How jealous are Capricorn men??

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Posted by willow1
Hi I'm new here I have met a Capricorn man and states dating two weeks ago I have witnessed a couple of jealous remarks?? Are they controlling— I'm worried this will become an issue as I have been here before, or is it just early days and un sure of me? He's been hurt by three main women in his life,
Don't ya think it's a lil' bit early for him to be acting jealous? I mean, at two weeks it's not like it's a committed relationship or anything.
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Oh my cap boyfriend has a libra moon and scorp venus -> of course he is possessive. He isn’t the super jealous type of man from what I’ve seen since june(!) but he clearly marks his territory and I LOVE IT 🙂 he doesn’t ask 1000 of questions about guys etc but I also reassure him a lot that he is the only one for me and I draw the line for others pretty obvious. So he doesn’t have any reasons to be jealous or to not build up trust.

For example we walk in somewhere and there is a guy staring at me, he proudly puts his arm around me or smacks my ass lol I frikkin love it hahaha we are a fun couple but I really love how he marks and shows what is his. That’s not being jealous in my definition – causing a scene is a no no. But as I said I don’t give any reason to make him feel insecure. He needs a lot of reassurance and that’s totally fine with me

What’s his venus?
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My cap has also been hurt by his first relationship which lasted 8 yrs, ended 2012. It’s ok to not fully trust in the beginning, trust is earned as I like to say. Genuine assurance is a good way to start building trust – I always have in mind “how would he feel if I said/did etc this and this” it’s not that I overthink every step but I am responsible for my actions/words because they can affect him and his feelings for good or for bad. Mine needs a lot of reassurance, so do I. We are getting more and more secure with one another, it just takes time and actions that prove that trust is earned..
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Posted by Gobshite
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Posted by willow1
He's been hurt by three main women in his life,
Maybe he was the problem...
Although cardinal equates to leadership, a double cardinal turns such individuals into... well, tyrants.

Reasoning with double cardinals is tough and I'm sure, at some point, his frustrated exes simply threw in the towel.

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I'm a double cardinal, and I know I can be difficult at times.
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Posted by RumiLove
Cap men ARE controlling, but not unreasonably. No personal experience...but my father is. I dont mind though.. I too have lotsa water on my chart 🙂
Caps are ONLY controlling when:
You are wrecking yourself or someone we care about.
You don't know what you are doing.
You need guidance or have no goals.
You're too emotional and can't control yourself.
or
They are insecure and are afraid to loose control