Capricorns could be attention seekers?

Well,iam talking on the phone and online,text messages(record 80/per day)with a December Capman for about 2 months.
He asked me to meet quite at beggining,but i declined(some health problems on my part,saying we will at some point).
I said we could meet on his birthay,he agreed(but he told me he was working ,1 day before his b-day).So,i felt a bit like a stood up,but i did understand him in the end.
We agreed to meet Saturday(today),but i had a txt message telling me he is having a hangover.
,but nothing about the date.
So,i think is stood up again-).
Why he is doing this,we talk quite a lot,he told me a lot about his life and old relationships.We agreed to take it slowly,he said is ok,even if doesnt like so much.

Who is suggesting the meet ups?

If he is, maybe life is getting in the way. He also probably wants to be able to be his best self when he meets you. I would question it like you are but would give him another chance. Next time he suggests meeting agree but only if no cancellations. You can say it like a joke teasing him.

if you're the one making suggestions to meet and he keeps canceling, I would assume he isn't that interested in meeting.

Yes to your question. Everyone likes attention sometimes...caps are not excluded.

It sounds like he is being an @ss in a way. Sometimes if they are rejected, even once, then things can get a little messy. Feelings get in the way, and depending on how you canceled the first time, he could be getting a little revenge by playing games. Just saying.

That could be it inana

He plus me plans the meetings(actually he asked me when he can see me,I told him Saturday,he said why not Thursday,i said i was busy Thursday); he said is fine Saturday.
So,he asked me when,i said,asked if is convinient for him,too and we both agreed Saturday.
I think he is doing for revenge(because i denied meeting him at the beggining,due health reasons,which i explained to him,he seemed understanding,but he remembered to me few times i didnt want to see him in early stages.
Should i give him other chance?if he will stood me up again?
He is very clever but very complicated too-).
He didnt send me any text or call after he sent me the text saying something like ,,my head hurts,i need silence,,to say we cant meet today.
I think iam not lucky with Cap men,to shame-(

Sometimes what we want isn't always black-and-white either. If it is for you, and you know exactly what you want from him, ask him what he wants and go from there. At this point you have nothing to lose since he hasn't given you anything other than the same attention you've given him.

Life does happen. People can and sometimes do play games. There are three sides to every story.

Ultimately, it's your decision if you feel he's worth it.

If you going to message someone 80 times per day then that is either record breaking or something else?

The long long convo of texts happened over the last days,when both of us,didnt work,just chilling on holiday season,so could be from boredom,from his part.I just carried away(we talked various things from movies,music to cooking and politics).
I will give the cold shoulder,anyway iam not impressed anymore,now.

Now it sounds like a game. 😢

Just get busy and don't keep your phone on you. Then it will be sincere.

I think that too-is a game!
Actually he called me 2 times,i answered the second time and asked about Saturday.He said he waited for a text message from me,but since my phone was out of credit,he didnt receive:we could meet other time,if is that ok,he said.
I said he could have called me(i could receive ,but i cant make phone calls).Yeah,i know stupid phone.
Anyway i said to him i dont like games and if is for that it will not work.
Shame,we really find a laughing time together.Iam out of a relationship for a bit now,also he is from other relationship since September.Thats why i said to him to go slow..
On other note,the ex cap who drove me mad for 6 months, asked me if i want to go to a NEW YEAR party at a restaurant(where i knew few people).
I answered i dont know,i have other plans,but thanks for invitation.
Asked if he has a new girlfriend now,he said yes-i become upset with him and said why he is inviting me,since he has a girlfriend,for me to stay sulky there?Yeah,i should kept my cool-).
He said to be nice ,to have fun,thats why he invited me.I got cross and i said to not talk with me again.I said people have feelings to,he must be more sensible about that.
And yes he has a new girlfriend,she was to the party!Very bussines like,serious type i think they go good together.

Yes,the one now is very chatty,phone,texts!the other cap ,before was very reserved( i didnt like his ways at all).The second one,i cant figure him out.
So this analysis is killing me, but i cant help it-Iam a Virgo,i cant stop analyze-)).