How girls start loosing interest in a guy

We normally hear from people that guys loose their interest in a girl more faster than a girl. Well its a true fact but I was just curious to know that what is that last point at which a girl loose all her interest for a guy once she desperately wanted to be with? What are those limits when she finally realizes that he isn't worth having her attention anymore? Although its a general question but I want to know how it works for a Capricorn girl particularly. But you guys can also tell me an over all general point of view.. Will be more than happy to have your interesting opinions 🙂

After I observe and figure out he isn't who he says he is. He doesn't follow through. He says he is one way and his actions show completely different. He is inconsistent. He has no ambition. He has no desire to move up in life. He is a condescending ass. He takes nothing seriously. His financial status is a mess. He doesn't have his act together.

Once I figure this out, the interest fades quickly.

Posted by truecap
After I observe and figure out he isn't who he says he is. He doesn't follow through. He says he is one way and his actions show completely different. He is inconsistent. He has no ambition. He has no desire to move up in life. He is a condescending ass. He takes nothing seriously. His financial status is a mess. He doesn't have his act together.

Once I figure this out, the interest fades quickly.

When I first read this I thought: yup, I sooo agree. But, then I tought: would you really have caught interest in this guy to begin with?

Imo, taking a long time finding out if I'm really interested or not, when I finally do, I lose interest when/if I get bored - when I fail to see more facets to him. When he is no longer a challenge and I don't feel I can learn as much from him anymore. Yes, I'm difficult, I know.

It's not a fact but let's see...if a guy doesn't give me enough attention and another guy does, or he gives me too much attention and another gives me the right amount.
If a guy doesn't make me feel loved or cared about but another does..or in general if he doesn't I lose interest.
If he's boring and bland in lif and doesn't have crazy exciting goals or doesn't consider mine like my dream and goal to travel the world and have a pet lion.
If he doesn't know how to be romantic then bye bye!
If hes too sexual and then acts a little careless and uninterested the rest of the time.
If a guy can't move conversations fast. Like for ten mins we talk about sex, then we magically start talking about food we like, then 20 mins later about how chargers break easily etc etc...MOVE IT ALONG.

But mostly: if my standards weren't totally met to begin with, if that guy starts slacking and not putting full effort into me and us, I'm gone.

Posted by SuperMissMan
It's not a fact but let's see...if a guy doesn't give me enough attention and another guy does, or he gives me too much attention and another gives me the right amount.
If a guy doesn't make me feel loved or cared about but another does..or in general if he doesn't I lose interest.
If he's boring and bland in lif and doesn't have crazy exciting goals or doesn't consider mine like my dream and goal to travel the world and have a pet lion.
If he doesn't know how to be romantic then bye bye!
If hes too sexual and then acts a little careless and uninterested the rest of the time.
If a guy can't move conversations fast. Like for ten mins we talk about sex, then we magically start talking about food we like, then 20 mins later about how chargers break easily etc etc...MOVE IT ALONG.

But mostly: if my standards weren't totally met to begin with, if that guy starts slacking and not putting full effort into me and us, I'm gone.

That sounds like a very egotistical view on relationships.

I assume you're very young? It sounds like something someone very young would say.

Posted by SuperMissMan
It's not a fact but let's see...if a guy doesn't give me enough attention and another guy does, or he gives me too much attention and another gives me the right amount.
If a guy doesn't make me feel loved or cared about but another does..or in general if he doesn't I lose interest.
If he's boring and bland in lif and doesn't have crazy exciting goals or doesn't consider mine like my dream and goal to travel the world and have a pet lion.
If he doesn't know how to be romantic then bye bye!
If hes too sexual and then acts a little careless and uninterested the rest of the time.
If a guy can't move conversations fast. Like for ten mins we talk about sex, then we magically start talking about food we like, then 20 mins later about how chargers break easily etc etc...MOVE IT ALONG.

But mostly: if my standards weren't totally met to begin with, if that guy starts slacking and not putting full effort into me and us, I'm gone.

i cosign. i think we should date.

Posted by truecap
After I observe and figure out he isn't who he says he is. He doesn't follow through. He says he is one way and his actions show completely different. He is inconsistent. He has no ambition. He has no desire to move up in life. He is a condescending ass. He takes nothing seriously. His financial status is a mess. He doesn't have his act together.

Once I figure this out, the interest fades quickly.

my venus in cap would agree with this. I may stick around for a romp in the sheets, but then i have to decide if i can live with your flaws and how they measure up to mine. I like to be equally flawed with my mate.

i need constant stimulation. you must force your way into my life.

Posted by e11e
harsh ^^^^^

isn't that going to eventually happen with everyone?

I mean, how many facets can one person have?

I choose the ppl I hang out with carefully. And thing is, as time goes by, ppl grow and when they do, they tend to keep making me interested if they were interesting to begin with. It's the ones who just stops growing that I may tire of.

Posted by truecap

Posted by SuperMissMan
It's not a fact but let's see...if a guy doesn't give me enough attention and another guy does, or he gives me too much attention and another gives me the right amount.
If a guy doesn't make me feel loved or cared about but another does..or in general if he doesn't I lose interest.
If he's boring and bland in lif and doesn't have crazy exciting goals or doesn't consider mine like my dream and goal to travel the world and have a pet lion.
If he doesn't know how to be romantic then bye bye!
If hes too sexual and then acts a little careless and uninterested the rest of the time.
If a guy can't move conversations fast. Like for ten mins we talk about sex, then we magically start talking about food we like, then 20 mins later about how chargers break easily etc etc...MOVE IT ALONG.

