Is my Capricorn friend avoiding me?

So I have a Capricorn friend whom I thought is close enough to me. I've known her since college and we were friends since then (for over 7 years now). After college ofcourse many of us got busy with life, but we meet whenever it is possible because both of us travel alot, even one summer (in 2016) she traveled to me because I was in a country she wanted to visit, and we both stayed in my house and had a great time with my family.

The thing is since then I've been traveling more, and we hardly go out, I think we have not gone out since that time. We still communicate every now and then, and we always say we got to meet up and we plan things, but then it never works out, usually excuses from her side or maybe it wasn't really a good time for her I don't know. Now we are both in the same city and she knew I was coming because she asked me, and she seemed very excited over text. But then when I am in the same city finally and I call her to meet up, first I noticed her voice is not as happy as usual and then she told me she is leaving tomorrow because her vacation is over (which I know is true). Then we decided we will both meet up tonight since it is her last day in this city. She told me she was going to see her friends and I told her I have family over, but we decided to meet afterwards. So I call her (at 9 pm) she does not answer my call, 2 hours later I texted her to ask what about she passes by my house? so she then sent a message to say that they were having dinner and that they are going to another place with her uncle. I asked her if she can pass by before they leave? But she said she's in the car with them.

I got a strange feeling that she is avoiding me. And I have no idea why? We usually talk every couple of months, but we used to meet up alot whenever we were in this particular city. Is she avoiding me? And if you think so, what would make a Capricorn avoid a friend?

Excuse my very long post. But, I really do not wish to lose this friend, it is hard to find a good friend, and she is one of a few.

Your help capricorns out there 🙂 Thnxx

1: For a Cap it is work/office first ...everything else can wait. May be she is damn busy or too tired as a result.

2. Try to recall who was calling whom during you phone calls. You call her all the time or she rings you up too? If your Cap friend had also called you a couple of times then refer to my first point. If not then read point 3! Lol

3. If a Cap is angry she will cut you off from her life! It is as if you have never existed for them. You...who?? All those good old time, your photos, gifts would have been thrown out of her window a long time back. Once that door is shut for you then there is NO opening.  It takes a heartbeat to hit tge delete button.

4. What caused her to do this? Hmm..public humiliation, her being the butt of ridicule, you not being punctual! You forgetting to give her what you had 'borrowed', betraying her, annoying her......

5. Patch up? They hardly forgive because you no longer exist for them!! Your best try would be to visit her in person, give her a nice gift, sincerely apologise (even if you think you haven't done anything), talk nicely and try to win their confidence. Try not to ask too many why? Why? Questions. Don't be a pest. Try to be a good listener. Don't force them for anything ( like, you gotta call me or i will wait for your call tomorrow or you gotta come to my house this Sunday!).

All the best

Seems there isnt much capricorns on this forum 😥

I am a cap moon and have been around many caps growing up. Caps are very deliberate and opportunistic. They are inherently based on self gain, if they befriend you either they genuinely like you, feel you have something they want so watch you closely to hopefully over take you one day, or feel you have something they can use such as someone to listen to them or do what they say or be available when they have nothing better to do, if they see you as the latter, then any 'bad' behaviour or 'weakness' on your part means they will quickly drop you as they see themselves above you. They rarely let anyone in, ever, and if they do, they wouldnt treat you in the way your friend has. They are the sign of the devil in tarot. Dont be fooled. You wanna befriend or be with a cap, learn the game of chess as these people are sly.

Posted by ghostzin

1: For a Cap it is work/office first ...everything else can wait. May be she is damn busy or too tired as a result.



2. Try to recall who was calling whom during you phone calls. You call her all the time or she rings you up too? If your Cap friend had also called you a couple of times then refer to my first point. If not then read point 3! Lol



3. If a Cap is angry she will cut you off from her life! It is as if you have never existed for them. You...who?? All those good old time, your photos, gifts would have been thrown out of her window a long time back. Once that door is shut for you then there is NO opening.  It takes a heartbeat to hit tge delete button.



4. What caused her to do this? Hmm..public humiliation, her being the butt of ridicule, you not being punctual! You forgetting to give her what you had 'borrowed', betraying her, annoying her......



5. Patch up? They hardly forgive because you no longer exist for them!! Your best try would be to visit her in person, give her a nice gift, sincerely apologise (even if you think you haven't done anything), talk nicely and try to win their confidence. Try not to ask too many why? Why? Questions. Don't be a pest. Try to be a good listener. Don't force them for anything ( like, you gotta call me or i will wait for your call tomorrow or you gotta come to my house this Sunday!).



All the best

The thing is.. there was never sny conflict between us. That is why Im at loss at why she is avoiding me or not making effort to meet up. I just think asking her would make me look weak or clingy, or maybe that would annoy her if nothing happened at all and I'm just making this up... I wonder if asking her would be weird or not

Posted by DeadInside

does she haves reason to be angry ? ask her.

or she's just busy and broke

She does have an active social life.. but it makes me annoyed that she doesnt make effort or have time for meeting up.. I dont even know if I should ask..

Posted by venusinscorpi0

I am a cap moon and have been around many caps growing up. Caps are very deliberate and opportunistic. They are inherently based on self gain, if they befriend you either they genuinely like you, feel you have something they want so watch you closely to hopefully over take you one day, or feel you have something they can use such as someone to listen to them or do what they say or be available when they have nothing better to do, if they see you as the latter, then any 'bad' behaviour or 'weakness' on your part means they will quickly drop you as they see themselves above you. They rarely let anyone in, ever, and if they do, they wouldnt treat you in the way your friend has. They are the sign of the devil in tarot. Dont be fooled. You wanna befriend or be with a cap, learn the game of chess as these people are sly.

