Capricorn Relationships

What are the steps to having a relationship with a Capricorn woman or man?

Haven’t really been in a relationship with a cap but from what I’ve experienced, they take a REALLY long time to progress. You need a lot of patience and move at their pace.

Being able to with stand small but steady doses of pain.

Posted by miriyahhh
Being able to with stand small but steady doses of pain.

Accurate lol

Yep - the disappearing act happens frequently. They’ll totally ghost on you and reappear as if nothing ever happened. They don’t like being asked a lot of questions (from my experience). They’re very goal driven, work oriented. Practical.

You make them do it.

Be unobtainable lol

Posted by Cg2016
Be unobtainable lol

Do the unthinkable and the unexpected, and then obtain the unobtainable (don't skip any steps 😎)

Posted by Dianna
It does take a long time to get a commitment but be careful what you wish for. It takes ten times longer to get rid of them.

Cap men are stubborn and don't give up.

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Posted by Dianna
It does take a long time to get a commitment but be careful what you wish for. It takes ten times longer to get rid of them.

Cap men are stubborn and don't give up.

It either happens really fast or really slow. Fast is sometimes better.

Fast is always better

Time doesn't stand still for anybody

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It usually is. People should trust their instincts. It can work both ways though. Sometimes circumstances dictate. As long as the other person is committed, it might be worth waiting for.

must be a Taurus

Or

Must hate yourself

Let me answer as a Cap stellium.

Be serious, be mature, know what you want, know yourself, be gentle and be patient.

Capricorn is very cautious in love. We are afraid to get manipulated or get our heart broken so much we prefer to be single.

All the time we are single we actually want a partner but not just anyone.

The way I used to view relationships is that a good relationship is one that has something to teach you, potential to grow as a person and even better if you could work together with your partner in a same goal.

Simply having fun and letting go is potential but usually a Capricorn puts more thought in the decision to get into a relationship cause he wants to make it last and be the best relationship it could be so he needs a good and suitable partner which is half of the relationship.

So be patient, be understanding, be caring, know it's takes time for them to open up and show you are steady and sure of your decision that you want them, actually be sure before you go. And don't act overly in things cause Cap gets scared and cautious. Like extreme affection and interest from day 1 let's say.

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Posted by Dianna
It does take a long time to get a commitment but be careful what you wish for. It takes ten times longer to get rid of them.

Cap men are stubborn and don't give up.

So to get them you have to be unavailable? Got it. Drive them crazy? Never respond to them. Got it. What exactly are we doing then? Some lame ass chase that no one wins in cause wtf do we even bother if we run in circles like that. Anyway don't get me wrong not truly directed to you but reply sparked my interest lol

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Tell them

EXPOSE THEM

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Posted by Dianna
It does take a long time to get a commitment but be careful what you wish for. It takes ten times longer to get rid of them.

Cap men are stubborn and don't give up.

So to get them you have to be unavailable? Got it. Drive them crazy? Never respond to them. Got it. What exactly are we doing then? Some lame ass chase that no one wins in cause wtf do we even bother if we run in circles like that. Anyway don't get me wrong not truly directed to you but reply sparked my interest lol

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Caps do like a challenge. But still need ALOT of attention. If you can strike a healthy balance between the two, then you’ll keep us wanting more

Posted by Dianna
It does take a long time to get a commitment but be careful what you wish for. It takes ten times longer to get rid of them.

Cap men are stubborn and don't give up.

THIS

Have money, status, and success. Well dressed

Too.

Posted by Raakac
My friend is dating a 22yr old Cap for 3month's now and they didn't even kiss even tho she's controling him like heeell, 2crazy if you ask me.... 3months no kiss, what thee fuuck maaan

She wants to be and stay desired

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Posted by Dianna
It does take a long time to get a commitment but be careful what you wish for. It takes ten times longer to get rid of them.

Cap men are stubborn and don't give up.

