Is this cap male just curious or does he miss me me?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Blairjones512 on Sunday, July 2, 2017 and has 2 replies.

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@StrawberryJam
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Posted by Blairjones512
I told him to never talk to me again after he told me like 2 months ago that it was too much no we both need to move on and that I can't make up my mind about who I want. He started hanging out a lot with a girl he told me was just a friend and he mostly stopped watching my snap chats. Now recently this cap has been watching ALL of my snap chat stories like in the first 5 min EVERY time. My friends even said he started watching theirs the nights we would all go out when he never sees theirs. Does he miss me or is he just curious. I know he's still talking to that girl. I hope he never tries to trick me again cause I would never trust him again or give him any chances lol. He just liked to blame everything on me and why we went wrong.

he could be just wanting some "supply" to stroke his ego. Mine and I broke up 3 months ago he never skip liking my photos or viewing my stories. he continued to do so even I stopped liking anything or viewing his stories, since I have stopped viewing his story he stopped posting stories. He just carry on with liking my stuff, It's to hook and sink to keep him in your mind.

Blaming everything on you is a red flag, break up is never only one side's fault. Your ex could be a narcissist. They never blame themselves and often rely on opposite sex attention for validation. Triangulating is also their favorite thing to keep you on your toes.

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@pinkbird03
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I had issues in the beginning with my cap not wanting to be exclusive so we just stayed friends. It was an awkward phase of hot and cold. Now he's super attached and making a lot of effort to bond with me.

Perhaps your cap is now ready to get to know you better. They are super slow in this area. I call it turtle speed ?