cluelessgirl
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Capricorn man's level of interest
@Foreverloveme Thank you very much for you help.
I've never had this kind of situation before. With my friends, I'd just hang out if they ask and I'm free, I rarely ask people join me because most of the things I like to do doesn't require companies. Besides a few one time date set up by friends, I only seriously dated 2 men before. They were very forward person, so I knew clearly I was dating, not just hanging out with a friend, and I was totally fine to plan dates in that case. I have no experience with people being subtle, I could pick up a few signs when you pointed it out, but I have no clue myself. I'm used to clear line between platonic friends and dates, this kind of vague friend is new to me.
I've never had this kind of situation before. With my friends, I'd just hang out if they ask and I'm free, I rarely ask people join me because most of the things I like to do doesn't require companies. Besides a few one time date set up by friends, I only seriously dated 2 men before. They were very forward person, so I knew clearly I was dating, not just hanging out with a friend, and I was totally fine to plan dates in that case. I have no experience with people being subtle, I could pick up a few signs when you pointed it out, but I have no clue myself. I'm used to clear line between platonic friends and dates, this kind of vague friend is new to me.
Posted by ForeverlovemeSo how long you have been in this situation? Neither of you have expressed the intention to stay platonic friends or start dating? We have been texting everyday since last time I visited here. It's all silly funny pics, not much interesting verbal conversation. I'm thinking of just asking him: do you think we should meet up? If it's negative response, I'd just take him as another platonic friend and stop entertaining the daily texting.Posted by cluelessgirlYes, I get it & can totally relate. I'm in a similar situation myself.
@Foreverloveme Thank you very much for you help.
I've never had this kind of situation before. With my friends, I'd just hang out if they ask and I'm free, I rarely ask people join me because most of the things I like to do doesn't require companies. Besides a few one time date set up by friends, I only seriously dated 2 men before. They were very forward person, so I knew clearly I was dating, not just hanging out with a friend, and I was totally fine to plan dates in that case. I have no experience with people being subtle, I could pick up a few signs when you pointed it out, but I have no clue myself. I'm used to clear line between platonic friends and dates, this kind of vague friend is new to me.click to expand
Posted by ForeverlovemeThis right here. ??
I would recommend just let go and move on with your life. If he comes around at a later time, you can make the decision from there...he could just be busy with school, project, etc.
Posted by CAPLOCKThanks, I figured so. I'm the same, I like people but I need a lot of my own time and space. I can be goofy around, but I just don't flirt with my platonic friends. I need to make that part clear with him then.
He's flirting with you and playful. He needed someone to socialize with. Hes only interested in being friends and nothing more.
As a Capricorn guy im busy with alot of things and sometimes its nice to make new friends to talk with inorder to buffer stress.
As Capricorns we enjoy socializing but than we also love our own time.
If I did plan and moving things forward, id invite you to the Cafe or some activity to really get to know you. No flirting. We take relationships seriously if we're interested in more.
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I've reciprocated all the things he started, emailing and texting. If he asked me any questions, I'll answer honestly; I've shown him the same level of attention and interest. I don't think I should offer more than what he currently deserve especially I don't know him in person yet.
I planned to ask him about setting up a phone call and meet-up when we text again after I asked suggestions here. But the weird thing is he stopped text me back before this when I asked a question about how his school project goes...It's strange because it's almost 2 days, he usually respond me in 24 hours...Maybe he grew some psyche and sensed I'm going to ask him to meet up? lol.