
Gemitati
@Gemitati
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Posted by lisabethur8Not even close..,
you're like the elvis presley and priscilla if priscilla had stayed married to him![]()

Posted by lisabethur8If priscilla was giving Colonal Tom blowies in bathroom stalls while Elvis performs. Sure, yeah exactly alike.
you're like the elvis presley and priscilla if priscilla had stayed married to him![]()
Posted by LadyNeptune😆Posted by lisabethur8If priscilla was giving Colonal Tom blowies in bathroom stalls while Elvis performs. Sure, yeah exactly alike.
you're like the elvis presley and priscilla if priscilla had stayed married to him
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Posted by GemitatiHow long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!

Posted by GemitatiWhen he changed towards you, did you react? Did you fight to make things work or did you just let it all happen?
Being married to him for 24 years...
Having an awesome child together.
Him being a lazy af but people have worse..
Looked at him just now seeing that he is such a good looking man!
Just having sex died in him 10 years ago.
I am physically could be attracted to him. Except he is so frigging lazy...
He hate word ‘do’ and he prefer not doing anything.,.
He loves me. I think it more like because I do everything so he doesn’t have to...
He is living in lala land because I let him.
Ok! Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!

Posted by LadyNeptuneYep! I was born as a dog and my owners paid to make me a human!Posted by GemitatiHow long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!click to expand

Posted by GemitatiYeah this checks out. Explains why your such a dirty bitch 😉Posted by LadyNeptuneYep! I was born as a dog and my owners paid to make me a human!Posted by GemitatiHow long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptuneAnd what explains why are you just a regular bitch IF you are happy?Posted by GemitatiYeah this checks out. Explains why your such a dirty bitch 😉Posted by LadyNeptuneYep! I was born as a dog and my owners paid to make me a human!Posted by GemitatiHow long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!click to expand

Posted by GemitatiYour the one admitting to being a female dog, not me. LOLPosted by LadyNeptuneAnd what explains why are you just a regular bitch IF you are happy?Posted by GemitatiYeah this checks out. Explains why your such a dirty bitch 😉Posted by LadyNeptuneYep! I was born as a dog and my owners paid to make me a human!Posted by GemitatiHow long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!
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Posted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?

Posted by SpaceBirdTell this to @ladyNeptune!Posted by GemitatiMen aren't dogs.Posted by LadyNeptuneYep! I was born as a dog and my owners paid to make me a human!Posted by GemitatiHow long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptuneGet a life! Don’t ask me how. Ask your cougar mommy...Posted by GemitatiYour the one admitting to being a female dog, not me. LOLPosted by LadyNeptuneAnd what explains why are you just a regular bitch IF you are happy?Posted by GemitatiYeah this checks out. Explains why your such a dirty bitch 😉Posted by LadyNeptuneYep! I was born as a dog and my owners paid to make me a human!Posted by GemitatiHow long since your transition? Do you have the phantom limb sensation like amputee's but for your missing dick??
Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!
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Posted by RooSagicornWell...all stress mentioned above...I am 10 years younger. So I was active. He participated. Then all stress and I was like it’s ik...it’s not important as much anymore.Posted by GemitatiUmmm stress & life & raising kids is tough on a marriage. Granted. I can’t imagine no sex though. I thought my ex had a low libido but seriously we still had sex at least once a month or two even in the hardest times. From my experience, (both marriages) when the sex becomes not important and is happening less & less often, it is because there is a problem in the marriage. It is just a symptom.Posted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
I’ve known guys who were married a long time had same thing no sex forever, but it was not them. Wife didn’t want it. They cheated, got caught & it ended the marriage. Almost like an excuse.. they didn’t want him anyway.
If you like sex, how in the hell does this happen? I just can’t imagine. You never touch? You don’t sleep in the same bed? Kid is your life?click to expand

Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!click to expand

Posted by wisebloodSo talk to me! Don’t make a mistakes on your own. Learn from others...ask’Posted by GemitatiOMG.. That's gonna be my life if I keep on with the Libra. I wanna throw in a "haha" but it's not even funny.
Being married to him for 24 years...
Having an awesome child together.
Him being a lazy af but people have worse..
Looked at him just now seeing that he is such a good looking man!
Just having sex died in him 10 years ago.
I am physically could be attracted to him. Except he is so frigging lazy...
He hate word ‘do’ and he prefer not doing anything.,.
He loves me. I think it more like because I do everything so he doesn’t have to...
He is living in lala land because I let him.
Ok! Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!
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Posted by xyinsaturnYesPosted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lolclick to expand

