control freak douchebag

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by beggarsblanket on Tuesday, September 23, 2014 and has 10 replies.

Understanding Capricorn Men and Control Issues

Capricorn men often have control issues that can lead to possessiveness and difficulty accepting boundaries. They may seek to dominate relationships emotionally or physically, especially if they feel insecure. Recognizing these traits can help manage expectations and set healthy boundaries in interactions with them.

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@beggarsblanket
12 Years500+ Posts

Capricorn men have control issues.

I repeat THEY HAVE CONTROL ISSUES.

I was seeing a cap 8 months ago. We dated for 3 months, it wasn't serious. I ended up leaving him because I realized I didn't really love him. So for 8 months almost every week he sent texts, he called, he said he could be romantic, there could be more, we should go on a vacation, get to know each other better or sometimes it would be more about sex.. I kept rejecting him because I just wanted to remain friends, you know. I also know he talks to a lot of girls.

So last night he texts me again to see how I'm doing. I'm being totally friendly and funny. Then it comes to me not even going on skype with him so I apologize and say I suck at keeping in touch and I will get better at it one day.

He texts, we would have had sex by now if I really wanted it, I'm the one who is taking things slow..

yeah right, buddy..

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@RichCap
12 Years

Doesn't sound like a control issue to me

That moment when you've just broken up with someone
Or that bit after christmas when the families been asking why you're single
Valentines day when you see couples happy every where

Yeah, you'll have a moment of weakness, and get banged

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@TigerCap
13 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

Posted by RichCap

Posted by beggarsblanket
I have to admit I enjoy annoying him by being only friendly.
In his mind, he probably thinks he can have any girl.

Oh dear you think you are in control...

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So cute.

If you didn't care or if he really annoyed you, you would have completely ignored him by now. Part of you finds him attractive and given the right circumstances you WILL have sex with him.

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@beggarsblanket
12 Years500+ Posts

oh wait.. some of you may have misunderstood..

his text was : we would have had sex by now if I really wanted it, I'm the one who is taking things slow..' He said if HE wanted it we would have had sex by now. and that he is the one who is taking things slow.

He has so much ego !! He can't accept the fact that he is being rejected. And that he would be rejected no matter what he did.