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What signs are best/worst to handle long distance relationships and their difficulties?
Best and Worst Zodiac Signs for Long Distance Relationships
Capricorns, Virgos, Geminis, and Aquarians tend to handle long distance relationships better when there is a clear end goal. Signs like Taurus and Cancer may struggle more due to emotional needs and stability requirements. Compatibility varies, but commitment levels influence success regardless of sign.
If I have a bond with someone and then something came up and had to be ldr...I could only do it for a little while. I need to see someone...not all the time but more than I would get in a ldr.
If it started ldr...no thanks. I'll shop local lol
As a Sag, I find it incredibly difficult to maintain a LDR, though the suspense and unpredictabilities make it so alluring! The suspense and the anticipation, mmmMM! I see how so many LDR's work, it sounds quite thrilling really.
I’ve seen Aquarius and Caps really take on this challenge and do well with it.
Sagittarius too if they are with a Cap or Aqua.
Leo even if they are with an Aqua.
For worse, I’m a Libra, I call out myself! 🙋🏻
Capricorn and earthy/firey Aquarius men like codependent partners. Classic enablers. They like to feel so in love with soul draining people out of a warped sense of obligation (universal signs.) Ive heard them use childish language like, "I feel like we're fighting fate" lol awkward
They like the long distance thing only because it allows them to idealize the other person
I can relate to the sense of obligation. In a lot of things I do (whether a relationship or work),I feel like I've got a duty to carry out, to the point where even if it isn't actually healthy, I stick with it and rarely waver.
My Venus was retrograde at birth too In Aquarius nonetheless lol and I'm Cap dominant in Sun, Merc, Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune. So another sign (along with a Virgo moon) that is semi-cold and aloof and hard to understand.
I feel like Caps, Virgos, Geminis (cheaters lmao), and maybe Aquarians are more inclined to be OK with long distance as long as there is a likely endgame.Only speaking for myself, while I wouldn't want it to be cross-country, if she was a state or maybe two over, I'd be OK with it as long as she was 100% committed to us.
Not sure about the worst signs.
What says you?
i think SOME aquarians. i can't take it to be honest.
i want to be with my man as much as possible, and i can't even stand it when my husband goes on business trips. I mean i dont mind one night away and he calls me during lunch and before he goes to bed and tells me about the hotel he's staying in...and even takes photos LOL for me to see...
but i can't stand the distance. I told him if he goes away for almost a week or over a week i'm going with him...
because his new promotion takes him away from me at least once a week to another country.
thankfully we are going on vacation the end of the week.
and i dont mind cause i have also work at home,
but i cannot imagine a man who takes long ass business trips and is away from his wife too long.
he needs to take her with him LOL
if ..u are talking about when a woman and a man meet and they live far from eachother.
they should make plans to meet right away.
if the reason for not meeting right away...there are barriers.
and i dont know how long it can last.
there was a video awhile ago on the 9th month rule.. or 6th month...that a man will LOSE interest because it is not going forward... and he has someone else on the side.
the barrier has to come from either end or both ends.
I feel like Caps, Virgos, Geminis (cheaters lmao), and maybe Aquarians are more inclined to be OK with long distance as long as there is a likely endgame.Only speaking for myself, while I wouldn't want it to be cross-country, if she was a state or maybe two over, I'd be OK with it as long as she was 100% committed to us.
Not sure about the worst signs.
What says you?
i think SOME aquarians. i can't take it to be honest.
i want to be with my man as much as possible, and i can't even stand it when my husband goes on business trips. I mean i dont mind one night away and he calls me during lunch and before he goes to bed and tells me about the hotel he's staying in...and even takes photos LOL for me to see...
but i can't stand the distance. I told him if he goes away for almost a week or over a week i'm going with him...
because his new promotion takes him away from me at least once a week to another country.
thankfully we are going on vacation the end of the week.
and i dont mind cause i have also work at home,
but i cannot imagine a man who takes long ass business trips and is away from his wife too long.
he needs to take her with him LOL
if ..u are talking about when a woman and a man meet and they live far from eachother.
they should make plans to meet right away.
if the reason for not meeting right away...there are barriers.
and i dont know how long it can last.
there was a video awhile ago on the 9th month rule.. or 6th month...that a man will LOSE interest because it is not going forward... and he has someone else on the side.
the barrier has to come from either end or both ends.
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Gal I dated (and still interested in somewhat) lives in a neighboring state. We matched on Tinder 4 years ago but never met when we both lived in the same state, we reconnected over DM last year and started texting again after. We then met and had a good time but the vibe wasn't there on her end like she thought it was.
I feel like Caps, Virgos, Geminis (cheaters lmao), and maybe Aquarians are more inclined to be OK with long distance as long as there is a likely endgame.Only speaking for myself, while I wouldn't want it to be cross-country, if she was a state or maybe two over, I'd be OK with it as long as she was 100% committed to us.
Not sure about the worst signs.
What says you?
i think SOME aquarians. i can't take it to be honest.
i want to be with my man as much as possible, and i can't even stand it when my husband goes on business trips. I mean i dont mind one night away and he calls me during lunch and before he goes to bed and tells me about the hotel he's staying in...and even takes photos LOL for me to see...
but i can't stand the distance. I told him if he goes away for almost a week or over a week i'm going with him...
because his new promotion takes him away from me at least once a week to another country.
thankfully we are going on vacation the end of the week.
and i dont mind cause i have also work at home,
but i cannot imagine a man who takes long ass business trips and is away from his wife too long.
he needs to take her with him LOL
if ..u are talking about when a woman and a man meet and they live far from eachother.
they should make plans to meet right away.
if the reason for not meeting right away...there are barriers.
and i dont know how long it can last.
there was a video awhile ago on the 9th month rule.. or 6th month...that a man will LOSE interest because it is not going forward... and he has someone else on the side.
the barrier has to come from either end or both ends.
