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@ConsiderableMyth
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Cracked the Cap Code
Posted by UnicornSagHow do I know what his weak spot is?
find a weak spot and approach it gently, that's the only way you can get any answer you want. That includes lots of reading between lines and understanding unspoken things too
Posted by UnicornSagOk I get what you’re saying now! Yessss, I know what his interests are. I feel like everything kinda clicked today. I’m excited to see how I can spin this. 🤓Posted by ConsiderableMythObserve and analyze him...see what he responds to the most, i'm not sure how to describe it really, i discovered this by a chance and figured it works every time...just whatever you do don't make it look like interrogation anyway. Do small talks, smart talks, funny talks, spark interest.Posted by UnicornSagHow do I know what his weak spot is?
find a weak spot and approach it gently, that's the only way you can get any answer you want. That includes lots of reading between lines and understanding unspoken things too
I'm not sure how long you're talking to that guy so this clearly takes some time getting to know a person, if you pay attention to him you can read a lot from his behavior, responses or lack of responsesclick to expand
Be Motherly
Posted by ufoI’m really enjoying the mental challenge though. It keeps me occupied without entirely imploding.
caps are so lame they're not even worth the hassle, make life easy on yourself don't go for a cap
Posted by miriyahhhHmm, elaborate, please. 🙏🏼
Be Motherly
Posted by ConsiderableMythFirm and strict yet loving. Unmovable but vocal. Controlling in a parental way.Posted by miriyahhhHmm, elaborate, please. 🙏🏼
Be Motherlyclick to expand
Posted by ConsiderableMythThat's great that you two can communicate and are willing to compromise. Some people confuse compromise with not getting their way/needs met. It's about doing what's best for both involved. It builds trust and promotes a sense of fairness that leads to reciprocation.
Post some useful, TRIED AND TRUE, cap things that make them feel comfortable to open up. Sort of. In cap fashion.
I used to ask my cap several questions back to back. After trying that twice, he made it clear he didn’t like it so I stopped.
I just asked him one question, knowing the question was related to something he’s interested in, and he answered, engaged, and then I backed off. His training me has paid off.
Posted by Nightcap-I’m learning a lot; both about myself and patience. Regardless of where it goes with him, I’m expanding my ability to understand the dynamics of different relationships.Posted by ConsiderableMythThat's great that you two can communicate and are willing to compromise. Some people confuse compromise with not getting their way/needs met. It's about doing what's best for both involved. It builds trust and promotes a sense of fairness that leads to reciprocation.
Post some useful, TRIED AND TRUE, cap things that make them feel comfortable to open up. Sort of. In cap fashion.
I used to ask my cap several questions back to back. After trying that twice, he made it clear he didn’t like it so I stopped.
I just asked him one question, knowing the question was related to something he’s interested in, and he answered, engaged, and then I backed off. His training me has paid off.
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3I feel like this wouldn’t work with him. His level of detachment is incredibly high.
Ignore em
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3Is that really you in your pic?
Ignore em
Posted by UnicornSagi suppose i'll find out because i'm done playing his games. lolPosted by ConsiderableMythyou're wrong, it works like a charmPosted by Evoxxxscorpio3I feel like this wouldn’t work with him. His level of detachment is incredibly high.
Ignore emclick to expand
Posted by UnicornSagPosted by ConsiderableMythyou're wrong, it works like a charmPosted by Evoxxxscorpio3I feel like this wouldn’t work with him. His level of detachment is incredibly high.
Ignore emclick to expand
Only works somewhat if there's actually a bond or the potential to build on something. Otherwise, we'll forget you exist.
Posted by ConsiderableMyth
Post some useful, TRIED AND TRUE, cap things that make them feel comfortable to open up. Sort of. In cap fashion.
I used to ask my cap several questions back to back. After trying that twice, he made it clear he didn’t like it so I stopped.
I just asked him one question, knowing the question was related to something he’s interested in, and he answered, engaged, and then I backed off. His training me has paid off.
As a Cap venus the easiest way to get ne to open up is for you to open up first. It has to be genuine or I would see right through it. Don't do it early on but after I have gotten comfortable around you.
Posted by sierra_Posted by ufo+1
caps are so lame they're not even worth the hassle, make life easy on yourself don't go for a capclick to expand
Virgos need to bring something to the table other than redundant traits that we already possess as fellow earth signs. You want caps to stop taking Virgos for granted..stop being boring and average and settling for less than you deserve. Nervous eeyore, martyr complex gets old after awhile and makes it hard to earn our respect. Although you are clearly awesome Sierra 🐴
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I just asked him one question, knowing the question was related to something he’s interested in, and he answered, engaged, and then I backed off. His training me has paid off.