Thank you StillWater. I am in 100% agreement with your statement A remorseful, loving man would try to convince you to tay with him and ways he can change; however instead its like he is throwing a pity party for himself and told me to take some time to figure out things. My response was I'm so confused by this, instead of you trying to make me feel secure and make me what to give this a chance you saying how emotionally drained you are. You did this all to yourself. I told him that I feel in love with him flaws and all and this could be an opportunity for us to have clean start, but he falls back to pity party thing and how he hurt all these people and he is not a good guy. I then stated in a very direct tone you know what why dont you man up and just say you want us over, instead of having me give you an easy way out. I'm not going to do that. Relationships are work and I think you are scared as hell of actually moving forward with your life. You and this girl have been off and on for 6yrs and the story always ends up the same you break up with her for someone else because youre not happy but then once life starts becoming real you run back to your safe zone just to play this whole saga over and over again. I've told you how I feel and you cant say anything but I love you and need to process this all of this. I told him to stop thinking with his brain and for once follow his heart, let himself feel because the man I love and man that was with me is not the man in front of me. I left and havent heard from him today. I think I'll take that as bye. I'm just shocked how someone can do this for so long and not feel bad.
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1. a distinct portion of written or printed matter dealing with a particular idea, usually beginning with an indentation on a new line.
verb (used with object)
2. to divide into paragraphs.
Origin:
1515—25; earlier paragraphe < Greek paragraph— marked passage; see para-1 , graph