Dumped by Capricorn via email....yes, EMAIL

Thank you....I pray that he doesn't contact me again...and if he does, just ignore him and continue to mask my feelings 😢

Posted by ellessque
you need to accept it and move on.

especially with cap in venus. his heart is with her and probably always will be.

now...that doesn't mean when things get rough between them that he won't come back to you for affirmation and to make him feel better about himself.

what are you gonna do if that happens?

@Xin

14 Years1,000+ Posts

Wow I'm sorry that you have to go through that. It's a really big sign of a coward. I was dumped once through a text message. I was much more angry about him not being able to say it to my face.

@lildol

16 Years5,000+ Posts

He knows you well enough that doing it in person would have resulted in a lot of drama. This way he doesn't have to deal with that crap. We do not do emotions real well and we do not like drama. We like it smooth and easy, and we can just walk away. In any case he was not vested in you. Do not take it personal, it just is what it is. Wish him the best and be happy for him.

@Xin

14 Years1,000+ Posts

Wow what the hell.

@truecap

Oh, and like Elle said...(how'd she get so smart?) 🙂

He did try to come back to me after it didn't work out between his ex wife and him. I wasn't interested. My heart had already moved on. I had started dating the Aqua I'm with now! So, the guy actually did me a favor because I met Aqua and I like Aqua sooooo much better than I did him!!!!

@livingheartdonor

Wow...I'm sorry that happened to you. What a douche bag! *smh*

Posted by truecap
Last year, I had a guy with Cap in Venus break off with me via text to tell me he was going back to his ex wife. (they were divorced, not separated). Really sucked. But his heart was with her and there was nothing to do about it. He said later he did it by text because she was there watching him do it to prove he did it. He said he didn't want to call because he was afraid she would grab the phone from him and didn't want her talking to me, since she would have been mean to me.

@truecap

Posted by DeeGee
^^^There ya go.....one door closes, another one opens.

Yep! Sometimes the door opening up is a better opportunity!

Posted by lildol
He knows you well enough that doing it in person would have resulted in a lot of drama. This way he doesn't have to deal with that crap. We do not do emotions real well and we do not like drama. We like it smooth and easy, and we can just walk away. In any case he was not vested in you. Do not take it personal, it just is what it is. Wish him the best and be happy for him.

You have got to be kidding me.

I don't care what the "reasons" are for. It's pure selfishness and to dismiss the OP's emotions as quickly as her Cap did is just as douchey.

"It's easier for us." Oh because it's all about you, huh? Oh, okay.

I seriously wonder what the hell people here are on sometimes...

OP, it sucks and what a pussy way to break up with someone. I don't care what someone's "inclinations" are for handling such matters, it's an absolute cowardly way to handle the situation. A real man would do it face to face.

A real man would also stop going back to failed relationships...

I wouldn't bother with him anymore at this point. The guy lady hops and can't seem to make up his mind. All he's leaving are hurt and confused people in his wake. Someone lock the guy up until he knows how to treat people with consideration. Nothing sucks more than being someone's whim when it comes to dating and relating.

More people need to figure their shit out before jumping into the dating pool.

I honestly dont see whats the big deal about breaking up over email. Id rather read it, then have someone break up with me face to face and I try to hide my true reaction, cause I will. Its never happened to me before, but id automatically think it was too hard for him to do in person. Im not sure if I would really care.

Posted by JTG1984BETA
Said like a true pisces.

LoL.

Id be pissed over a break up period, regardless of how its presented. I dont like my bad news placed in a gift bag with a bow. I get offended. I wouldnt be surprised if these guys assumed it would be easier on you this way? Ya never know. It could be a coward thing, a lack of respect, or just a horrible assumption that this way would be best for both........or it could be all of the above. Who knows.

Woww 3588Pisces!! You just made it crystal
clear why an email was sent smh.

That sensitivity of yours took my post to an entirely different level. And speaking of maturity, if you're not clear about something ask before assuming, flying completely off the handle, and getting it ALL wrong. Nothing is mature about any of your assumptions there. Wtf

Blame what on others?
You are a looney Pisces....thats what you are lol.

I get the impression you stick around here because you still have feelings for the Cop ex. Im gonna be straight up...if you EVER decide to get with another Cap. You dont have to change who you are, but girly, you need to get a better handle on "that" which was just dispalyed. Thats entirely too much..........wrong. All I did was speak on what would/wouldnt "probably" affect "me." A slight difference of opinion, although I somewhat agreed with you, which you missed, but you cant take different opinions so personal......its not that serious, and you surely cant assume things and jump of in the deep in with your assumptions.

Goodluck, and goodnight.

@virgangel

I'm sorry Livingheartdonor that you were dumped by email as it's not a nice feeling to be dumped by anyone. Try to take heart in the fact that however he did it at least he told you and didn't just disappear leaving you wondering what had happened.

Posted by 3588PISCES
lmao. this has nothing to do with him, me being on this board.

& sure the cap board reminds me of him..

Smh, yeah.

Take the advice.

I want you to take a breather and calm down really. I also want to bring to your attention that this is the 2nd time you've been extremely nasty towards a Cap female on this board, but the males can actually direct something to you and tell you ANYTHING and its all giggles and laughs. I find that a bit interesting and biased reactions are not trustworthy either.

@truecap

I empathsize with you. As I said, it was done to me via text. Yes, sounds like a cowardly way out and no one blames you for being upset, as you have that right. Based on this thread I have a couple of comments. Not trying to start anything, but offering this out there to shed some light objectively.

Three things:

1. If the guy is such an immature jerk (getting mad over previous e-mails), then you're better off without him. So why be so angry? Perhaps you should have dumped him first. ??

2. Kuddos to your pisces friend who took his girlfriend out to dinner and broke up with her in PUBLIC. (yes, note the sarcasm) NOT COOL! No consideration for her privacy.

3. Yes, its coward breaking up in e-mail. But as you got so angry and bent out of shape about what Inana said about how SHE would feel, I bet he's glad he didn't do this in a public place. Would you have made a scene?

@PP

I got dumped by my Cap VIA text

Posted by capgirl75

Hey, at least she got an email. Some men just disappear.

This is true but it's still a crappy way to get broken up with. Both are still evasive ways to end a relationship.

Posted by capgirl75

Posted by PP
I got dumped by my Cap VIA text

I dumped my Cap via text. lol. i didn't mean to or want to, I was going to call him and tell him over the phone but he insisted on knowing what was up and i couldn't hold back.

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And the reason you didn't call was....?

Even then, your implying that you'd call shows that you're cowardly too. You can't even do it face to face. Such a highly respectable individual you've shown yourself to be. *cough*

Im glad you posted that capgirl. It just goes to show different people have different preferences. Different ways they do things, and differeny ways they like things to be done. Nothing more or less.