Getting very frustrated with me aries ex

I have been pretty much done with him since mid august. At first I tried to be nice but it didn't work. Still verbally abused. I'm done, yet he still tries.
For almost two years I tried. I finally got tired of trying. I started to realize that with every break up and reunite the outcome would always be the same as the last. Hell, I even could pun point the time frame and how it would happen. I began to notice it coming before it happened just by his actions. Oh, and if his sister's relationship was on the rocks or not.
That was also a big factor.
Anyway, I don't contact him, but he continues to contact me. I ignore his attempts. I have to listen to their nasty comments from down the road everytime they are out in the yard "hanging out". GETTING DRUNK.
The drinker the louder....
I've complained, called the cops, whatever.
I don't know if other caps are the same as myself. I give chance after chance until I've completely worn myself down and then suddenly I'm done. It's happened in all of my past relationships rather it be family, friends, or lover.
A drunk doesn't do it for me, especially a miserable one. His sister is the miserable one 99% of the time but our on again off again relationship isn't worth the effort of dealing with her or anything else for that matter.
Can't get restraining order until an act of violence or a threat has been documented. Changing my number is out of the question bc it's easy and my grandparents know it. I'm their care giver. Can't block messages.
Anyone wanna offer a suggestion on this?
Tia,
Just want to be left alone

Posted by TaurusGirlRas
Do you live there or what? I'm confused as to why u can't just fall off the face of the earth

+1 right? these kind threads always scream "help me! i like the attention it secretly feeds my ego" lol

Yes, I live here. Been here for 10 years. Own my place. Have kids still in the same since kindergarten. Not trying to uproot them. He on the other hand, rents a place three doors down, no kids, and lives with his sister and other roommates.
Not screaming for attention. Don't need that to justify myself. Perfectly happy with myself.
I've been a single mother for 17 years now. I own my shit, pay my bills, not on the system and hold a great job as well as a part time Job. I've raised 3 kids, one in college for radiology, one in military, and the third a senior in high school with several scholarships . I don't need a man. I can do this on my own just fine!