Help me to understand a capricorn woman

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4 months ago I started working with a capricorn woman and we kind of hit it off. First it was just talking, no real flirting or anything. She has a boyfriend that she's been dating for a year and a half.

Anyways it turns out we have the major hots for each other and within the month we were sneaking away and making out every chance we could get. Then we started to sleep together. The sex was fantastic and I couldn't get enough. Everything progressed pretty quickly.

After about a month she told me she wants to put the physical on hold because all of a sudden she feels guilty for cheating. She says she has morals and she feels that she's changed as a person and it bothers her.

She told me she has the same feelings for me that she has for her boyfriend.

I've respected her wishes but I also told her I have no interest in being her friend and that my only goal is to have a relationship with her. She has really opened up to me and told me her feelings and said that she's feels more comfortable telling me than anyone else in her life. She says she thinks about me often wanting to text and call me asking me how I am but stops herself. Her boyfriend treats her like a doormat but she says she doesn't have the courage to leave him. She says she wants him to cheat on her so that he'll break up with her. She also tells me at least once a week how much I turn her on.

We meet for coffee once and awhile and give each other hugs when we see each other and they are the full body ones and I feel that after we hug she wants to kiss but turns her head away. Often times when we hug or even talk her eyes get glassy and she looks like she's about to cry. It seems like she's overwhelmed emotionally.

I'm very interested in her and it seems genuine to me but I'm frustrated. What's going on inside her head?
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You Leo guy!

If she had morals she wouldn't have slept with you, turns out she doesn't LMAO

So for now there's no hope for you unless you go straight to her bf and make everything clear, it might result you 2 kicking each other in the balls, if that happens make sure to record it and let me watch.
Lol I like that idea
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Buy me some fruit and send it to me. Is that even possible? Fruit 8s my life, can't get enough, oh and cakes.
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I know someone has some advice to give me...
You should leave her alone until she is single. If you guys were to date in the future she will not trust you. This is not a good way to start a relationship. Can you ever trust her?! idk...
Lol trust is already ??
pretty much ...
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There's no excuse for cheating.
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You Leo guy!

If she had morals she wouldn't have slept with you, turns out she doesn't LMAO

So for now there's no hope for you unless you go straight to her bf and make everything clear, it might result you 2 kicking each other in the balls, if that happens make sure to record it and let me watch.
Lol I like that idea
LMAO is that your tattoo? Freaks me out —

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Lol yes it's my tattoo I didn't get it off google lol
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Posted by Leoguy8
I know someone has some advice to give me...
You should leave her alone until she is single. If you guys were to date in the future she will not trust you. This is not a good way to start a relationship. Can you ever trust her?! idk...
Lol trust is already ??
pretty much ...
There's no excuse for cheating.
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If she was single she wouldn't want him, Capricorns only want what they cant have
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Leoguy8
I know someone has some advice to give me...
You should leave her alone until she is single. If you guys were to date in the future she will not trust you. This is not a good way to start a relationship. Can you ever trust her?! idk...
Lol trust is already ??
pretty much ...
There's no excuse for cheating.
If she was single she wouldn't want him, Capricorns only want what they cant have
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Is that how all caps are?
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Posted by pisceanloves
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You Leo guy!

If she had morals she wouldn't have slept with you, turns out she doesn't LMAO

So for now there's no hope for you unless you go straight to her bf and make everything clear, it might result you 2 kicking each other in the balls, if that happens make sure to record it and let me watch.
Lol I like that idea
Buy me some fruit and send it to me. Is that even possible? Fruit 8s my life, can't get enough, oh and cakes.
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Lol you want fruits and cakes? I'll share it with you through my pics ?
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You Leo guy!

