I'm a Leo lady in my 40's and the Cap man is 60. We run in the same social circles; that's how we met. I made all the big mistakes right from the beginning such as telling him too much too soon about my very private life and telling him that I'm very attracted to him. It was a mutual sexual attraction from the start. He's made a number of indecent proposals to me such as getting into the backseat of his vehicle so he could bang my brains out and show up at a construction job site so he can have his way with me. He didn't even offer to take me out for a meal or drink first. I realized immediately that he thinks I'm some desperate hoe so I slowed down to a crawl. I kept our relationship platonic from the start even though he keeps suggesting that we become lovers. It's been 2 years now that I've managed to remain platonic with him. The reason I didn't get into bed with him is because I don't trust his intentions and his feelings for me. He's chased and chasing other women infront of me while trying to get me into bed. He's a real tactless, miserly man and finally treated me to a KFC meal one night after a social meetup. I feel like a doormat; he's always talking about himself, his work, his drama and politics and not really interested in what's going on with me. I recently scolded him for asking another woman out infront of me and next day had the nerve to flirt with me. He apologized for being inconsiderate and rude but then the next day he was back to his old ways of asking out other women infront of me. He's taken it even further by deliberately clinging to any one of my girlfriends and chatting her up and texting her. He slipped up recently by letting it slip out that he was just talking/flirting with a random woman to give me and other women something to talk about. So basically he's being passive aggressive, playing mind games with me; he enjoys toying with my emotions far too much and far too long. I've been weighing the pros and cons of remaining friends with him. The cons far outweigh the pros so I want to end our friendship without warfare since we have many mutual friends. He's shared other women's private business with me even though they told him in confidence. I've told him that he's not to share my private business with others but I expect that there will be need for some damage control once I end our friendship since he is cruel, petty and spiteful. I need your help/advice in regaining my sanity.
