Posted by capgirl75
Are you going to finally blow the whistle on him? This will backfire on you.
I never have been in this situation.
With the Cap I dated, I had suspicions of this, but I never called him out on it. My feeling was that he would deny it. When I broke it off with him, I explained several points to him, and I included some of my suspicious findings. He did not respond to the suspicions at all. He responded to everything else and kind of just glossed over those parts.
I had caught him in a few other lies. He denied them and he told new lies to cover them.
Posted by cowpuncher
Nobody could possibly be this dumb, and no Leo would EVER tolerate being in 2nd place as the "other" woman for 3 years. Also notable is the fact that in 3 years on this site, she still does not know her chart, or her alleged Cap's chart. Of all the thousands of ppl who have posted on DXP about relationship issues, this is unique, and it smells. They all at least get that information, and share some of it, for added insight in a 3 year ongoing drama... usually it's provided in their first posts. Not so with Faith! If it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, it's a duck... and Faith quacks like a troll playing VERY dumb in an attempt to stir things up a bit, annoy, entertain itself... whatever. You all know for a fact if she were to "quack" like a woman curious about the relationship issues she asks about, she would know those two charts inside out AND post them seeking further insight.
Faith is a troll ppl... move along, nothing to see here, please don't feed the trolls, thanks.
Posted by ellessque
this has always been her ONLY story and the ONLY man in her life..
Posted by sweethearts
I also agree with Elle, seen Faith's stories here for years.
You know she may originate from a country where is it quite expectable to be "a concubine" lover, girlfriend, mistress whatever. I have 2 cousins that are mistresses and they live a perfectly normal life in their eyes. i personally couldn't and wouldn't but then I don't judge them over what they have chosen. In fact, it's not something I understand as I was bought up in a Western country. But I do know that all the family over there know and it's not frowned upon at all!
Posted by capgirl75
Are you going to finally blow the whistle on him? This will backfire on you.
I never have been in this situation.
With the Cap I dated, I had suspicions of this, but I never called him out on it. My feeling was that he would deny it. When I broke it off with him, I explained several points to him, and I included some of my suspicious findings. He did not respond to the suspicions at all. He responded to everything else and kind of just glossed over those parts.
I had caught him in a few other lies. He denied them and he told new lies to cover them.
Posted by truecap
Faith, when are you going to give up on this guy?!?!
But for your answer, my first instinct would be deny, find out what they know and then rationalize.
Posted by venusianbull
I don't care if you're from Washington or humped in on the back of a flea deep in the heart of Egypt. NO ONE after 3 years plus with someone is this thick. Not about someone, not about themself after 41 years. Granted 'with someone' is completely irrelevant because the delusion level of 'MY' anything is about waist deep with all these posts..seriously.
There is no insight to be had on either end. It's purely for attention to answer questions any 12 year old with a conscience could answer. That sounds like trolling to me.
ive up that's the easiest thing to do. Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.?? You just have to believe in yourself and just keep pounding on the door and if you pound long enough the door will open. The most important thing is God's blessing and if you believe in God and you believe in yourself, you have nothing to worry about.Posted by ellessquePosted by champrangerPosted by ellessquePosted by champranger
But he has point though. How does she NOT know after being friends with him for 3 years?
you're a cap. you know the answer to your own question.
have you READ any of these threads?
I'm an Aries. I may have vaguely read one or two,but not the whole story.
not just faiths. there is somewhat of a pattern with all of them.
you have to give faith a A+ for hanging in there and taking it like a champ.
most people just give up and walk away.
i'm not saying that she's doing the right thing, i'm just saying i admire her staying power.click to expand
Posted by capgirl75
She's American, I'm pretty sure, she posted they met in Vegas a month ago or so. Lol.
sit him in Vegas about a month ago.Posted by sweetheartsPosted by capgirl75
She's American, I'm pretty sure, she posted they met in Vegas a month ago or so. Lol.
Living and growing up in America or a Western country doesn't determine your beliefs or morals. The way she writes also tells me she doesn't originate from a European country. She speaks with broken English a term used for a person that's first language isn't English.
She clearly doesn't think that there is anything wrong with being a mistress!click to expand
Posted by venusianbull
If it's so bloody wonderful, then stop. If after ..how many years now is it? you've not gleaned any answers to such delights as "How would someone act if caught cheating?" and other horse manure, when will you ever? You can keep sucking people into answering the same tired ass questions. With the same tired ass MO. ( Disappear for a bit, then all of a sudden a barrage of stupidity ) but some of us you ain't fooling. Have your bubble. Makes no difference to me.
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