Do caps eventually become immune to someone's bad side, in other words, the qualities that they once thought were annoying or negative? Especially in a relationship?
Do caps eventually become immune to someone's bad side?
I have pushed every boundary with my cappy ex, and he is still around. I wonder why. Nobody really stands up to him eg friends fam etc... I dont have much fear of anyone though and I have a v bad habit to like to know how much someone will take
Yeah I've pushed every boundary with mine too, turned him off a lot as well.
I wouldn't say immune. Accepting, yes.
Yeah, we can accept it.
As long as that "bad something", isn't so bad that we can't deal with it --- in which case, you'd have been ejected from our lives in short order....long before any thoughts of acceptance.
As long as that "bad something", isn't so bad that we can't deal with it --- in which case, you'd have been ejected from our lives in short order....long before any thoughts of acceptance.
Idk, mine ejected real quick with a real low threshold....suggests he has very low self esteem.
The caps I've dealt with have all been very 'do as i say not as i do.'
Only had one cap friend, a female. I remember she stole our friends boyfriend and that shocked me. Once she was flirty with the ONLY guy in our 4 years of college I felt was attractive. I took her out to my car, shut her in, and told her I saw what you're doing and back off- you don't do that to friends. She was calm , kinda scared and apologized. I thought, ok, how mature. later I find out she was having a pity party behind my back and crying for two hours to our other friend. Totally contrary to how she acted with me. Anyways we moved on and are still friends. She's married not and has grown up a lot. Used to be a pathological liar though...ahem. I'm really not impressed with caps I've dealt with in real life. Trucap is mad cool tho
The caps I've dealt with have all been very 'do as i say not as i do.'
Only had one cap friend, a female. I remember she stole our friends boyfriend and that shocked me. Once she was flirty with the ONLY guy in our 4 years of college I felt was attractive. I took her out to my car, shut her in, and told her I saw what you're doing and back off- you don't do that to friends. She was calm , kinda scared and apologized. I thought, ok, how mature. later I find out she was having a pity party behind my back and crying for two hours to our other friend. Totally contrary to how she acted with me. Anyways we moved on and are still friends. She's married not and has grown up a lot. Used to be a pathological liar though...ahem. I'm really not impressed with caps I've dealt with in real life. Trucap is mad cool tho
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Idk, mine ejected real quick with a real low threshold....suggests he has very low self esteem.
The caps I've dealt with have all been very 'do as i say not as i do.'
Only had one cap friend, a female. I remember she stole our friends boyfriend and that shocked me. Once she was flirty with the ONLY guy in our 4 years of college I felt was attractive. I took her out to my car, shut her in, and told her I saw what you're doing and back off- you don't do that to friends. She was calm , kinda scared and apologized. I thought, ok, how mature. later I find out she was having a pity party behind my back and crying for two hours to our other friend. Totally contrary to how she acted with me. Anyways we moved on and are still friends. She's married not and has grown up a lot. Used to be a pathological liar though...ahem. I'm really not impressed with caps I've dealt with in real life. Trucap is mad cool tho
No in my experience they have a low threshold.
Depends on who they are, some I have a high tolerance for and some I cut off quick. I think cheeky pretty much covered it.
Pretty high tolerance here. I also feel that I try harder than most in relationships.
Posted by ACreator24Welcome to DXP!
Pretty high tolerance here. I also feel that I try harder than most in relationships.
Patience is a virtue, one in which we are blessed with BUT push to far and you will know how much we have had it, and how we will no longer put up with it. Bringing it up again only makes it worse, and gets more of the cold shoulder. Once I'm done talking about it, or putting up with someone's negative shit I'm done. That's how I am, can't say the same for other caps
Posted by truecapThank youPosted by ACreator24Welcome to DXP!
Pretty high tolerance here. I also feel that I try harder than most in relationships.click to expand
Yes.... But please balance your bad side. Our bad side is probably worse than yours lmao.
If we care about you we do. At least I do. However, if you keep doing the same dumb shit that pisses us off prepare for our wrath.
If we care about you we do. At least I do. However, if you keep doing the same dumb shit that pisses us off prepare for our wrath.
Posted by BlondeAmbitionYup time is money... Love is sketchy...
No in my experience they have a low threshold.
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