Cappy Man = Mixed Signals

So, I've been talking to my Cappy man for about 3 months now and he keeps giving me mixed signals. I wish he would make a decision on whether or not he wants me. Somedays he's very sweet and then others he's very cold and distant.

Are Cappy men normally like this ? Is there any way for me to tell if he likes me? HELP

from what i've read around here... yes, they are normally like that. and you could try asking him if he likes you, but also given what i've read... i wouldn't trust his answer. fortunately it seems that 'yes' means 'yes', but 'no' could also mean 'yes.' unfortunately, figuring him out is likely to be frustrating and will try your patience ...to say the least.

mind you... this is all based on what i've read on this board. i personally have little romantic experience with this species of man.

I just find myself getting really frustrated. I don't mind being patient, but I wish I knew if my patience will pay off.

He's a very busy man - work, kids, and extracurricular activities with the kids and our contact with each other has been limited now. Most of my friends think that despite his busy schedule that he would find some time to see me. But after reading a bunch of blogs, I've noticed that Cappys are really busy and sometimes they do leave you hanging.

I've tried to let him go 3 times now and he comes looking for me and pulls me back in. I mean, there has to be some interest there, because I doubt he would keep me around if he didn't feel something for me. I think he needs to sort through his head and really figure out if he wants me or not.

So confused !!!!!

Hi reallylikescapricorns

I've noticed that Cappys are really busy and sometimes they do leave you hanging.

Uh oh ... yes, I have done that on a few occasions, but mean to leave anyone hanging -- I just get so caught in my own world sometimes, that I completely lose touch with what going on around me.

Capricorns focus on their central environment when they are busy. Has nothing to do with blowing people off but that does happen to us sometimes. Also, we tend to avoid people when we are feeling overwhelmed.

Yes, more patience is required. I'm impatient to begin with so this has taken so much out of me. I don't want to try too hard and then get disappointed that one day he's going to turn around and not want anything to do with me. I guess I have to go with my gut instinct - which changes every hour on the hour.