Posted by RooSagicornGood for you! I could care less. I was busy putting life togjether and serve everyone!Posted by GemitatiThat’s when the marriage was over. When the sex stopped. Cuz no way in hell would I have said that was okay with me.Posted by RooSagicornWell...all stress mentioned above...I am 10 years younger. So I was active. He participated. Then all stress and I was like it’s ik...it’s not important as much anymore.Posted by GemitatiUmmm stress & life & raising kids is tough on a marriage. Granted. I can’t imagine no sex though. I thought my ex had a low libido but seriously we still had sex at least once a month or two even in the hardest times. From my experience, (both marriages) when the sex becomes not important and is happening less & less often, it is because there is a problem in the marriage. It is just a symptom.Posted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
I’ve known guys who were married a long time had same thing no sex forever, but it was not them. Wife didn’t want it. They cheated, got caught & it ended the marriage. Almost like an excuse.. they didn’t want him anyway.
If you like sex, how in the hell does this happen? I just can’t imagine. You never touch? You don’t sleep in the same bed? Kid is your life?
Years went by and I’ve looked at the Scorpio...just looked! And something happened...and NOTHING physical happened for frigging 5 years! Except shit hit the fan! Plutonically.
Later all that was boiled up for 5 years just spilled over.
Yes! Guilty as charhed,..click to expand

Posted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
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Posted by SpaceBirdBest comment
I don't judge you on your life. It's yours. Live how you want ...

Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’click to expand

Posted by RooSagicornAsk again. I don’t get it.Posted by GemitatiI meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.Posted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’click to expand

Posted by xyinsaturnPosted by GemitatiIs he attractivePosted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
click to expand

Posted by RooSagicornNo hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!Posted by GemitatiI was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.Posted by RooSagicornAsk again. I don’t get it.Posted by GemitatiI meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.Posted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
click to expand

Posted by GemitatiAnd he never got a child before...but with mea.,.Posted by RooSagicornNo hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!Posted by GemitatiI was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.Posted by RooSagicornAsk again. I don’t get it.Posted by GemitatiI meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.Posted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!click to expand

Posted by xyinsaturnI 51. 5/26/66Posted by GemitatiSo you are in your early 50s
He is 12/26/55
Just for those who wants to know.
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Posted by RooSagicornPosted by Gemitati4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?Posted by RooSagicornNo hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!Posted by GemitatiI was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.Posted by RooSagicornAsk again. I don’t get it.Posted by GemitatiI meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.Posted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!click to expand

Posted by RooSagicornNo! In-laws did. Plus his good looks and craving for adventures...there is no one to blame for. Really!Posted by Gemitati4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?Posted by RooSagicornNo hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!Posted by GemitatiI was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.Posted by RooSagicornAsk again. I don’t get it.Posted by GemitatiI meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.Posted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!click to expand

Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by RooSagicornno it's wonderful. Find someone you respect ...a friend ... a kindred spirit..a good person ...that you can share your mind heart and soul with ..shared values ...and most of all you laugh together.Posted by SpaceBirdWe had it all! But it ended.
Makes you think though ..find a mate like ...all the sexy goes
So sad 😢
You can have the sexy times for a few yrs....maybe for some it lasts for good but not all ..but the above is most important.click to expand

Posted by SpaceBirdWhy! What?Posted by Gemitatiyou look fabPosted by xyinsaturnI 51. 5/26/66Posted by GemitatiSo you are in your early 50s
He is 12/26/55
Just for those who wants to know.
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Posted by RooSagicornHe was a playboy. Until he met me. I said no other women or i am out. He was ready because I think he was tired of shit!Posted by GemitatiOkay just trying to understand. What does craving for adventures mean?Posted by RooSagicornNo! In-laws did. Plus his good looks and craving for adventures...there is no one to blame for. Really!Posted by Gemitati4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?Posted by RooSagicornNo hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!Posted by GemitatiI was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.Posted by RooSagicornAsk again. I don’t get it.Posted by GemitatiI meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.Posted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!click to expand