So to get them you have to be unavailable? Got it. Drive them crazy? Never respond to them. Got it. What exactly are we doing then? Some lame ass chase that no one wins in cause wtf do we even bother if we run in circles like that. Anyway don't get me wrong not truly directed to you but reply sparked my interest lol

Caps do like a challenge. But still need ALOT of attention. If you can strike a healthy balance between the two, then you’ll keep us wanting more

Oh yeah I forgot about the attention part! You're right completely! He would freak out as soon as I don't give him my 110% of attention, meanwhile he's perfectly fine not giving same amount in return. This was once a reason we fought, cause I simply mirrored his behavior and he got offended...

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In despite of the need for constant attention, caps really are low maintenance lovers. Sometimes we go off in our own little world without realizing that our loved ones are in need of more consistent attention and affection.

Posted by bkbella86
Have money, status, and success. Well dressed

Too.

This is the quickest way to a cap mans heart.

If you come correct like this you will have to do no more work.

He will be at your feet

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Posted by Dianna
It does take a long time to get a commitment but be careful what you wish for. It takes ten times longer to get rid of them.

Cap men are stubborn and don't give up.

So to get them you have to be unavailable? Got it. Drive them crazy? Never respond to them. Got it. What exactly are we doing then? Some lame ass chase that no one wins in cause wtf do we even bother if we run in circles like that. Anyway don't get me wrong not truly directed to you but reply sparked my interest lol

Tell them

EXPOSE THEM

Ugh....I'm just sick and tired of that bs. We're running in circles for year already. Problem is we're too much alike, damn conjunction between Suns lol

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Stand firm and tell him exactly how you feel n a low tone voice. And always talk at a cap as if your gonna throw a dish at his head. He'll listen. And change. Only if you say it like you really mean it lol

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Posted by Dianna
It does take a long time to get a commitment but be careful what you wish for. It takes ten times longer to get rid of them.

Cap men are stubborn and don't give up.

So to get them you have to be unavailable? Got it. Drive them crazy? Never respond to them. Got it. What exactly are we doing then? Some lame ass chase that no one wins in cause wtf do we even bother if we run in circles like that. Anyway don't get me wrong not truly directed to you but reply sparked my interest lol

Caps do like a challenge. But still need ALOT of attention. If you can strike a healthy balance between the two, then you’ll keep us wanting more

Oh yeah I forgot about the attention part! You're right completely! He would freak out as soon as I don't give him my 110% of attention, meanwhile he's perfectly fine not giving same amount in return. This was once a reason we fought, cause I simply mirrored his behavior and he got offended...

In despite of the need for constant attention, caps really are low maintenance lovers. Sometimes we go off in our own little world without realizing that our loved ones are in need of more consistent attention and affection.

Yes that's it. He didn't see it from my perspective. But our situation maybe is different cause despite being different signs we act very much alike one another, I notice this more and more over the time. We're both cusp of Sag-Cap so our suns are not in semi-sextile aspect, instead they conjunct each other so we share a lot of similar behavior, with another Cap born in January I'm sure it wouldn't be like this at all.

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Yes, I see.. maybe too competitive lol I like this cusp a lot, especially for those born under sag. The caps born on this cusp are very serious minded and Extremely ambitious. You maybe more compatible with a late December or January

Cap.

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Posted by bkbella86
Have money, status, and success. Well dressed

Too.

This is the quickest way to a cap mans heart.

If you come correct like this you will have to do no more work.

He will be at your feet

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Nope, too cliche. Not looking for what they already have.

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Posted by bkbella86
Have money, status, and success. Well dressed

Too.

This is the quickest way to a cap mans heart.

If you come correct like this you will have to do no more work.

He will be at your feet

Nope, too cliche. Not looking for what they already have.

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But Cap IS cliche. Cap loves person of status. Especially if said person is obtainable

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Posted by bkbella86
Have money, status, and success. Well dressed

Too.

This is the quickest way to a cap mans heart.

If you come correct like this you will have to do no more work.

He will be at your feet

Nope, too cliche. Not looking for what they already have.

But Cap IS cliche. Cap loves person of status. Especially if said person is obtainable

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They do like a person with status but there needs to be more than just materialistic things, they are not shallow, i repeat they are not shallow

I would say be consistent and trust worthy. Understand that Capricorns need time to open up and also space for their own life. They don't like to be pushed or lied to. I can smell a lie right away so be carefull with what you're saying. Also be loving, kind and polite. Show that you care and make the effort. They will appriciate it! Just take it slow, don't rush them and eventually you will find out wether they care about you or not. We don't stick around someone we don't care about. So that's a sign to watch out for.

