Caps what makes you now want to date someone?

Curious, what makes you reject some one who likes you?

Posted by Tashibaby
Curious, what makes you reject some one who likes you?

Pretty much the same reason you would reject someone who likes you.

It's hard to say really, depends on the person.

One time, I was talking to this guy, just dating.. I liked him for the most part but one night we went out to a party amd he got shit faced and was acting stupid, and that what he was doing/acting like just turned me off.

It doesn't have to be anything major, sometimes we don't even know until it's presented. I just knew that I really didn't like how he gets when he drank, and I would not be able to deal with that long term.

Personally, if I don't see a future or me gelling (sp?) with that person. My tolerance and energy level is low, meaning I can't deal with different personalities for too long, AND I'm a difficult person to deal with. I get moody, deal with anxiety, shut down, am off/on, stubborn so sometimes I save people and sometimes I save myself. I know with me, what you see isn't always what you will get all the time. I make decent first impressions, so I steer clear of people that fall for the impression I've made.

Plus it's isn't always about someone liking us, but us liking them as well.

Mostly though, I think many Caps know they can be a bit difficult so it's takes a certain type of person. Just my opinion.

Could be anything - it's just a feeling. The person may like me and I may even like them, but if it doesn't feel right, then it's a no.

No job, no ambition, needy, clingy, offensive personality, arrogance, lack of class, criminal record, dope user, unclean, lack of chemistry, not a manly man, no sense of humor, not respected in the community, inconsistent, doormat - a whole number of reasons.

je te le dirais pas

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Posted by HappyCapper
Could be anything - it's just a feeling. The person may like me and I may even like them, but if it doesn't feel right, then it's a no.

Seriously. Isn't everybody like this?

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^^^What I was thinking.

Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by HappyCapper

Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by HappyCapper
Could be anything - it's just a feeling. The person may like me and I may even like them, but if it doesn't feel right, then it's a no.

Seriously. Isn't everybody like this?

^^^What I was thinking.

Judging by the other answers, I guess she means what our dealbreakers are, but you hafta date first to find a lot of those things out.

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Yeah. I wouldn't even go out with them without having a somewhat good feeling about them.. And then come the dealbreakers....which could be pretty much anything.

Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by HappyCapper

Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by HappyCapper

Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by HappyCapper
Could be anything - it's just a feeling. The person may like me and I may even like them, but if it doesn't feel right, then it's a no.

Seriously. Isn't everybody like this?

^^^What I was thinking.

Judging by the other answers, I guess she means what our dealbreakers are, but you hafta date first to find a lot of those things out.

Yeah. I wouldn't even go out with them without having a somewhat good feeling about them.. And then come the dealbreakers....which could be pretty much anything.

For real. I don't care how together your life seems, if you smack when you eat, I'm outta there. 😄

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Exactly!😄

Posted by cheekyfaerie

Posted by HappyCapper
Could be anything - it's just a feeling. The person may like me and I may even like them, but if it doesn't feel right, then it's a no.

Seriously. Isn't everybody like this?

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Yep!!

Posted by sagiluv

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je te le dirais pas

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