How will I know....

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i have been with a cappy guy for almost 9 months now and till now, it is not yet official.. So I don't know what are we, bff or fwb. I know he likes me coz he do these things for me like cook dinner, change oil my car, call me regularly every night, text me all day long , makes me laugh and to make the story short, he wants to make sure i am okey. My question, how will i know if i am the right girl for him? I like this guy a lot and i have read that cappy guy take it too slow..Does he like/ love me too or he is not decided yet if I am the one. Please help all cappies out there..
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Thank you so much SagiScorp and Foreverloveme... Your comments made me so happy, i wanna jump!

If in his mind, i am the right one, how come until now, I haven't met his friends personnaly yet ? I knew his friends names and faces already coz he sends me pictures everytime they hang out.. I am a virgo and you know how virgos are..i am very suspicious and jealous , overthinking sometimes? and i do trust him coz he never lied to me...ever! That's why i can't ask for more, only this one.. How i wish i will meet his friends?.

AND BTW, Cappy people are the best.. They are the truest and sincerest and loyal friend you can have ??
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@Moonbutter..my gut says he likes me coz i can feel it the way he hugs and kiss me.I mean , he is busy working and studying and he still find sometime to see me at leadt 3x a week.. If that is not love then what is it? I know he is scared and uncomfortable talking about his emotions coz i tried to ask him once and he ask me " which one do you prefer, man of words or man of actions?"

I am scared too , i don't wanna be heartbroken that's why i asking some help from all cappies here to give me some helpful hints to my question above..
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@Moonbutter..my gut says he likes me coz i can feel it the way he hugs and kiss me.I mean , he is busy working and studying and he still find sometime to see me at leadt 3x a week.. If that is not love then what is it? I know he is scared and uncomfortable talking about his emotions coz i tried to ask him once and he ask me " which one do you prefer, man of words or man of actions?"

I am scared too , i don't wanna be heartbroken that's why i asking some help from all cappies here to give me some helpful hints to my question above..

I see... How long were you guys together before becoming intimate and how old is he?
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@truecap and FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428...

So, you think he is not that into me?

I am sad now??...

I didn't say that. You said you were confused about the status of your relationship. I asked how he introduces you. Is it "this is my friend", "this is my girlfriend" "this is virgiene" ....it could give you a clue. Also his family..do they refer to you as his friend or girlfriend or as just a girl.. do they give any kind of hint you could reference?
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Posted by Virgiene
@truecap and FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428...

So, you think he is not that into me?

I am sad now??...


He is into you. If you have doubts just ask him. We like direct, and he will answer your question in some way that leaves no doubt.
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But 9 months of good banter and quality time spent, and knowledge of where one is at without pressure isn't bad. So casually keep talking and respect each other.
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i have been with a cappy guy for almost 9 months now and till now, it is not yet official.. So I don't know what are we, bff or fwb. I know he likes me coz he do these things for me like cook dinner, change oil my car, call me regularly every night, text me all day long , makes me laugh and to make the story short, he wants to make sure i am okey. My question, how will i know if i am the right girl for him? I like this guy a lot and i have read that cappy guy take it too slow..Does he like/ love me too or he is not decided yet if I am the one. Please help all cappies out there..
Don't take this the wrong way but it depends on age... Alot of girls think they can just party there younger years away and then just find a guy that has his shit together and get married. Every guy wants to have a few years normally to get to know and just have fun with a woman before they have kids or other things. Cap. have put in the time and work... and if he calls you like that I think he is taking it serious... Virgo's some times have trouble letting there feelings show like... speaking them. Take a chance I don't think you will be disappoint with the transits going on... Realize there is a Cap retro grade with Mercury in Dec. So something may rock him... then... Realizes it is how he deals with the situation where he takes out the frustrations... healthy or not healthy... Then you will really have your answer. Allow yourself to be happy... life is to short.

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