Is that the ugly truth?! 😔

so now she's back in the city. I texted her asking if shes coming this weekend, she said she came here and said let's meet. Today I text her asking when I'm going to see her.. and she texts me at the end of the day saying she slept all day and don't know what's wrong with her. But I really feel that she is lying and avoiding me 😢 she didnt even say let's meet tomorrow or something.

What should i do now? What would you do when a capricorn avoids you? Knowing that there wasn't any incident that happened to cause that

Posted by ghostzin

1: For a Cap it is work/office first ...everything else can wait. May be she is damn busy or too tired as a result.



2. Try to recall who was calling whom during you phone calls. You call her all the time or she rings you up too? If your Cap friend had also called you a couple of times then refer to my first point. If not then read point 3! Lol



3. If a Cap is angry she will cut you off from her life! It is as if you have never existed for them. You...who?? All those good old time, your photos, gifts would have been thrown out of her window a long time back. Once that door is shut for you then there is NO opening.  It takes a heartbeat to hit tge delete button.



4. What caused her to do this? Hmm..public humiliation, her being the butt of ridicule, you not being punctual! You forgetting to give her what you had 'borrowed', betraying her, annoying her......



5. Patch up? They hardly forgive because you no longer exist for them!! Your best try would be to visit her in person, give her a nice gift, sincerely apologise (even if you think you haven't done anything), talk nicely and try to win their confidence. Try not to ask too many why? Why? Questions. Don't be a pest. Try to be a good listener. Don't force them for anything ( like, you gotta call me or i will wait for your call tomorrow or you gotta come to my house this Sunday!).



All the best

None of this happened.. we rarely meet and rarely talk.. like every couple of months. So I don't think I annoyed her.. I even get her gifts sometimes on her birthday or when i travel.. and she'd do the same. I thought we have a good friendship

Not sure what's going on but all you can do is ask her.

Caps are not like Taurus, you will get an honest answer if you ask. Sorry...I had to throw my frustrations with Taurus in there.

Anyway just say to her "for some reason I'm getting the impression that you are avoiding me, and I'm not sure why. Am I reading too much into the situation? is there something that's going on that I've done or that you will like to share? This feeling is bothering me a bit, and I just want to make sure I'm not feeling something I shouldn't."

Just be honest and let her know how you feel. We respond pretty well to feelings, especially if you are honest. We usually don't like to make people feel bad or confused. Please try it.

Posted by venusinscorpi0

I am a cap moon and have been around many caps growing up. Caps are very deliberate and opportunistic. They are inherently based on self gain, if they befriend you either they genuinely like you, feel you have something they want so watch you closely to hopefully over take you one day, or feel you have something they can use such as someone to listen to them or do what they say or be available when they have nothing better to do, if they see you as the latter, then any 'bad' behaviour or 'weakness' on your part means they will quickly drop you as they see themselves above you. They rarely let anyone in, ever, and if they do, they wouldnt treat you in the way your friend has. They are the sign of the devil in tarot. Dont be fooled. You wanna befriend or be with a cap, learn the game of chess as these people are sly.

Following on from my earlier post it sounds like the part which says 'any 'bad' behaviour or 'weakness on your part means they will quickly drop you'.

Caps love to punish, they like to smirk (behind closed doors) at hurting people who they perceive has done something they dislike. So you probably did something you were unaware of? IF she was a genuine friend, she would talk to you about it or hint, if she hasnt done this, but then has jumped straight to treating you like sht and telling you to meet up then falling asleep; do you even want a friend like this? fk that

Posted by venusinscorpi0

Posted by venusinscorpi0

I am a cap moon and have been around many caps growing up. Caps are very deliberate and opportunistic. They are inherently based on self gain, if they befriend you either they genuinely like you, feel you have something they want so watch you closely to hopefully over take you one day, or feel you have something they can use such as someone to listen to them or do what they say or be available when they have nothing better to do, if they see you as the latter, then any 'bad' behaviour or 'weakness' on your part means they will quickly drop you as they see themselves above you. They rarely let anyone in, ever, and if they do, they wouldnt treat you in the way your friend has. They are the sign of the devil in tarot. Dont be fooled. You wanna befriend or be with a cap, learn the game of chess as these people are sly.

Following on from my earlier post it sounds like the part which says 'any 'bad' behaviour or 'weakness on your part means they will quickly drop you'.

Caps love to punish, they like to smirk (behind closed doors) at hurting people who they perceive has done something they dislike. So you probably did something you were unaware of? IF she was a genuine friend, she would talk to you about it or hint, if she hasnt done this, but then has jumped straight to treating you like sht and telling you to meet up then falling asleep; do you even want a friend like this? fk that

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we didnt decide on a day and she fell asleep.. I meant she said she's in the city but then didnt talk to set up a time to meet and she said she was asleep.. Ofcourse if that happened and she didnt follow through .. it would have been a different situation.

It is ironic that the other day she called me and said we meet up whn shes driving someone near my place.. I was already on my way out with family so I told her so and that she can come later as we were going to the beach. She shyed away and didnt come. And even that night I texted her if she can go out? she said shes with her mom.. another excuse? she didnt even respond whn i told her to say hi .. I know her family n they know me