Posted by SpaceBirdI can’t. I don’t except compliments. I have a mirror. I don’t except ‘hi beautiful’ because I know when i look like shit or I look fabulous!Posted by GemitatiOMG accept a compliment....you so humble!Posted by SpaceBirdWhy! What?Posted by Gemitatiyou look fabPosted by xyinsaturnI 51. 5/26/66Posted by GemitatiSo you are in your early 50s
He is 12/26/55
Just for those who wants to know.
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Posted by RooSagicornI love Scorpio! He consumed me and I give no shit about anything anymore!Posted by SpaceBirdWhy can’t you have all that & love. I did for a lot of years..Posted by RooSagicornno it's wonderful. Find someone you respect ...a friend ... a kindred spirit..a good person ...that you can share your mind heart and soul with ..shared values ...and most of all you laugh together.Posted by SpaceBirdSo sad 😢
Makes you think though ..find a mate like ...all the sexy goes
You can have the sexy times for a few yrs....maybe for some it lasts for good but not all ..but the above is most important.click to expand

Posted by xyinsaturnIdk. He lasted first decade. And there is nothing karmic about it. Women were all over him so he was at service.Posted by GemitatiPlayboy? And then the sex dropped?Posted by RooSagicornHe was a playboy. Until he met me. I said no other women or i am out. He was ready because I think he was tired of shit!Posted by GemitatiOkay just trying to understand. What does craving for adventures mean?Posted by RooSagicornNo! In-laws did. Plus his good looks and craving for adventures...there is no one to blame for. Really!Posted by Gemitati4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?Posted by RooSagicornNo hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!Posted by GemitatiI was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.Posted by RooSagicornAsk again. I don’t get it.Posted by GemitatiI meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.Posted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
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He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
So for 24 years together I had no worries about him cheating. He still adores me but I love another man...
shit!
Hmm so he was getting off on promiscuity and then when it was time to wrap that up it killed the vibe
Sounds karmicclick to expand

Posted by JuliietteI could try and deny it because he does ask me where I am going...but whatever answer I give him - I don’t think he is even listening...
There's no way he doesn't know something. Unless he is insanely stupid. And he is in a way fine with it as long as you are there for him.

Posted by RooSagicornI said that I had best sex with Cap who isn’t my husband and I was shocked!Posted by xyinsaturnWell it would’ve been midlife, and perhaps he was facing things he didn’t want to deal with. My dad got married to my stepmom mid 50’s and he was always full of life and on the go until he got sick and had no choice. So it just seems strange to me. My bf is a Cap in that midlife crisis range , but giving up no - he may shut down for a bit, and then he has new ideas & new goals to reach for. So—? IdkPosted by RooSagicornThat is what surprises me.Posted by xyinsaturnHe was a playboy, 14 years with Gem he wants no sex and just settled for being cared for. It’s like he gave up, he wS beaten down & I tell ya my dad was a Cap. This behavior of getting beaten down makes no sense!Posted by RooSagicornWhich partPosted by xyinsaturnIt doesn’t make sense to me.Posted by GemitatiPlayboy? And then the sex dropped?Posted by RooSagicornHe was a playboy. Until he met me. I said no other women or i am out. He was ready because I think he was tired of shit!Posted by GemitatiOkay just trying to understand. What does craving for adventures mean?Posted by RooSagicornNo! In-laws did. Plus his good looks and craving for adventures...there is no one to blame for. Really!Posted by Gemitati4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?Posted by RooSagicornNo hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!Posted by GemitatiI was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.Posted by RooSagicornAsk again. I don’t get it.Posted by GemitatiI meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.Posted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
So for 24 years together I had no worries about him cheating. He still adores me but I love another man...
shit!
Hmm so he was getting off on promiscuity and then when it was time to wrap that up it killed the vibe
Sounds karmic
My dad was a playboy for 20 years between marriages, second marriage totally in love but he was ALWAYS in charge and sex omg. He was not dead there.. so i understand. It wasn’t until he was dying that he had to accept being cared for & that was still hard.
Unles it's the playboy life style that turned him on.
Gemt did say he wa active for a decade in their marriage.
Maybe it is the age and hitting overdrive.
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Posted by RooSagicornThats what I was thinking, 1 week, ok... 2 weeks and bye!! 🤣 right ? "how did she let him go so long without sex".. I mean love is love but sex is part of love. Being with that person completely naked and know that you belong to each other.. 😍
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?