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Posted by bkbella86
Have money, status, and success. Well dressed

Too.

This is the quickest way to a cap mans heart.

If you come correct like this you will have to do no more work.

He will be at your feet

Nope, too cliche. Not looking for what they already have.

But Cap IS cliche. Cap loves person of status. Especially if said person is obtainable

They do like a person with status but there needs to be more than just materialistic things, they are not shallow, i repeat they are not shallow

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They really are deep but at my age as a young proffesional, most guys were intimidated by that. Only my Capricorn understood my dream of success. And stuck by me. I literally had two fire signs dump me bcz of what I did. Only the cap told me he believed in me. And said the strong woman in charge literally turned him on.

But that could be a earth sign trait also...

Agree with all above posts IF he's a secure Cappie

If you've found an insecure Cappie he'll want you to be all of the above things BUT also have a crippling flaw (i.e. finances, emotionally unstable, emotionally unavailable, needy) that he will make it his mission to fix.

An insecure Capricorn is Captain Save a Hoe.

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Posted by bkbella86
Have money, status, and success. Well dressed

Too.

This is the quickest way to a cap mans heart.

If you come correct like this you will have to do no more work.

He will be at your feet

Nope, too cliche. Not looking for what they already have.

But Cap IS cliche. Cap loves person of status. Especially if said person is obtainable

They do like a person with status but there needs to be more than just materialistic things, they are not shallow, i repeat they are not shallow

They really are deep but at my age as a young proffesional, most guys were intimidated by that. Only my Capricorn understood my dream of success. And stuck by me. I literally had two fire signs dump me bcz of what I did. Only the cap told me he believed in me. And said the strong woman in charge literally turned him on.

But that could be a earth sign trait also...

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They care more about your family, how you were raised, will your dad like him? things like that. Practical.

Posted by Pandala
Agree with all above posts IF he's a secure Cappie

If you've found an insecure Cappie he'll want you to be all of the above things BUT also have a crippling flaw (i.e. finances, emotionally unstable, emotionally unavailable, needy) that he will make it his mission to fix.

An insecure Capricorn is Captain Save a Hoe.

LMAO this is my ex/current capricorn in a nutshell, he's always going on about how the only girls he goes for are ones that are emotionally unstable. yikes, still can't get him 100% out of my system though. i wonder what the explanation for the whole fixing thing a certain aspect of their partner is?

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Posted by Dianna
It does take a long time to get a commitment but be careful what you wish for. It takes ten times longer to get rid of them.

Cap men are stubborn and don't give up.

So to get them you have to be unavailable? Got it. Drive them crazy? Never respond to them. Got it. What exactly are we doing then? Some lame ass chase that no one wins in cause wtf do we even bother if we run in circles like that. Anyway don't get me wrong not truly directed to you but reply sparked my interest lol

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No, no and no!! 😄 I hate when somebody does that to me and I would never do it.... The only time I would do it would be if you made me very angry and I didn't trust you anymore. Then I'd probably ignore you for the rest of my life lol. The second time is simple if I wasn't interested to begin with. But that happens rarely and usually people get the message even if it's not said directly. It does take long time for me to commit and it's not because I wouldn't like the person it's because once I'm commited I give my all and I need to make sure that the other person won't take advantage of it that I can trust him. Capricorns once commited give the most unselfish pure love you could ever ask for... My first long term relationship was with a Sagittarius guy, he won me over and I eventually broke up with him because he lost my respect and took me for granted. I think he still regrets it a bit to this day that he didn't treat me better... Basically we only commit if we know it's safe. I know it might sound crazy to some, but it's a defense mode againts heartbreak. Even if we seem to be collected and without emotions it's quite the opposite.. We are just hard to get I guess.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
1) Work on your resume make sure its up to snuff

2) throw in some certifications

3) Flash your black card. Show them you have money.

