Is it true....

Is it true that the more you get closer with the cappy man, the more you become distant? And why is that?

Posted by Virgiene
Is it true that the more you get closer with the cappy man, the more you become distant? And why is that?

I don't understand what you're trying to say.

@truecap.. I read that somewhere .. As to my understanding, as the relationship becoming deeper and longer to more he become distant.. Maybe because he is comfortabel in / with the relationship? Idk..just asking

The more not to more.. Sorry, typo error?

Posted by Virgiene
Is it true that the

more you get closer with the cappy man, the more you become distant? And why is that?

How long were the both of you dating?

@TaurusBull1977 ..Oh i have no complain with my relationship to a cappy guy.. I am just asking coz if that happens to me at least i know what to do.

I disagree with it. The longer the relationship, the more intimate it is.

Of course things change after the honeymoon stage. The chase is over. Sure people get comfortable. But caps like a nice, cozy, quiet, comfortable, intimate relationship.

Are you pre warning your own self sabotage of what makes you think it isn't working for you? When there isn't a reason to think there's anything wrong in the first place?

Or is there something going on? That you are not saying?

@FistDecan......honestly, there is nothing going on with my cappy guy..I think it is me...You know virgo, i overanalyze things..

I think truecap is correct, the chase is over and we passed the honeymoon stage. He ( cappy guy) still the same. Still do the same thing for me . It is just that I have been used to our routines that a slight change sometimes makes me think a lot as in a lot.. It's one trait about virgo that I don't like. I over think things and it's mostly negative .

My cappy guy is so nice to me. Can't complain after a busy days and overtimes, he still find time to see me.Which is not fair to him, if I will be enterttaining negativities.

I read the same thing. They can be distant and aloof at times. They want to make the perfect decision so they take their time to figure it out. That's just what I read. Im in the early stages of dating a cap right now and he doesn't seem to be that way towards me.

How long have you been with yours?

@pinkbird03

...LOL, i passed that stage already, before he will not talk to me 2-3 weeks and come back as if nothing happens. No text, no calls whatsoever but I always understand him and give him the space he needs. And we used to fight almost every other week and he always say sorry..

Just one tip from me base on my experience with him, just be open and honest. Don't be scared to show him the real you..??

2-3 weeks? How often does he do that?

Thanks for the advice!

2x and i spoke to him about it and he changed. We still have misundestandings but at the end of the day we patched up. We don't end the day both of us have hurt feelings with each other and the longest time we have fight/argue was 10-15 minutes and that was 3 months ago.

That's good!