Posted by RooSagicornIt doesn’t make ANY sense does it?Posted by GemitatiLol. Hmmmm sex with my Cap is 😍😍😍Posted by RooSagicornI said that I had best sex with Cap who isn’t my husband and I was shocked!Posted by xyinsaturnWell it would’ve been midlife, and perhaps he was facing things he didn’t want to deal with. My dad got married to my stepmom mid 50’s and he was always full of life and on the go until he got sick and had no choice. So it just seems strange to me. My bf is a Cap in that midlife crisis range , but giving up no - he may shut down for a bit, and then he has new ideas & new goals to reach for. So—? IdkPosted by RooSagicornThat is what surprises me.Posted by xyinsaturnHe was a playboy, 14 years with Gem he wants no sex and just settled for being cared for. It’s like he gave up, he wS beaten down & I tell ya my dad was a Cap. This behavior of getting beaten down makes no sense!Posted by RooSagicornWhich partPosted by xyinsaturnIt doesn’t make sense to me.Posted by GemitatiPlayboy? And then the sex dropped?Posted by RooSagicornHe was a playboy. Until he met me. I said no other women or i am out. He was ready because I think he was tired of shit!Posted by GemitatiOkay just trying to understand. What does craving for adventures mean?Posted by RooSagicornNo! In-laws did. Plus his good looks and craving for adventures...there is no one to blame for. Really!Posted by Gemitati4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?Posted by RooSagicornNo hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!Posted by GemitatiI was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.Posted by RooSagicornAsk again. I don’t get it.Posted by GemitatiI meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.Posted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
So for 24 years together I had no worries about him cheating. He still adores me but I love another man...
shit!
Hmm so he was getting off on promiscuity and then when it was time to wrap that up it killed the vibe
Sounds karmic
My dad was a playboy for 20 years between marriages, second marriage totally in love but he was ALWAYS in charge and sex omg. He was not dead there.. so i understand. It wasn’t until he was dying that he had to accept being cared for & that was still hard.
Unles it's the playboy life style that turned him on.
Gemt did say he wa active for a decade in their marriage.
Maybe it is the age and hitting overdrive.
My impression of Caps was that they are lazy in bed...boy was I wrong!!!
This is when I said astrology has no idea about signs sexual abilities...
I thought that’s why @xysaturn wanted to see his chart to figure out why he would react this way because it doesn’t make sense. Ah but it is what it is. Life goes on ya know?click to expand

Posted by xyinsaturnActually I don’t recall now. I was young, crazy and in love. So I haven’t been noticing who starts it!Posted by RooSagicornThat is what surprises me.Posted by xyinsaturnHe was a playboy, 14 years with Gem he wants no sex and just settled for being cared for. It’s like he gave up, he wS beaten down & I tell ya my dad was a Cap. This behavior of getting beaten down makes no sense!Posted by RooSagicornWhich partPosted by xyinsaturnIt doesn’t make sense to me.Posted by GemitatiPlayboy? And then the sex dropped?Posted by RooSagicornHe was a playboy. Until he met me. I said no other women or i am out. He was ready because I think he was tired of shit!Posted by GemitatiOkay just trying to understand. What does craving for adventures mean?Posted by RooSagicornNo! In-laws did. Plus his good looks and craving for adventures...there is no one to blame for. Really!Posted by Gemitati4th marriage at 37 is still a lot in 14 years. I started at 24 & have still only had 2! Are you saying his mother ruined the first 3 marriages?Posted by RooSagicornNo hon. We’ve met when he was 37 and I was 26!Posted by GemitatiI was just saying when the sex stopped was when gave up on the marriage ( I think). You were his 4th at age 37. That’s a lot of failed relationships/marriages. So 10 years ago, he was 51, correct? Midlife, feeling old, & 4th marriage not going so well or the way he wanted. so he settled for comforts you gave him instead of dealing with another failure. In other words, he gave up.Posted by RooSagicornAsk again. I don’t get it.Posted by GemitatiI meant on the marriage & possibly relationships at that point. Not on life.Posted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He started marriages at 23.
Bitches haven’t lived up up to ‘Jewish mom loving son’ standards...and then he had met me! Fireworks!!!
So for 24 years together I had no worries about him cheating. He still adores me but I love another man...
shit!
Hmm so he was getting off on promiscuity and then when it was time to wrap that up it killed the vibe
Sounds karmic
My dad was a playboy for 20 years between marriages, second marriage totally in love but he was ALWAYS in charge and sex omg. He was not dead there.. so i understand. It wasn’t until he was dying that he had to accept being cared for & that was still hard.
Unles it's the playboy life style that turned him on.
Gemt did say he wa active for a decade in their marriage.
Maybe it is the age and hitting overdrive.
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Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’click to expand

Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’click to expand
Posted by GemitatiWhy did you marry him?Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
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He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’click to expand

Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!Posted by GemitatiWhy did you marry him?Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’click to expand

Posted by UnicornSagI am glad you ‘get’ it! Because most people don’t!
I told you before, this reminds me of my parents lol they different with age tho and not so big gap between...my mom is 2 years younger than your husband...my dad is the one as well who did nothing when it comes to sex life. And they had no sex life for as long as I can remember, that means very long time ago from childhood. And my mom snapped out of it in her 50's finally?! He's also perfectly fine with just laying around and doing absolutely nothing! He doesn't care either that she finds someone else. In fact I told him she did once, no reaction! Why I got involved was cause she faked up my life at that time and I couldn't stand that guy being around 24h! I'm glad she got life on her own finally and been telling her much earlier to do so but for whatever reason she wasn't doing it. So I can understand this kind of man completely cause I have one in my house and I never ever want to be with man who's like that! So in the end it has nothing to do with sign, it has only thing to do with personality of those people. I don't know how do people stay with those who completely reject sex or don't even bother doing it...I know I couldn't. It's not base for good life for sure but it's a mandatory part of life for me at least! I couldn't stand a guy for just few months who was like this, can't imagine being with one for years!
Posted by GemitatiThat's sad to hear. You say you were okay with the way your marriage was going until the Scorp came along? So you had no complaints before?Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!Posted by GemitatiWhy did you marry him?Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!click to expand

Posted by PINK_ROSESNo. The problem was so old and established and I didn’t know it can change! I wasn’t looking for a change.Posted by GemitatiThat's sad to hear. You say you were okay with the way your marriage was going until the Scorp came along? So you had no complaints before?Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!Posted by GemitatiWhy did you marry him?Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!
I think the moment you got attracted to the Scorp, should have been a wake up call for you. That there was something missing in your marriage. Did you ever attempt to fix the problems there?click to expand
Posted by UnicornSagI don't judge her either. Her situation is pitiable actually and I feel for both the parties involved. I do think that a lot of marriages can be saved if the parties make it a priority to focus on each other's needs and to remain interested in each other.Posted by GemitatiI'm not really sure what she's doing cause she's very closed about everything but I think she's seeing one man now, she mentions him a lot and sees him quite often as well. And I mean seeing only cause my parents as divorced still live together like I wrote before. Weird shit...but it's basically cause of the apartment only,neither one can afford to buy another right now.Posted by UnicornSagI am glad you ‘get’ it! Because most people don’t!
I told you before, this reminds me of my parents lol they different with age tho and not so big gap between...my mom is 2 years younger than your husband...my dad is the one as well who did nothing when it comes to sex life. And they had no sex life for as long as I can remember, that means very long time ago from childhood. And my mom snapped out of it in her 50's finally?! He's also perfectly fine with just laying around and doing absolutely nothing! He doesn't care either that she finds someone else. In fact I told him she did once, no reaction! Why I got involved was cause she faked up my life at that time and I couldn't stand that guy being around 24h! I'm glad she got life on her own finally and been telling her much earlier to do so but for whatever reason she wasn't doing it. So I can understand this kind of man completely cause I have one in my house and I never ever want to be with man who's like that! So in the end it has nothing to do with sign, it has only thing to do with personality of those people. I don't know how do people stay with those who completely reject sex or don't even bother doing it...I know I couldn't. It's not base for good life for sure but it's a mandatory part of life for me at least! I couldn't stand a guy for just few months who was like this, can't imagine being with one for years!
Is your mom alone now or with a partner?
Oh yeah I get it...it's easy to be judgmental and not look for reasons behind it, but when you do look and even more when you know real life examples of such things...I can't really judgeclick to expand
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Having an awesome child together.
Him being a lazy af but people have worse..
Looked at him just now seeing that he is such a good looking man!
Just having sex died in him 10 years ago.
I am physically could be attracted to him. Except he is so frigging lazy...
He hate word ‘do’ and he prefer not doing anything.,.
He loves me. I think it more like because I do everything so he doesn’t have to...
He is living in lala land because I let him.
Ok! Judge me because I want to claim to be a woman!