If she had morals she wouldn't have slept with you, turns out she doesn't LMAO

So for now there's no hope for you unless you go straight to her bf and make everything clear, it might result you 2 kicking each other in the balls, if that happens make sure to record it and let me watch.
Lol I like that idea
Buy me some fruit and send it to me. Is that even possible? Fruit 8s my life, can't get enough, oh and cakes.
Lol you want fruits and cakes? I'll share it with you through my pics ?
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That's it? Hm thank you
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Posted by Leoguy8
I know someone has some advice to give me...
You should leave her alone until she is single. If you guys were to date in the future she will not trust you. This is not a good way to start a relationship. Can you ever trust her?! idk...
Lol trust is already ??
pretty much ...
There's no excuse for cheating.
If she was single she wouldn't want him, Capricorns only want what they cant have
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So your saying that I'm pretty much out of luck with anything coming from this. So what do I do now? Avoid her? I'm not much into avoiding people I prefer confronting things head on.
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I know someone has some advice to give me...
You should leave her alone until she is single. If you guys were to date in the future she will not trust you. This is not a good way to start a relationship. Can you ever trust her?! idk...
Lol trust is already ??
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Why would she not trust me. She was the initiator, I just reciprocated.
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Posted by FishyDude
I suggest leave her alone until she breaks up with her boyfriend, that's if she breaks up with him, or leave her alone altogether. If she can cheat on him she can cheat on you. But, what are you doing with a woman who is taken? Wouldn't you rather find a single girl?
I think you might be right. It'll be hard for me to leave her alone, this girl has bewitched me which I guess is the typical reaction I read on this forum when it comes to Cap & Leo.

As for being cheated on, that's not something I worry about at all to be honest. A single girl would be ideal but for some reason throughout my life I always seem to attract girls that are taken. It frustrates me because I think I'm a pretty decent guy.
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Posted by Gob_Shite
In typical female Cappy fashion, she used you. She needed an outlet and you were easy prey. She's only keeping you sweet just in case she needs to 'let off some steam' again in the near future.

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Her boyfriend treats her like a doormat but she says she doesn't have the courage to leave him.

Because she'd be greatly inconvenienced, if she left. Maybe it's financial, maybe she wants to be the one who stays in the flat/house.

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She's the provider and can support herself. He's a deadbeat with no motivation to find a job to support them. He's content working his near minimum wage part time job
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Posted by lnana04
Most likely she's not going to leave her boyfriend.

She's probably in misery feeling guilt for cheating, then feeling sad that she can't have you. She'll eventually find comfort in the misery and continue on.

I'd say leave the situation alone and find someone that's single. There's nothing left here.
I'm sure she'll leave him eventually but I think you might be right regarding the misery and sadness part. I'm tempted to ask her about it and see what she says. I have no problem calling her out. She says it aggravate her that I can see right through her but it doesn't bother me at all.
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Whàt a load of bullshit.

You just fucked a girl who has no problem fucking you behind her boyfriends back. And she has shown zero signs she will leave her bf.
Oh that non relationship will self destruct eventually regardless if I'm around or not
If you could see me rolling my eyes right now.

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I could hasten it's destruction if I really wanted to. But I wont because that's not in my nature
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I know someone has some advice to give me...
You should leave her alone until she is single. If you guys were to date in the future she will not trust you. This is not a good way to start a relationship. Can you ever trust her?! idk...
Lol trust is already ??
pretty much ...
There's no excuse for cheating.
If she was single she wouldn't want him, Capricorns only want what they cant have
So your saying that I'm pretty much out of luck with anything coming from this. So what do I do now? Avoid her? I'm not much into avoiding people I prefer confronting things head on.
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Yes I am saying you're pretty much out of luck dude. She has a boyfriend RESPECT that. What are you doing? You're making yourself look easy and dumb. A negative Capricorn will make you look dumb, you don't want that. In the end she's not going to break up with her bf and you will be left dry. Is that what you want? No so just tell her you can't talk to her until she breaks up with her bf if she's that unhappy like she says she is. You will soon come to find out that she's all talk.
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What's her bf's sign?

It could be she's emotionally attached to him and he represents what she longs for but he simply doesn't feel the same about her (and she's getting her need for love satisfied though you), though this is a twisted scenario and she must be really insecure/immature is she's doing that. OR, she feels a deep sense of loyalty to him and that he needs her and she couldn't just leave him alone (more typical cap).

Either way, you can appeal to her sense of reason and logic, she will respond very well to that. Talk to her and figure out how she feels about her situation with him, but also emphasize that it would only work for you if she leaves the non-working relationship, which she should do if she's unhappy.
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What's her bf's sign?

