@RamOnFire1
9 Years
Domesticated Caps
Cap was fabulous to live with.
Home life is such a priority, expect him to take alone time or together-but-with-no-talking-time quite seriously, but chores and bills split down the middle etc
Just naturally an organised and tidy person, perfectly capable of living on their own, the men maintain the same independence when you are with them.
But you also get taken care of in little ways, they will cook for you, keep the fridge stocked with your fave beverage and let you control the remote things like that 🙂
Absolute gentlemen.
Home life is such a priority, expect him to take alone time or together-but-with-no-talking-time quite seriously, but chores and bills split down the middle etc
Just naturally an organised and tidy person, perfectly capable of living on their own, the men maintain the same independence when you are with them.
But you also get taken care of in little ways, they will cook for you, keep the fridge stocked with your fave beverage and let you control the remote things like that 🙂
Absolute gentlemen.
My cap brings his $ $ $ pay check home, a pretty flower for me every month and lots of security.
We live very traditional at home, housekeeping, cooking is 100% my part and I looooove it ?❤️ I take a lot of pride in fulfilling my wifey duties. I work fulltime but when the time comes and we'll expect our first baby I'll stay at home. That's what he takes pride in, being able to fully take care of his family so I can stay with the kids.
We are all about saving money until then and growing financially. That's fun!! 🙂 he is quiet at home, enjoys cuddletime and resting from a hard day at work. Very easy going! Not complicated at all.
We live very traditional at home, housekeeping, cooking is 100% my part and I looooove it ?❤️ I take a lot of pride in fulfilling my wifey duties. I work fulltime but when the time comes and we'll expect our first baby I'll stay at home. That's what he takes pride in, being able to fully take care of his family so I can stay with the kids.
We are all about saving money until then and growing financially. That's fun!! 🙂 he is quiet at home, enjoys cuddletime and resting from a hard day at work. Very easy going! Not complicated at all.
Ps. When I feel sick or just too exhausted he'll help me or order food without me needing to say anything. His only duty at home is to bring out the trash ? That's it and it works for us
Posted by AquaNextDoor
My cap brings his $ $ $ pay check home, a pretty flower for me every month and lots of security.
We live very traditional at home, housekeeping, cooking is 100% my part and I looooove it ?❤️ I take a lot of pride in fulfilling my wifey duties. I work fulltime but when the time comes and we'll expect our first baby I'll stay at home. That's what he takes pride in, being able to fully take care of his family so I can stay with the kids.
We are all about saving money until then and growing financially. That's fun!! 🙂 he is quiet at home, enjoys cuddletime and resting from a hard day at work. Very easy going! Not complicated at all.
sounds like my husband. super traditional man too. he wants a woman to SACRIFICE a lot for him that's for sure. and i'm the sacrificial lamb. j/k. heehee.
i'm super happy pappy.
glad to hear you're happy!!!
infact I like hearing happy couples here on this topic.
Posted by RamOnFire1living together should be easy peasy.....
Curious.. What is it like living with your Cap?
Does he/she do chores? Pays for things? How do you do bills? Etc.
P.S. I may be living with my Cap soon temporarily (if we dont kill each other first, lol) for a month.
So, I'd like to know what you're experience has been. I've never spend the whole day with him before and now we're doing this impromptu temp living together due to other circumstances and I'm excited but also ?...
Lawd help us all! ?
but the extra goodness is that you have someone there to cuddle and love all the time! you will feel safe and feel all the gooey goodness. 😄
and you'll be so happy to feed and service him too.cook and clean and all that.
but it depends on the type of man you have. I do notice there are some men who like to do things for you in the kitchen.
my man is not a chef, or cook or anything but he does cook way better than me. he just wants ME to do all the cooking. and i'm all up for that!!
so tell us what type of guy he is.
Posted by lisabethur8Aawwww that's wonderful! Very happy to see that there are stable and happy marriages out there! ❤️ Of course we all had our piece of shit in life before but to finally settling down with the right one is wonderful.Posted by AquaNextDoor
My cap brings his $ $ $ pay check home, a pretty flower for me every month and lots of security.
