how to win cap back? ><

shez a capricorn sun and venus capricorn. last october 8 we end our special thing. this cap has some attachment issues she said but for me i think its not attachment but TRUST issues coz her first love broke her heart badly..blackmailing her like her ex will go suicide and etc. Her ex was some kind of obssess about her! its been already 4 years and her ex still not over about her. thats why we broke up coz her reason is shes afraid of attachment, her past haunts her. she thinks that im beginning to attached, being clingy but this was just misunderstanding coz im not really and we've already discuss it and find some closure bout it.

Oct 19: after we talked about "clingy issue" and prove to her that im not, and agree that i can still be her friend, coz she knew that im the type that burn bridges cut ties.. what bothers me now is that after that she still keep texting me "good morning and goodnyt" out of the blue .. i dont know maybe shez just being friendly or she still wants me? ugh. now she stop texting me. hahahah im hopeful but i dnt know how to win her back. 😢

im pisces and venus in aqua btw.

I'm not sure I understand.

A couple of questions:
Her ex DID commit suicide?
Was it Oct 8 2012 yall broke up? or a year ago in 2011?

Posted by truecap
I'm not sure I understand.

A couple of questions:
Her ex DID commit suicide?
Was it Oct 8 2012 yall broke up? or a year ago in 2011?

we broke oct 8 2012. her ex just blackmailing her 4 years ago. but her ex still tries to text her and call.

Well, she has experience with a psychotic ex. She is gun shy and afraid. If you show any evidence at all of being the least bit clingy she will run. It's a very slippery slope, my friend. So, just be there and be her friend, for now. Let her contact you. I think she likes you, but she is very, very leery of experiencing her awful ex all over again.

Question: How long have you known each other?

Be empathetic. Let her learn to trust you. Show your loyalty. She may never be ready - sounds like a pretty big scar. However, if you need to move on, do so.

Posted by truecap
Well, she has experience with a psychotic ex. She is gun shy and afraid. If you show any evidence at all of being the least bit clingy she will run. It's a very slippery slope, my friend. So, just be there and be her friend, for now. Let her contact you. I think she likes you, but she is very, very leery of experiencing her awful ex all over again.

Question: How long have you known each other?

Be empathetic. Let her learn to trust you. Show your loyalty. She may never be ready - sounds like a pretty big scar. However, if you need to move on, do so.

yes shes afraid. thats why we broke up.
how long? late 2010 as friends but as a couple like 6 months. :/
yes ill always be her friend. but right now i dont like seeing someone, coz i still have feelings for her... and willing to wait for now. 😄
thank you.

Good luck!

hello again! my ex cap texted me last tuesday that she missed talking to me.
was it a good sign?

Yes, but don't get carried away with your thoughts.

Posted by piscesisme
hello again! my ex cap texted me last tuesday that she missed talking to me.
was it a good sign?

My ex Cap said the same things about a week ago that she misses all these things about me and us. But. Then also said I was doin to much. And that scared her off. So keep your distance wait for more signs. Just be a friend for a while.

thanks. yes i wont. right now shes acting again into HOT AND COLD. hahah