4) look and seem line you have your shit together

5) Flash your bank statement

6) own your own home. Flash your mortgage statement

7) Prepare a will with their name on it

LOL not true, sorry to break it to you, just because Capricorns are ambitious does not mean we're materialistic shit heads.

Posted by WarAngel1
Make yourself irresistible and have the rest of your life together. I'm half Capricorn. 😁

That's actually true! 😄

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1) Work on your resume make sure its up to snuff

2) throw in some certifications

3) Flash your black card. Show them you have money.

4) look and seem line you have your shit together

5) Flash your bank statement

6) own your own home. Flash your mortgage statement

7) Prepare a will with their name on it

LOL not true, sorry to break it to you, just because Capricorns are ambitious does not mean we're materialistic shit heads.

Money driven

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Uh still no, some might be that way I would never do anything just for money and I'd never date anyone just because of money! It's bullshit. There is difference to want to know that the other person is secure/has a job and can take care of themselves. Ambition means you want to succeed in something not money driven. For example I'd rather take a job that I'd enjoy than job that would make me millions of money, but I'd be miserable while doing it. Think whatever you want, but that's not the right way to get a Capricorn honey that's just some superficial crap and true Capricorn are hardly superficial. 😄

Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
Let me answer as a Cap stellium.

Be serious, be mature, know what you want, know yourself, be gentle and be patient.

Capricorn is very cautious in love. We are afraid to get manipulated or get our heart broken so much we prefer to be single.

All the time we are single we actually want a partner but not just anyone.

The way I used to view relationships is that a good relationship is one that has something to teach you, potential to grow as a person and even better if you could work together with your partner in a same goal.

Simply having fun and letting go is potential but usually a Capricorn puts more thought in the decision to get into a relationship cause he wants to make it last and be the best relationship it could be so he needs a good and suitable partner which is half of the relationship.

So be patient, be understanding, be caring, know it's takes time for them to open up and show you are steady and sure of your decision that you want them, actually be sure before you go. And don't act overly in things cause Cap gets scared and cautious. Like extreme affection and interest from day 1 let's say.

This!!!

Be responsible, be orderly, be yourself, and keep it classy. When they commit, they stay with you for life. It was extremely painful for me to leave my Cap ex and it took us a year of talking and trying to work it out before we finally realized we were in a situation we just couldn't change.

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
1) Work on your resume make sure its up to snuff

2) throw in some certifications

3) Flash your black card. Show them you have money.

4) look and seem line you have your shit together

5) Flash your bank statement

6) own your own home. Flash your mortgage statement

7) Prepare a will with their name on it

LOL not true, sorry to break it to you, just because Capricorns are ambitious does not mean we're materialistic shit heads.

Money driven

Uh still no, some might be that way I would never do anything just for money and I'd never date anyone just because of money! It's bullshit. There is difference to want to know that the other person is secure/has a job and can take care of themselves. Ambition means you want to succeed in something not money driven. For example I'd rather take a job that I'd enjoy than job that would make me millions of money, but I'd be miserable while doing it. Think whatever you want, but that's not the right way to get a Capricorn honey that's just some superficial crap and true Capricorn are hardly superficial. 😄

I don't care

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Well good to know, then stop getting involved. 😉

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
Step 4. Be very patient and understanding because when you think everything is doing well somehow they find a way to fck it up. Lol

I don’t think they notice they do this. Their mind plays tricks on them.

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Step 4. Be very patient and understanding because when you think everything is doing well somehow they find a way to fck it up. Lol

I don’t think they notice they do this. Their mind plays tricks on them.

Lol fosho

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Coming from a Scorpio? 😂 you think you would underatand the evil in them more than anyone

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I don’t know what to think anymore.. in my case, I just wish he’d had taken more time to figure things out before he starting promising things & making plans for the future. It makes you think it’s real, and staying to withstand the pain while they go through whether they can really predict the future is a bunch of bullshit.

In this respect, give me a fire sign anytime. We are much more able to let things evolve, enjoy the present & see what happens in the future.