But mostly: if my standards weren't totally met to begin with, if that guy starts slacking and not putting full effort into me and us, I'm gone.

That sounds like a very egotistical view on relationships.

I assume you're very young? It sounds like something someone very young would say.

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yes I just turned 16. But most of what I said is pretty blown up of what I'd actually do, just saying I 'do' lose interest a little bit some more or less when these things happen. But when I'm in a relationship I'm staying in it even if I don't get all the things I want all the time.

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Posted by SuperMissMan
It's not a fact but let's see...if a guy doesn't give me enough attention and another guy does, or he gives me too much attention and another gives me the right amount.
If a guy doesn't make me feel loved or cared about but another does..or in general if he doesn't I lose interest.
If he's boring and bland in lif and doesn't have crazy exciting goals or doesn't consider mine like my dream and goal to travel the world and have a pet lion.
If he doesn't know how to be romantic then bye bye!
If hes too sexual and then acts a little careless and uninterested the rest of the time.
If a guy can't move conversations fast. Like for ten mins we talk about sex, then we magically start talking about food we like, then 20 mins later about how chargers break easily etc etc...MOVE IT ALONG.

But mostly: if my standards weren't totally met to begin with, if that guy starts slacking and not putting full effort into me and us, I'm gone.

i cosign. i think we should date.

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😆 I just dumped my cancer, let's do it!

When a guy thinks he can play as many games as he wants. Go away and come back he actually thinks the feelings should be as clear and loyal as the day we met.

I lose interest and pull away when I figure out he's not my equal. Most Cappy's are reserved, conservative, calm, hard-working. If you're not those things too, you really don't stand a "long term" chance with us. Nowadays, I date with the intent to find a long term partner. If the man in my age group (30's, 40's) is still out womanizing, instead of looking to settle down at his age, it's the surest way to make me lose my interest. I don't want to invest all of my effort into someone who is still doing online dating, or playing pass the p*ssy on his (fb) page with 20 somethings, when it's perfectly clear to him that I'm standing right there in front of him. It's true, we Cappy's have ego's. Sometimes bigger ego's then Aries or Leo's. If you try to make us a lesser person in your life, all the while you know we're interested in you, we're gone. Sure we might stick around for some "in the sheets" fun with you if you're hot enough, but you're not going to be the ideal marriage partner for us and we might cheat on you. Cappies don't like to settle. We'd rather stay single longer, then settle for a lesser partner. Capricorn's are looking for a wholesome, kind, somewhat reserved, giving, partner who has a good head on their shoulders. We also like a good sense of humor, someone who laughs easily, but also has a serious side. Female Cap's such as myself, are looking for a strong leader type who has his life together. If you're a broke wanderer with no set goals, I don't want you no matter how good looking you are. Cappy Males are looking for a woman who is an "innocent" of sorts, instead of a flashy party girl with huge fake boobs. Male Cappy's like the "girl next door" type without the tattoo's, with a nice toned body, long, sweet smelling clean hair, big soulful eyes, beautiful, warm smile, natural breasts, a girl who is independent and hard working while they're dating but willing to give all up for him after marriage. Keep in mind that we're watching how you act with us all the time too. We watch your text messages to us, your (fb) actions with your friends, we watch how you respond to us if we disappear on you for a few days, (ha ha, yes we sometimes do that just to make u miss us and to gain back control), we watch to see how uninhibited you are in social media, if you're disrespecting yourself in public. How you treat yourself and how you treat me is a big deciding factor. Respect wins the day.

I lose interest when:

- he doesn't do what he says repeatedly
- entitled and lazy
- narrow minded (doesn't like to learn new things)
- someone who is scared to take risks
- huge egos
- bad communication
- selfish and cocky without anything to back it up

^ amen. The first Is the biggest for me. Guayana tooth grinder I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE DO DO WHAT THEY SAY THEY WILL especially over and over again

I lose interest when she

Becomes more of a problem then a teammate.

Doesn't just need one males attention, but every males attention.

Shows signs of being a slut which goes with above sentence.

Needs so much attention it could cure world hunger.

Thinks she knows what she wants but constantly proves she has no clue.

Completely warped due to being weak from other men playing mind games

Basically every female under 25.

I lose interest if:

A) If he wants me to play the role of his therapist all the time because he suffers from a serious low self-esteem

B) is not a man of his word. Say what you mean and mean what you say. You have to be an honourable man!

C) No hot and cold behaviour. I should know he likes me and if I feel the need to come on dxp and question his feelings for me, then I lose interest

D) If he is too arrogant that he's always talking about himself. There's a fine balance in conversation. He talks some and I talk some.

Anything that p's me off or bores me too long...and honestly, that changes with me either from 1 day to the next or can be from one year to the next. The same thing I had patience for yesterday I won't next week but may in another 2 months from now (which some won't truthfully admit). STAY ON UR GAME & KEEP IT LIVELY FROM TIME TO TIME & NEVER TRY TO MANIPULATIVELY BOX ME IN!!!! 😉

Posted by Lovelyisis
Anything that p's me off or bores me too long...and honestly, that changes with me either from 1 day to the next or can be from one year to the next. The same thing I had patience for yesterday I won't next week but may in another 2 months from now (which some won't truthfully admit). STAY ON UR GAME & KEEP IT LIVELY FROM TIME TO TIME & NEVER TRY TO MANIPULATIVELY BOX ME IN!!!! 😉

Sounds like fun. *End sarcasm*