It could be she's emotionally attached to him and he represents what she longs for but he simply doesn't feel the same about her (and she's getting her need for love satisfied though you), though this is a twisted scenario and she must be really insecure/immature is she's doing that. OR, she feels a deep sense of loyalty to him and that he needs her and she couldn't just leave him alone (more typical cap).

Either way, you can appeal to her sense of reason and logic, she will respond very well to that. Talk to her and figure out how she feels about her situation with him, but also emphasize that it would only work for you if she leaves the non-working relationship, which she should do if she's unhappy.
He's a Sagittarius
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After thinking about it it's likely that she's not 100% sure about the relationship with you and therefore doesn't want to rush things and break off the not-working relationship until she's certain she wants to be with you long-term. Maybe she doesn't want to hurt you if she jumped into a relationship with you then figured out she doesn't want it.

If you think she's worth it give her time and she will find her way, caps can take months to fully fall head over heals.
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Posted by Leoguy8
4 months ago I started working with a capricorn woman and we kind of hit it off. First it was just talking, no real flirting or anything. She has a boyfriend that she's been dating for a year and a half.

Anyways it turns out we have the major hots for each other and within the month we were sneaking away and making out every chance we could get. Then we started to sleep together. The sex was fantastic and I couldn't get enough. Everything progressed pretty quickly.

After about a month she told me she wants to put the physical on hold because all of a sudden she feels guilty for cheating. She says she has morals and she feels that she's changed as a person and it bothers her.

She told me she has the same feelings for me that she has for her boyfriend.

I've respected her wishes but I also told her I have no interest in being her friend and that my only goal is to have a relationship with her. She has really opened up to me and told me her feelings and said that she's feels more comfortable telling me than anyone else in her life. She says she thinks about me often wanting to text and call me asking me how I am but stops herself. Her boyfriend treats her like a doormat but she says she doesn't have the courage to leave him. She says she wants him to cheat on her so that he'll break up with her. She also tells me at least once a week how much I turn her on.

We meet for coffee once and awhile and give each other hugs when we see each other and they are the full body ones and I feel that after we hug she wants to kiss but turns her head away. Often times when we hug or even talk her eyes get glassy and she looks like she's about to cry. It seems like she's overwhelmed emotionally.

I'm very interested in her and it seems genuine to me but I'm frustrated. What's going on inside her head?
I'm a cap girl and I think from what she said to you she sounds pretty honest and it sounds like she's telling you exactly whats going on inside her head. She did something that was wrong and probably got lost in the moment caps are very passionate people and she realizes it, and she feels bad. Even though others may treat caps like shit we still hold our values and our grounds and if we are doing something wrong we can't stop thinking about it and it overwhelms us with guilt. I think the best thing for you is to leave her alone to settle her problems before starting a relationship with you. But don't let her think you are waiting for her. Just tell her you are going to have to move on and you hope she figures everything out for herself. That should light a fire under her butt to make a decision.
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4 months ago I started working with a capricorn woman and we kind of hit it off. First it was just talking, no real flirting or anything. She has a boyfriend that she's been dating for a year and a half.

Anyways it turns out we have the major hots for each other and within the month we were sneaking away and making out every chance we could get. Then we started to sleep together. The sex was fantastic and I couldn't get enough. Everything progressed pretty quickly.

After about a month she told me she wants to put the physical on hold because all of a sudden she feels guilty for cheating. She says she has morals and she feels that she's changed as a person and it bothers her.

She told me she has the same feelings for me that she has for her boyfriend.

I've respected her wishes but I also told her I have no interest in being her friend and that my only goal is to have a relationship with her. She has really opened up to me and told me her feelings and said that she's feels more comfortable telling me than anyone else in her life. She says she thinks about me often wanting to text and call me asking me how I am but stops herself. Her boyfriend treats her like a doormat but she says she doesn't have the courage to leave him. She says she wants him to cheat on her so that he'll break up with her. She also tells me at least once a week how much I turn her on.

We meet for coffee once and awhile and give each other hugs when we see each other and they are the full body ones and I feel that after we hug she wants to kiss but turns her head away. Often times when we hug or even talk her eyes get glassy and she looks like she's about to cry. It seems like she's overwhelmed emotionally.

