How long do I wait

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Atypicalfish on Tuesday, September 19, 2006 and has 0 replies.

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19 Years

Okay, I know you all have heard the same saga before but I need to express what I am going through right now with a cap male.

Here goes..... we have been friends for over three years and this year we started to flirt with one another and share certain thoughts. Well, I suggested that we move the friendship to a new level to see if we have what it takes for the long haul. NOT marriage just dating/lovers. Well, it has been one day and he has not responded.

How long should I wait? I have a feeling that he will not respond but then again he has really suprised me. I'm hoping that he will not just leave it at dead silence. There is a part of me that wants him to say "NO" so I can move on with my life and lose the hope. Then there is a part of me that wants to see if we have a chance for a future. Either way, I will be benefit.

I want to give adequate time to deliberate. What do you think about this?