Ah well maybe my 3 Capricorn planets made us too similar idk. If you want a Cap, I’d say let him make the moves, even though they like you coming towards them, that’s not what they really need. I know a certain Cap very well after ups & downs in a relationship for a year. I’m better off without him. Cuz in the end it can’t be all about them, you have to take care of yourself too. I’m not looking back....

that's exactly the step 4 Evo mentioned lol -self sabotaging...they do it all the time. Why? I've got no clue but that just keeps repeating. Maybe you're lucky that you didn't get at least a cusper Cap...that's what serious issues are...you're so alike that it's crazy yet you can't seem to get on the same page no matter what. Oh and I recently discovered they just says things. For whatever reason. They say it and there's nothing to back it up. It's so weird actually

Well i saw the self-sabotage twice and it’s a pattern that will not end until he figures out how to stop doing it. ( not only with me). He said things what he wanted but eventually I figured out it was more of his dream & in the end he didn’t have the faith in himself to get there.. even though I did..so the self-sabotage. I think this time he did enough shit to me to try & push me far away cuz he can’t face those demons. Where I’m all let’s do it! We can do anything we put our mind to.. lol classic positive vs negative thinking. But what I don’t get is my dad was the ultimate positive thinker & Capricorn.. it’s where I learned to not give up. Maybe it’s a maturity thing idk. 🤷‍♀️

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My grandpa was more of a negative capricorn, im not sure his placements but my grandma is a sagg they are still together. My cap has scorpio moon so hes mischievous but the rest of his chart is in sagg and hes pretty positive about his life and where he wants to go. He has the mind for it and the sagg placements give him the energy to go after what he wants. Maybe your cap wasn't brought up in the right environment or hes more of a negative cap and if thats the case its best you left, my grandma puts up with alot.

Story: my grandpa said he needed "space" from my grandma so he bought a trailer, parked it in his backyard, grabbed all his things and started living in it lmao this was like 3 years ago, they are past their 70s, lol he has since moved back inside the house, isnt that the most cap thing you've ever heard? haha

Posted by ConsiderableMyth
Haven’t really been in a relationship with a cap but from what I’ve experienced, they take a REALLY long time to progress. You need a lot of patience and move at their pace.

So long to progress that when they are almost there - it’s too late because digress is already there...

Posted by bkbella86
Have money, status, and success. Well dressed

Too.

Seems like a way to Leo's heart too 😄

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I don’t know what to think anymore.. in my case, I just wish he’d had taken more time to figure things out before he starting promising things & making plans for the future. It makes you think it’s real, and staying to withstand the pain while they go through whether they can really predict the future is a bunch of bullshit.

In this respect, give me a fire sign anytime. We are much more able to let things evolve, enjoy the present & see what happens in the future.

Ah well maybe my 3 Capricorn planets made us too similar idk. If you want a Cap, I’d say let him make the moves, even though they like you coming towards them, that’s not what they really need. I know a certain Cap very well after ups & downs in a relationship for a year. I’m better off without him. Cuz in the end it can’t be all about them, you have to take care of yourself too. I’m not looking back....

that's exactly the step 4 Evo mentioned lol -self sabotaging...they do it all the time. Why? I've got no clue but that just keeps repeating. Maybe you're lucky that you didn't get at least a cusper Cap...that's what serious issues are...you're so alike that it's crazy yet you can't seem to get on the same page no matter what. Oh and I recently discovered they just says things. For whatever reason. They say it and there's nothing to back it up. It's so weird actually

Well i saw the self-sabotage twice and it’s a pattern that will not end until he figures out how to stop doing it. ( not only with me). He said things what he wanted but eventually I figured out it was more of his dream & in the end he didn’t have the faith in himself to get there.. even though I did..so the self-sabotage. I think this time he did enough shit to me to try & push me far away cuz he can’t face those demons. Where I’m all let’s do it! We can do anything we put our mind to.. lol classic positive vs negative thinking. But what I don’t get is my dad was the ultimate positive thinker & Capricorn.. it’s where I learned to not give up. Maybe it’s a maturity thing idk. 🤷‍♀️

My grandpa was more of a negative capricorn, im not sure his placements but my grandma is a sagg they are still together. My cap has scorpio moon so hes mischievous but the rest of his chart is in sagg and hes pretty positive about his life and where he wants to go. He has the mind for it and the sagg placements give him the energy to go after what he wants. Maybe your cap wasn't brought up in the right environment or hes more of a negative cap and if thats the case its best you left, my grandma puts up with alot.

