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Posted by truecapPosted by CrabMan13I think this sounds very couply. Yall aren't a couple, but this sounds like you're assuming you are. If she doesn't like you like that, this text could have given her an "icky" feeling.
S because I'm with you guys, and I'm with you." .
You asked her out before and she turned you down. sooooo......
She turned cold because she doesn't want to lead you on or give you any ideas about her being interested.click to expand
After rereading his message I agree with this 1000 percent. I also don't think its was a good thing for her to invite him if he already asked her out and she wasn't interested.
Posted by HeartYeah, how is that withdrawing and hiding working when you have a really nice guy in front of you?
Ok, one thing important to know about women, is that chasing doesn't mean that one will take interest. Either she likes you, or she doesn't. Too often men feel the need to prove themselves when really no one has to prove themselves. Advice for a Cap, and it's just funny since it's been several times I've commented on similar threads, is don't push it, find common ground, be respectful, and give space once and a while. Capricorn, Aries, Taurus, and Gemini, are all signs that lean toward independence and don't like when a person makes them feel closed in. It isn't that we don't care, it's just that we lead full lives. If her behavior changed you can ask how she's been. And sharing something person about you will put the situation at ease.
A female Capricorn, with Sun or Moon, isn't going to wear their heart on their sleeve. We have a fear of getting hurt. There are two reasons why she behaves this way: either she's not interested, or she's being distant because she does feel the same way but wants to hide it.
This might seem backwards, but I've had a tendency of withdrawing when I start having feelings for someone.
Btw, aren't you Virgo? Virgo women are more honest about their feelings.
It takes a strong, confident man.
Posted by truecapIt's also a matter of communication. A lot of guys including me can only put up with so much silence and walls.
It takes a strong, confident man.
So true!!
GUYS THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE ADVICE AND INSIGHTS! I REALLY APPRECIATE IT. Maybe she's not into me, so I decided to just let it go, I don't want to waste my time and our friendship because of my feelings, do you have any tips for me in order to restore my friendship with her like before?
I have an update: Last Tuesday, I asked her if she wants to go home together, because I'll be working a little bit later than usual, I told her she can say no but she said it's up to me and she'll be staying late too. So after two hours, she texted me that she'll go home, I told her that she can go ahead because I'm not yet finished. After 20 minutes, she texted me that she's about to pack up. Ending, we went home together. In the vehicle we are sitting next to each other, but she's still cold and distant towards me and it feels like she's annoyed by me. We just sat in silence during the remaining minutes of our ride. I just don't get it why would she wait for me? when I gave her time to go home already, I didn't forced her to wait for me or to go home with me. Why is she like that?
THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN GUYS! THANK YOU FOR THE TIME AND HONESTY!
I have an update: Last Tuesday, I asked her if she wants to go home together, because I'll be working a little bit later than usual, I told her she can say no but she said it's up to me and she'll be staying late too. So after two hours, she texted me that she'll go home, I told her that she can go ahead because I'm not yet finished. After 20 minutes, she texted me that she's about to pack up. Ending, we went home together. In the vehicle we are sitting next to each other, but she's still cold and distant towards me and it feels like she's annoyed by me. We just sat in silence during the remaining minutes of our ride. I just don't get it why would she wait for me? when I gave her time to go home already, I didn't forced her to wait for me or to go home with me. Why is she like that?
THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN GUYS! THANK YOU FOR THE TIME AND HONESTY!
Hi, is anyone there? ahahaha! So the capricorn girl I like is somewhat back to her self, she is now texting me again, and instead of calling me Friend she'd call me FRIENDSHIP now. So I guess I'm just a friend to her. Sad. Thanks again everyone.
Shes probably trying to work you out, i knw i act quite cold towards people until i feel i have sussed them out.
It maybe shes just observing you discreetly to see what your all about or that shes in deep thought as to where this is going to. If shes been hurt in the past she may be just scared of getting hurt again.
It maybe shes just observing you discreetly to see what your all about or that shes in deep thought as to where this is going to. If shes been hurt in the past she may be just scared of getting hurt again.
Oh ive just read your recent post,
Friendship can always blossom into something else, give her timeŠ
Friendship can always blossom into something else, give her timeŠ
Posted by Leyla00
Shes probably trying to work you out, i knw i act quite cold towards people until i feel i have sussed them out.
It maybe shes just observing you discreetly to see what your all about or that shes in deep thought as to where this is going to. If shes been hurt in the past she may be just scared of getting hurt again.
Posted by Leyla00Hi @Leyla00 Thanks for the response. Well after the the ignoring week we are sort of texting again and like what I said she calls me friendship now, but it feels like I'm back to square one with again, like we have this barrier all over again, every progress I made to break her walls before was totally wiped out. I hate how I can't read your minds cappie woman. 😢
Oh ive just read your recent post,
Friendship can always blossom into something else, give her timeŠclick to expand
Im a capricorn, dont know too much about signs to be honest never have read up on them. Just thinking i also can do the cold thing and the only time i do it is if im unsure of someone,or if im trying to work someone out, trust and honesty to me is very important to me. So sometimes i can come across as cold but im just in trying to work you out mode or in thinking mode.
Id give ber space , thats one thing i dislike someone constantly after my attention. Dont appear needy that can be a turn off, even as a friend.
I used to have a female friend who was one of them needy friends that was constantly bombarding me with texts and calls, thats when id get cold. I need my own space.
She may have other issues going on in her life thats also makin her act cold or she may be just afraid of getting hurt.
I feel abit silly now ive made a thread myself on a man doing this hot and cold act , seems like i do it myself from time to time too©
Sorry if ive confused you even more lol
Id give ber space , thats one thing i dislike someone constantly after my attention. Dont appear needy that can be a turn off, even as a friend.
I used to have a female friend who was one of them needy friends that was constantly bombarding me with texts and calls, thats when id get cold. I need my own space.
She may have other issues going on in her life thats also makin her act cold or she may be just afraid of getting hurt.
I feel abit silly now ive made a thread myself on a man doing this hot and cold act , seems like i do it myself from time to time too©
Sorry if ive confused you even more lol
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