Capricorn intrinsic attraction to sags?

I'm a Capricorn man and Iv'e noticed after nearly 8 years of dating and being in relationships that nearly every woman has been sagittarius bar a couple pisces and Libras, With friendships however I have a mixed bag. Are there any other capricorns who have this subconscious attraction, is it down to my specific birth chart, is it just pure coincidence or is it a case of opposites attracting? I don't see it as a problem, more just a curiosity as Iv'e read that cap/sag aren't the greatest of relationships.

Show us the rest of your chart, it might hold some clues.

As for me, I've dated Sags and had a period where I would only attract Aquas and Virgos. It happens. 🙂

Posted by TigerCap
Show us the rest of your chart, it might hold some clues.

As for me, I've dated Sags and had a period where I would only attract Aquas and Virgos. It happens. 🙂

IV'e attracted and been attracted to sags mostly. but for me it wasn't a period of time it's pretty much been since Iv'e dated lol

is this what you were referring to?

Rising sign = scorpio
Sun = Capricorn
Moon = sagittarius
Mercury = capricorn
VENUS = PISCES
Mars = pisces
Jupiter = capricorn
saturn = scorpio
Uranus = sagittarius
neptune = capricorn
pluto = scorpio

Posted by Gobshite
Sags are bad news. You must love punishing yourself.

lol in general or for a capricorn?

Sag here and I have a Cap I'm dealing with and I like him but the hot and cold is driving me nuts! When were together we act like kids and he we can't keep our hands off each other but he'll disappear and I don't know if he's with someone else or just need time. It's funny because I have been looking for another Cap to get pointers from and didn't know he was right under my nose and his wife is a Sag too but they are totally different Caps!!! The cap buddy's Bday is (dec.27) the cap I am seeing bday is (jan.8) the buddy is really sweet and open to discussing his feelings and he doesn't like to always be right very understanding. My friend comes off dictatorial hardly ever shows emotion and doesn't like to talk about his feelings at all. He will go on an on about his work but shut down when I try to talk about us. Y R they so different I thought my buddy could help but he's nothing like my friend. We have been talking for a year and I am puzzled has to where I am with him. Would letting him know that I think it's best we stop talking because of his lack of communication and my fear of getting hurt be a good thing to do? I am starting to feel some type of way about him but don't want to rush anything. I've been giving him space because he has been working on something near an dear to him but today I tried to make him laugh with a lil joke by textn him this: knock knock, he plays along and say's who's there. I say " let me in" and he says with over 16,000 views overnight come on in... Is that a good sign—?!!!!! What should I do with this Cap?!!

Posted by Ahriman
I'm a Capricorn man and Iv'e noticed after nearly 8 years of dating and being in relationships that nearly every woman has been sagittarius bar a couple pisces and Libras, With friendships however I have a mixed bag. Are there any other capricorns who have this subconscious attraction, is it down to my specific birth chart, is it just pure coincidence or is it a case of opposites attracting? I don't see it as a problem, more just a curiosity as Iv'e read that cap/sag aren't the greatest of relationships.

I haven't been in a relationship with a Sag, but I am drawn to Sags as friends. I like their honesty, their energy, their openness, their general sense of acceptance, the way they make everyone feel welcome and cared for, and they are generally just fun. I feel like they have a lot of qualities I don't have and I suppose that's what draws me to them. Oh, they drive me nuts with their ADD quality when it comes to time management and it irritates me when they waste my time, but I always end up forgiving them easily. Can't help but to forgive them because they're so sincere with their apologies.
🙂

Truecap I took your advice and I wait for him to come aroun. He just txtd me GM so it may take some time but he keeps in touch. I still am puzzled as to where we are or where I stand with him an that frustrates me. We were talking and he has made the comment that he was hungry and asked me was I gone " fix my man something to eat"... But I didn't take that as "we're" official because he's a big joker. I want to discuss US but not run him off or make him shut down. What's a good way to discuss this? I'm really liking him but don't want to get hurt either so that's Y I am thinking about just walking away. It's been a year and I have been patient but I don't won't to keep pushing others away if he feels there's not much there.

Well, after a year, you should know where you stand. How he introduces you to people, etc is pretty telling. If you can't have this conversation after a year, then it doesn't look good.

At this point in time, there is nothing wrong with telling him what you want and expect and asking him if he is on the same page.

Saggy female here with a Cap male (undefined relationship) for 16 months. There are many positives including amazing sex, but major differences in mindsets as well:

Slow moving vs quick acting
Positive vs Negative
Abundance vs not enough
Easy going vs critical
Spontaneous vs rigid

Caps are formidable, and a great challenge for us. Both signs can accomplish great things but take a totally different approach. I think for the relationship to work, the two must understand each others differences and work together with respect. If not, I can see this pair hurting each other a a lot.

Posted by Saglife333
Sag here and I have a Cap I'm dealing with and I like him but the hot and cold is driving me nuts! When were together we act like kids and he we can't keep our hands off each other but he'll disappear and I don't know if he's with someone else or just need time. It's funny because I have been looking for another Cap to get pointers from and didn't know he was right under my nose and his wife is a Sag too but they are totally different Caps!!! The cap buddy's Bday is (dec.27) the cap I am seeing bday is (jan.8) the buddy is really sweet and open to discussing his feelings and he doesn't like to always be right very understanding. My friend comes off dictatorial hardly ever shows emotion and doesn't like to talk about his feelings at all. He will go on an on about his work but shut down when I try to talk about us. Y R they so different I thought my buddy could help but he's nothing like my friend. We have been talking for a year and I am puzzled has to where I am with him. Would letting him know that I think it's best we stop talking because of his lack of communication and my fear of getting hurt be a good thing to do? I am starting to feel some type of way about him but don't want to rush anything. I've been giving him space because he has been working on something near an dear to him but today I tried to make him laugh with a lil joke by textn him this: knock knock, he plays along and say's who's there. I say " let me in" and he says with over 16,000 views overnight come on in... Is that a good sign—?!!!!! What should I do with this Cap?!!

Your not getting the right answers because your asking the wrong type of questions...

Look in eyes, say, "I like you","are you going to kiss me or what?" I think that would work on me. That or i would laugh it off and pretend like your joking, it would be my way of keeping that person in the " friend zone" . Good luck.

I've been told I'm hard to read, but that came from someone I liked but had no interest in a future with.

My fav youtube couple is a cap female and sag male. Everyone that watches their channel have nothing but positive things to say about their family.

Sag female here I've mostly attracted Caps! Ohh another Cap no sh*t? Lol. Could work. Personal experience, both give each other headaches! It's a no go for me, love the females though!!

Sags and caps couldnt be more different from one another, its not the type of different that could be beneficial, growth-wise, they simply live in two diametrically opposed worlds, Saturn is the planet of limitation, contraction, melancholy. Whereas Jupiter is all about expansion, progress and optimism. Sag sun-Cap sun is probably the worst match on paper.

Ok sureshotcap... What do I need to ask— When I get blunt an direct he shuts down. Like today we were txtn and I asked him what he expected of me... His response was he didn't know. I always tell him what I want but when it comes down to him telling me he acts as if he can't. What's up with that— How do I get him to open up or discuss certain things? What do I need to say without pissing him off?

SunMoonStars... O my gosh!!! How do U do it— I like a challenge but he's something else_—_??

Saglife333, I feel you girl! If he was my boyfriend and acted that way I would probably have dumped him a long time ago. Life is too short for that shit, and I think the world is uncertain enough without having to guess what someone wants and thinks. Mind games suck 😢