Story: my grandpa said he needed "space" from my grandma so he bought a trailer, parked it in his backyard, grabbed all his things and started living in it lmao this was like 3 years ago, they are past their 70s, lol he has since moved back inside the house, isnt that the most cap thing you've ever heard? haha

omg :O

damn we sags can take a lot of bs :/ And they don't believe me when I say we're able to put up with them xD I'm not even lying...if they only knew this they'd be all over Sags lol

Honestly I hate this about us but it's so true...

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fire signs keep up, they will never separate, my grandpa is also the funniest person i know

Posted by LuckyLioness

Posted by Pandala
Agree with all above posts IF he's a secure Cappie

If you've found an insecure Cappie he'll want you to be all of the above things BUT also have a crippling flaw (i.e. finances, emotionally unstable, emotionally unavailable, needy) that he will make it his mission to fix.

An insecure Capricorn is Captain Save a Hoe.

LMAO this is my ex/current capricorn in a nutshell, he's always going on about how the only girls he goes for are ones that are emotionally unstable. yikes, still can't get him 100% out of my system though. i wonder what the explanation for the whole fixing thing a certain aspect of their partner is?

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Cappies, as you know, are all about providing. If they find a partner with a "fixable" flaw it gives them a deep sense of being needed. A Cap's worst nightmare is if they partner no longer needs them. Some vengeful Cappies might even go as far to actually cripple their partner in some way to keep control and stay in the fantasy of being needed above all (and anyone) else.

For example: A traditional male Capricorn loooves a girl with daddy issues cuz he enjoys being "Daddy".

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Posted by Pandala
Agree with all above posts IF he's a secure Cappie

If you've found an insecure Cappie he'll want you to be all of the above things BUT also have a crippling flaw (i.e. finances, emotionally unstable, emotionally unavailable, needy) that he will make it his mission to fix.

An insecure Capricorn is Captain Save a Hoe.

LMAO this is my ex/current capricorn in a nutshell, he's always going on about how the only girls he goes for are ones that are emotionally unstable. yikes, still can't get him 100% out of my system though. i wonder what the explanation for the whole fixing thing a certain aspect of their partner is?

Cappies, as you know, are all about providing. If they find a partner with a "fixable" flaw it gives them a deep sense of being needed. A Cap's worst nightmare is if they partner no longer needs them. Some vengeful Cappies might even go as far to actually cripple their partner in some way to keep control and stay in the fantasy of being needed above all (and anyone) else.

For example: A traditional male Capricorn loooves a girl with daddy issues cuz he enjoys being "Daddy".

That was just level 1. They even prefer woman with some disabilities.

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+1

I totally wouldn't be surprised at all about that.

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Posted by Pandala
Agree with all above posts IF he's a secure Cappie

If you've found an insecure Cappie he'll want you to be all of the above things BUT also have a crippling flaw (i.e. finances, emotionally unstable, emotionally unavailable, needy) that he will make it his mission to fix.

An insecure Capricorn is Captain Save a Hoe.

LMAO this is my ex/current capricorn in a nutshell, he's always going on about how the only girls he goes for are ones that are emotionally unstable. yikes, still can't get him 100% out of my system though. i wonder what the explanation for the whole fixing thing a certain aspect of their partner is?

Cappies, as you know, are all about providing. If they find a partner with a "fixable" flaw it gives them a deep sense of being needed. A Cap's worst nightmare is if they partner no longer needs them. Some vengeful Cappies might even go as far to actually cripple their partner in some way to keep control and stay in the fantasy of being needed above all (and anyone) else.

For example: A traditional male Capricorn loooves a girl with daddy issues cuz he enjoys being "Daddy".

That was just level 1. They even prefer woman with some disabilities.

