Capricorn M says..

What means, I mean what does a Capricorn man really mean when he says: "You are mine, only mine, I am your future."?

Is he beinh obsessive? Or is it by pure love? You think he means it? How should I react to this?

(My instant reaction was simply staring at him..LOL! He said it so powerfully, I just didnt know what to say.)

Umm my Cap man said that and I took it to mean we were on a good track, but what it wound up meaning was I was loyal to HIM and he treated me like ... a possession.

But I was not his only possession (meaning, I was HIS, but he was not just mine. He was mine and a few other girls.)

I was bugged by this when he said it to me, even without knowing that detail, because to me it meant he saw me as something he could control. But that was also a fundamental problem in our relationship.

Posted by capshoot
Umm my .. wound up meaning was I was loyal to HIM and he treated me like ... a possession.

Therein lies the difference between a Capricorn female and a Pisces female: The Cap woman's strong sense of pride doesn't let her be treated like a possession whereas some Pisces women absolutely WANT to be completely possessed 🙂

...especially in love.

Lol. I meant more like being treated like an object. A thing. Not a sweet, romantic passionate possession where we 'belong' to each other. There is a huge difference and that has nothinggg to do with pride.

The lol fucked it all up

In other words, my impression is he said it, he meant it. Your staring at him blankly and not saying it back fucked it all up.

Sorry.

He will be gunshy from saying it again. He expected a similar response and you didn't give it. You missed your chance.

Posted by truecap
In other words, my impression is he said it, he meant it. Your staring at him blankly and not saying it back fucked it all up.

Sorry.

He will be gunshy from saying it again. He expected a similar response and you didn't give it. You missed your chance.

I took my breath away and made me speechless, TrueCap. Nobody has ever said something like that to me, and to be honest, I love that he feels that way. I personally like men who is very dominant and who shows off and are rock solid when it comes to their future - its such a turn on for me!! LOL. Caps don't like surprises, they like to know whats coming next, but they are quite good at surprising other. And that was that moment. My heart blossomed..the words went straight to my soul,..and If he really meant what he said, he would have looked for any types of response. I am sure my eyes gave him the response he wanted. And again...then he won't have any problem saying it again??

Fingers crossed!

Caps are reluctant to take a risk and we don't like going out on that limb all alone. If the response isn't positive, a capricorn will withdraw some and worry about how what they said was taken. I suppose I can only speak for myself, but I would feel embarrassed, or self conscious or vulnerable. We don't like being vulnerable like that. Deep down, we are more insecure than we appear.

I think you'll have to say it next. Otherwise, he will not say it for a long, long time.

Is he married?

better be ready. I think he means business. I married a Cap Man(Feb.16) and believe me for a scorpio woman he have absolutely blown my mind since November.