Gal I dated (and still interested in somewhat) lives in a neighboring state. We matched on Tinder 4 years ago but never met when we both lived in the same state, we reconnected over DM last year and started texting again after. We then met and had a good time but the vibe wasn't there on her end like she thought it was.
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its just playing around online if you're not gonna meet. -_-
and thats just virtual reality bullshit. xd
And to answer the OP since it went above my head the first time... -_-
I think Earth signs/Earth placements (like Venus and Mars) would fare best in LDRs
I say that because they have the ability to ground themselves and reality-check themselves.
I have 0% Earth and know I would get completely lost in fantasy la-la land in an LDR which has unfortunately happened to me before with an Aries.
We dated for 2 years and even tho we saw each other often for an LDR, I didn't like him all that much in person after I built him up to be my soulmate in my head before we met.
He was/is a good guy but the person I was in love with didn't exist.
no way gurrrrlll.. not me. Earth wants to TOUCH and FEEL their partner...if you can't TOUCH them..what's the point... earth is a touchy feely element...u need to feel the ground...
And to answer the OP since it went above my head the first time... -_-
I think Earth signs/Earth placements (like Venus and Mars) would fare best in LDRs
I say that because they have the ability to ground themselves and reality-check themselves.
I have 0% Earth and know I would get completely lost in fantasy la-la land in an LDR which has unfortunately happened to me before with an Aries.
We dated for 2 years and even tho we saw each other often for an LDR, I didn't like him all that much in person after I built him up to be my soulmate in my head before we met.
He was/is a good guy but the person I was in love with didn't exist.
no way gurrrrlll.. not me. Earth wants to TOUCH and FEEL their partner...if you can't TOUCH them..what's the point... earth is a touchy feely element...u need to feel the ground...
Aren't you an Aqua tho?
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u mentined VEnus in earth OR venus in mars..... and i'm dominant earth...so no way... i want to FEEL and touch them right away LOL ;p
otherwise it's TORTURE ;p
I feel like Caps, Virgos, Geminis (cheaters lmao), and maybe Aquarians are more inclined to be OK with long distance as long as there is a likely endgame.Only speaking for myself, while I wouldn't want it to be cross-country, if she was a state or maybe two over, I'd be OK with it as long as she was 100% committed to us.
Not sure about the worst signs.
What says you?
i think SOME aquarians. i can't take it to be honest.
i want to be with my man as much as possible, and i can't even stand it when my husband goes on business trips. I mean i dont mind one night away and he calls me during lunch and before he goes to bed and tells me about the hotel he's staying in...and even takes photos LOL for me to see...
but i can't stand the distance. I told him if he goes away for almost a week or over a week i'm going with him...
because his new promotion takes him away from me at least once a week to another country.
thankfully we are going on vacation the end of the week.
and i dont mind cause i have also work at home,
but i cannot imagine a man who takes long ass business trips and is away from his wife too long.
he needs to take her with him LOL
if ..u are talking about when a woman and a man meet and they live far from eachother.
they should make plans to meet right away.
if the reason for not meeting right away...there are barriers.
and i dont know how long it can last.
there was a video awhile ago on the 9th month rule.. or 6th month...that a man will LOSE interest because it is not going forward... and he has someone else on the side.
the barrier has to come from either end or both ends.
Gal I dated (and still interested in somewhat) lives in a neighboring state. We matched on Tinder 4 years ago but never met when we both lived in the same state, we reconnected over DM last year and started texting again after. We then met and had a good time but the vibe wasn't there on her end like she thought it was.
its just playing around online if you're not gonna meet. -_-
and thats just virtual reality bullshit. xd
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We did meet, dated a little bit. But on her end the incompatibilities were too much. We didn't have a natural connection, but one that would have strengthened over time in my honest opinion.
She was a Libra, me a Cap lol.
I don't agree with Virgo.
I can't do long distance relationship. When I'm in love with someone, I want to often be physically intimate with them to keep the fire burning in the relationship.
Why do people assume that Virgo = aloofness/coldness that can make them "well-suited" for a long distance relationship? This is simply farce.
We are emotional beings too who desire to love and be loved in return, it's just that we don't wear our hearts in our sleeves.
I was just throwing stuff out there lol.
As a Virgo moon, I can relate to some of your statements. I will say for me, my moon paired with an already semi-cynical/aloof Cap sun makes me sort of distant...but I still have a desire to be loved and provide love. I'm just not super demonstrative about it, which can bother some people. I know that I myself (and I feel like a good amount of Caps) can do long-distance relationships if we see an endgame. We're often legendary for overcoming difficulty after difficulty.
The biggest struggle would be the lack of physical intimacy in a LTR (I like sex and making my woman feel good), but if the long term potential is there, I can keep myself occupied.
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I feel like Caps, Virgos, Geminis (cheaters lmao), and maybe Aquarians are more inclined to be OK with long distance as long as there is a likely endgame.Only speaking for myself, while I wouldn't want it to be cross-country, if she was a state or maybe two over, I'd be OK with it as long as she was 100% committed to us.
Not sure about the worst signs.
What says you?