just a casual dating type situation. I can't see her having more free time until the spring.

Her placements:

Sun, Mercury, Mars, Uranus, Neptune in Cap

Gemini Moon

Sag Venus

Scorp Pluto

Best is to talk open about it with her. Might be she doesn't expect to much of a serious relationship either but can't know unless you get the answer from her. Anyway, that's at least how I would do it since I prefer honesty and to know where I stand at with someone. People may have completely different look at same things if they don't communicate well about it. They're workaholics really and we all have to accept it lol but see how it fits your style and talk to her open about what she expects from your relationship