girl cap venus aqua moon aries

any way to win back a girl cap w/ venus in aqua moon aries and gemini ascendent. It seems like a roll a coaster, shes very strong willed never showed weakness, never chase and so aloof.

I don't what to think or do, and if I stay aloof and distant, she does not contact nor call, very weird.

I read all the threads, maybe all it comes down to is take it or leave as it is with venus in aqua.

thanks all who can contribute

my sign is aries, moon in cancer, ascendant scorpio/cancer cusps depending on the websites or charting. I make sure to be supportive and be a friend, and give the utmost space and freedom. I feel we get along so well and have deep connection, maybe she dosen't see that too.

Its too bad and what it is. Just looking to learn more from those who have any comments. thanks

thank you qs for your suggestion.