I'm very interested in her and it seems genuine to me but I'm frustrated. What's going on inside her head?
I'm a cap girl and I think from what she said to you she sounds pretty honest and it sounds like she's telling you exactly whats going on inside her head. She did something that was wrong and probably got lost in the moment caps are very passionate people and she realizes it, and she feels bad. Even though others may treat caps like shit we still hold our values and our grounds and if we are doing something wrong we can't stop thinking about it and it overwhelms us with guilt. I think the best thing for you is to leave her alone to settle her problems before starting a relationship with you. But don't let her think you are waiting for her. Just tell her you are going to have to move on and you hope she figures everything out for herself. That should light a fire under her butt to make a decision.
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Well all we do now is text each other a couple of times a day and I see her maybe a couple of times a week at work. We give each other hugs when we see each other still. She tells me that it feels so intense when we hug. We also do small gestures for each other.

Everything has been so consistent aside from her feelings obviously building up inside, I feel if I cut off all ties with her it would break her heart. I think I'm just going to have to be patient and let her figure shit out but still be there for her emotionally.
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Posted by Leoguy8
4 months ago I started working with a capricorn woman and we kind of hit it off. First it was just talking, no real flirting or anything. She has a boyfriend that she's been dating for a year and a half.

Anyways it turns out we have the major hots for each other and within the month we were sneaking away and making out every chance we could get. Then we started to sleep together. The sex was fantastic and I couldn't get enough. Everything progressed pretty quickly.

After about a month she told me she wants to put the physical on hold because all of a sudden she feels guilty for cheating. She says she has morals and she feels that she's changed as a person and it bothers her.

She told me she has the same feelings for me that she has for her boyfriend.

I've respected her wishes but I also told her I have no interest in being her friend and that my only goal is to have a relationship with her. She has really opened up to me and told me her feelings and said that she's feels more comfortable telling me than anyone else in her life. She says she thinks about me often wanting to text and call me asking me how I am but stops herself. Her boyfriend treats her like a doormat but she says she doesn't have the courage to leave him. She says she wants him to cheat on her so that he'll break up with her. She also tells me at least once a week how much I turn her on.

We meet for coffee once and awhile and give each other hugs when we see each other and they are the full body ones and I feel that after we hug she wants to kiss but turns her head away. Often times when we hug or even talk her eyes get glassy and she looks like she's about to cry. It seems like she's overwhelmed emotionally.

I'm very interested in her and it seems genuine to me but I'm frustrated. What's going on inside her head?
Smh.. i swear all caps are the same.......
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4 months ago I started working with a capricorn woman and we kind of hit it off. First it was just talking, no real flirting or anything. She has a boyfriend that she's been dating for a year and a half.

Anyways it turns out we have the major hots for each other and within the month we were sneaking away and making out every chance we could get. Then we started to sleep together. The sex was fantastic and I couldn't get enough. Everything progressed pretty quickly.

After about a month she told me she wants to put the physical on hold because all of a sudden she feels guilty for cheating. She says she has morals and she feels that she's changed as a person and it bothers her.

She told me she has the same feelings for me that she has for her boyfriend.

I've respected her wishes but I also told her I have no interest in being her friend and that my only goal is to have a relationship with her. She has really opened up to me and told me her feelings and said that she's feels more comfortable telling me than anyone else in her life. She says she thinks about me often wanting to text and call me asking me how I am but stops herself. Her boyfriend treats her like a doormat but she says she doesn't have the courage to leave him. She says she wants him to cheat on her so that he'll break up with her. She also tells me at least once a week how much I turn her on.

We meet for coffee once and awhile and give each other hugs when we see each other and they are the full body ones and I feel that after we hug she wants to kiss but turns her head away. Often times when we hug or even talk her eyes get glassy and she looks like she's about to cry. It seems like she's overwhelmed emotionally.

I'm very interested in her and it seems genuine to me but I'm frustrated. What's going on inside her head?
Smh.. i swear all caps are the same.......
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Well once we ran our charts together everything made sense. Dual Scorpio moons explain the irresistibly intense attraction.