We live very traditional at home, housekeeping, cooking is 100% my part and I looooove it ?❤️ I take a lot of pride in fulfilling my wifey duties. I work fulltime but when the time comes and we'll expect our first baby I'll stay at home. That's what he takes pride in, being able to fully take care of his family so I can stay with the kids.
We are all about saving money until then and growing financially. That's fun!! 🙂 he is quiet at home, enjoys cuddletime and resting from a hard day at work. Very easy going! Not complicated at all.
sounds like my husband. super traditional man too. he wants a woman to SACRIFICE a lot for him that's for sure. and i'm the sacrificial lamb. j/k. heehee.
i'm super happy pappy.
glad to hear you're happy!!!
infact I like hearing happy couples here on this topic.click to expand
Awe, thanks everyone for responding. These answers give me hope. 🙂
I guess I just dont know what to expect since this came up unexpectedly. Feels like we're moving one step up, no?!
We have already established that he will be cooking for us because I'll be at work and dont come back till later in the day. While, he's coming from Europe and will need to get re-adjusted to the USofA first.
Also, I made a Roommate Agreement that lays out all division of chores and things. Do any of you have that?
Do y'all think he'll think that's tacky? ?
I'm an unusual Aries aint I?
I guess I just dont know what to expect since this came up unexpectedly. Feels like we're moving one step up, no?!
We have already established that he will be cooking for us because I'll be at work and dont come back till later in the day. While, he's coming from Europe and will need to get re-adjusted to the USofA first.
Also, I made a Roommate Agreement that lays out all division of chores and things. Do any of you have that?
Do y'all think he'll think that's tacky? ?
I'm an unusual Aries aint I?
Why don't you ask him if you think the two of you should have a roommate agreement and chore list? If he says yes, then you can lay it out and divide it together?
Posted by RamOnFire1
Awe, thanks everyone for responding. These answers give me hope. 🙂
I guess I just dont know what to expect since this came up unexpectedly. Feels like we're moving one step up, no?!
We have already established that he will be cooking for us because I'll be at work and dont come back till later in the day. While, he's coming from Europe and will need to get re-adjusted to the USofA first.
Also, I made a Roommate Agreement that lays out all division of chores and things. Do any of you have that?
Do y'all think he'll think that's tacky? ?
I'm an unusual Aries aint I?
no there was never any roommate agreement with any of my ex's or anyone I've ever known.
is your Capricorn man from a famiy background where he doesn't understand these things?
what's your roommate agreement about btw?
what's on the list?
and no I don't think it's tacky. if that is what makes both of you comfortable then you should.
and that's awesome that he'll cook since you do come home late from work.
where is he from btw?
Posted by YoRabbittPosted by AquaNextDoorThats just what I want ! Lucky you
My cap brings his $ $ $ pay check home, a pretty flower for me every month and lots of security.
We live very traditional at home, housekeeping, cooking is 100% my part and I looooove it ?❤️ I take a lot of pride in fulfilling my wifey duties. I work fulltime but when the time comes and we'll expect our first baby I'll stay at home. That's what he takes pride in, being able to fully take care of his family so I can stay with the kids.
We are all about saving money until then and growing financially. That's fun!! 🙂 he is quiet at home, enjoys cuddletime and resting from a hard day at work. Very easy going! Not complicated at all.click to expand
ohh what happened? the quote didn't work.
lol
anyway she is lucky!!!! but I remember her posting here in the past,
where she had bad luck with 2 ex's, and SUFFERED a lot.
her hard work, motivation and dedication finally landed her a good decent man.
lol
anyway she is lucky!!!! but I remember her posting here in the past,
where she had bad luck with 2 ex's, and SUFFERED a lot.
her hard work, motivation and dedication finally landed her a good decent man.
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Does he/she do chores? Pays for things? How do you do bills? Etc.
P.S. I may be living with my Cap soon temporarily (if we dont kill each other first, lol) for a month.
So, I'd like to know what you're experience has been. I've never spend the whole day with him before and now we're doing this impromptu temp living together due to other circumstances and I'm excited but also ?...
Lawd help us all! ?