How do you limit a Caps influence on your life?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Pisceanus on Monday, May 22, 2017 and has 9 replies.

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@Pisceanus
9 Years

Long story short after a long time of being with a capricorn 7 years she decided again that she needs a brake and this is the 4 time, nothing has really changed but i can't take it anymore

Like were were supposed to go somewhere this Friday and we made plans ahead and just on her own she canceled

So no, no matter how much i love her i really can't take it anymore

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@Shrewdsharp
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Pisceanus
Long story short after a long time of being with a capricorn 7 years she decided again that she needs a brake and this is the 4 time, nothing has really changed but i can't take it anymore

Like were were supposed to go somewhere this Friday and we made plans ahead and just on her own she canceled

So no, no matter how much i love her i really can't take it anymore


why have you been going out with somebody for 7 years that you haven't married yet she's probably sick and tired of the lack of progress in the relationship.

And if you have proposed and she said no then why are you wasting your time over here.

And if you haven't proposed why aren't you making your woman an honest woman?

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@mer-eye-uh
9 Years

I ask because I noticed that a lot of Caps love driven people. If they're lazy we don't seem to want to stick around

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@iCloud9
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Pisceanus
Long story short after a long time of being with a capricorn 7 years she decided again that she needs a brake and this is the 4 time, nothing has really changed but i can't take it anymore

Like were were supposed to go somewhere this Friday and we made plans ahead and just on her own she canceled

So no, no matter how much i love her i really can't take it anymore

4 times?

swim away like a true fish

delete / block her from your phone and all social medias. trust me. she will not take you for granted after that

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@iCloud9
11 Years1,000+ Posts

what a selfish person. she thinks she can just come and go as she pleases. does she care about your feelings at all?

tell her she can have a permanent break and have a good life

and then block her and go live your life. don't acknowledge her for as long as it makes you feel better or just don't acknowledge her ever in this lifetime

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@twowaycap
9 Years

If you say you love her and don't want to lose her, maybe you should first try talking honestly to her. Tell her how her actions make you feel and ask her if there is anything wrong.

Caps have a soft spot for honesty. They like talking openly about problems and trying to fix instead of ignoring them.

You being a pisces, you might have been trying to compromise and keep the peace/keep her happy, but this way she will never truly know something is wrong or it is bothering you too much.

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@GoldenFlower
9 Years

Looks like she has no more interest in the relationship, because why in the world would you need a break unless your looking for new options? If you love her talk to her, and be honest about how you're feeling and if there's no solution move on.