@v s o p
17 Years500+ Posts
Tough one! Next time remember that when you're doing things for someone, not to expect ANYTHING back. So, if you're paying her rent in hopes to win her heart, you're wasting your time. Only help a person when you're comfortable with giving as much as you give and don't expect them to be forever thankful for your kindness. Now that I've got that out of the way, ignore her. She'll be confused why you aren't up in her face anymore and come looking for you (if she really does love you.) Don't cheat. Be cool and give her plenty of space.
dude, she obviously doesn't respect u. ur acting like her personal doormat. u keep doing all these things for her and it sounds like ur coming off as desperate. she has probably picked up on it and is taking advantage of u. i think u need to exit this situation and get ur head straight.
I would highly recommend telling her to shove off and ask for someone else to pay her rent. What kind of girl does this crap? Did you sign up to be her sugar daddy? I didn't think so.
Move on to someone who has at least an ounce of respect for you. She obviously doesn't.
Posted by v s o p
what to do when you guys dissapear for days or weeks or months i want to keep her but dam i was that close to seeing her last night but she sliped right threw my fingers and i went CRAZY i like kept calling her txing her leaving voicemails i wanted to call her a Bi!! h so bad but i kept my cool i been good to her i payed her rent so she woundnt get kicked out i did so much stuff for her she keep telling me she love me when she not in her dark mood! when she dissapear what should i be doing till she come back dont say cheat !
Dude, 1st -- I say you really need to relax. Calm down. Just because you haven't seen her or spoken to her in a couple of days doesn't mean its the end of the world lol. For crying-out-loud, maybe the girl needs her space, ya think?
Plus, I thought you didn't have serious feelings for this cap girl 😉 What happened?
Anyway, sometimes we caps really need our space, its nothing personal -- if she has an air moon, than she will want her space even more. Personally, I don't want a guy around me constantly, its nothing personal, its just the idea that he needs to go and do something else other than just being with me all the time.
Just some words from a capricorn girl who has done the whole disappearing act. I will admit, I do it too but only if I need to just be "me" without "him" for a while. It has nothing to do with whether or not a care, so don't start believing that she doesn't care just because you have seen her in like a day or so.
Relax man.
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what to do when you guys dissapear for days or weeks or months i want to keep her but dam i was that close to seeing her last night but she sliped right threw my fingers and i went CRAZY i like kept calling her txing her leaving voicemails i wanted to call her a Bi!! h so bad but i kept my cool i been good to her i payed her rent so she woundnt get kicked out i did so much stuff for her she keep telling me she love me when she not in her dark mood! when she dissapear what should i be doing till she come back dont say cheat !