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I totally wouldn't be surprised at all about that.

s/he is known troll and is clearly being sarcastic to your comment. Unless you're really serious, rethink lol

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Thanks for the troll alert

*It didn't post my entire thing✨

*hearts✨ But I could truly see a very insecure Cap (or Pisces) seek out disabled partners so that they feel needed to the highest degree. It's kinda a sick and twisted scenario, but it exists...

Their sarcasm was lost on me. Thanks for the insight! LOL 😄

Posted by RooSagicorn
I don’t know what to think anymore.. in my case, I just wish he’d had taken more time to figure things out before he starting promising things & making plans for the future. It makes you think it’s real, and staying to withstand the pain while they go through whether they can really predict the future is a bunch of bullshit.

In this respect, give me a fire sign anytime. We are much more able to let things evolve, enjoy the present & see what happens in the future.

Ah well maybe my 3 Capricorn planets made us too similar idk. If you want a Cap, I’d say let him make the moves, even though they like you coming towards them, that’s not what they really need. I know a certain Cap very well after ups & downs in a relationship for a year. I’m better off without him. Cuz in the end it can’t be all about them, you have to take care of yourself too. I’m not looking back....

He'll be back

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Agree with all above posts IF he's a secure Cappie

If you've found an insecure Cappie he'll want you to be all of the above things BUT also have a crippling flaw (i.e. finances, emotionally unstable, emotionally unavailable, needy) that he will make it his mission to fix.

An insecure Capricorn is Captain Save a Hoe.

LMAO this is my ex/current capricorn in a nutshell, he's always going on about how the only girls he goes for are ones that are emotionally unstable. yikes, still can't get him 100% out of my system though. i wonder what the explanation for the whole fixing thing a certain aspect of their partner is?

Cappies, as you know, are all about providing. If they find a partner with a "fixable" flaw it gives them a deep sense of being needed. A Cap's worst nightmare is if they partner no longer needs them. Some vengeful Cappies might even go as far to actually cripple their partner in some way to keep control and stay in the fantasy of being needed above all (and anyone) else.

For example: A traditional male Capricorn loooves a girl with daddy issues cuz he enjoys being "Daddy".

That was just level 1. They even prefer woman with some disabilities.

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I totally wouldn't be surprised at all about that.

s/he is known troll and is clearly being sarcastic to your comment. Unless you're really serious, rethink lol

I'm really tired right now and have no idea what the hell you talking about.

My opinion are based on my experience, please RESPECT that.

Damn fire sign women, why you guys can't handle the fucking truth.

Please do share those. All I see is normal or really beautiful Cap women with regular guys, not overly rich or great looking, simply normal guys. And also normal or average Cap guys with usually beautiful woman. I have yet to see one with ugly or disabled woman. Yet they do have one flaw I'll admit that - married woman, much older or much younger woman or in any other way unavailable woman are their weakness. They don't end up with them tho, they just take care of them

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i'm marginally older than my cappy and initially i was unavailable, he loved the chase to get to me and eventually when he got me - being the leo/taurus asc i am became comfortable and yes got kinda clingy -_-

but some immature caps love to test their partners, i hate that. i see him as unstable because one minute he can say he sees a future with me and the next minute he'll be doing something to contradict.

i could probably date another capricorn in the future but they have to know what they want, i've never met someone more indecisive tbh. so many unsatisfied women with male cap relationships i feel is due to capricorns having inner turmoil which results in them behaving withdrawn or distant within the relationship. all we want to do is help them yet they just go further into their shell, so yes the best thing to do is focus on yourself..

Posted by ConsiderableMyth
Haven’t really been in a relationship with a cap but from what I’ve experienced, they take a REALLY long time to progress. You need a lot of patience and move at their pace.

Saturn is in there sign... they will be going though he’ll for a bit. It is how they deal with it and also how they lived there life up to this point.

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Haven’t really been in a relationship with a cap but from what I’ve experienced, they take a REALLY long time to progress. You need a lot of patience and move at their pace.

Saturn is in there sign... they will be going though he’ll for a bit. It is how they deal with it and also how they lived there life up to this point.

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Do you mean currently or in general? He ghosted a few days ago. I’m not freaking out because I know this is part of who they are but also because I know he’s trying to start a business. Idk. Giving him space, I guess.