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Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve met a woman today who’s mom just left her husband after 45 years of marriage and she said they are best friends and she is happiest ever been and they love each other - just can’t be together anymore...Posted by UnicornSagI don't judge her either. Her situation is pitiable actually and I feel for both the parties involved. I do think that a lot of marriages can be saved if the parties make it a priority to focus on each other's needs and to remain interested in each other.Posted by GemitatiI'm not really sure what she's doing cause she's very closed about everything but I think she's seeing one man now, she mentions him a lot and sees him quite often as well. And I mean seeing only cause my parents as divorced still live together like I wrote before. Weird shit...but it's basically cause of the apartment only,neither one can afford to buy another right now.Posted by UnicornSagI am glad you ‘get’ it! Because most people don’t!
I told you before, this reminds me of my parents lol they different with age tho and not so big gap between...my mom is 2 years younger than your husband...my dad is the one as well who did nothing when it comes to sex life. And they had no sex life for as long as I can remember, that means very long time ago from childhood. And my mom snapped out of it in her 50's finally?! He's also perfectly fine with just laying around and doing absolutely nothing! He doesn't care either that she finds someone else. In fact I told him she did once, no reaction! Why I got involved was cause she faked up my life at that time and I couldn't stand that guy being around 24h! I'm glad she got life on her own finally and been telling her much earlier to do so but for whatever reason she wasn't doing it. So I can understand this kind of man completely cause I have one in my house and I never ever want to be with man who's like that! So in the end it has nothing to do with sign, it has only thing to do with personality of those people. I don't know how do people stay with those who completely reject sex or don't even bother doing it...I know I couldn't. It's not base for good life for sure but it's a mandatory part of life for me at least! I couldn't stand a guy for just few months who was like this, can't imagine being with one for years!
Is your mom alone now or with a partner?
Oh yeah I get it...it's easy to be judgmental and not look for reasons behind it, but when you do look and even more when you know real life examples of such things...I can't really judge
I don't know what I would do in a similar situation, but I would try to not complicate it any further.click to expand
I thought...if you just knew how I get it!
Hope will talk to her again!
for most couples sex dies about 5 years into the marriage.
Do people really believe otherwise?
Do people really believe otherwise?
Posted by PINK_ROSES11/18/61 and thanks a lot!Posted by GemitatiWhat's the Scorp's DOB?Posted by PINK_ROSESNo. The problem was so old and established and I didn’t know it can change! I wasn’t looking for a change.Posted by GemitatiThat's sad to hear. You say you were okay with the way your marriage was going until the Scorp came along? So you had no complaints before?Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!Posted by GemitatiWhy did you marry him?Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!
I think the moment you got attracted to the Scorp, should have been a wake up call for you. That there was something missing in your marriage. Did you ever attempt to fix the problems there?
It came totally unexpectedly!
And blood boiled over the brain.
Don’t forget 5 years of friendship and just nothing else...
I was looking at your synastry with your husband and I noticed his Saturn opposes your Mars. Hard aspects between Saturn-Mars apparently indicate bad sex or sexless marriages...if you want to explain it astrologically.click to expand
So...it’s been pre-destined— Wow!
Posted by hydorahYes.
for most couples sex dies about 5 years into the marriage.
Do people really believe otherwise?
Posted by RooSagicornThank God for that! Now! And daily! ❤️Posted by hydorahYes. Not true for mine.
for most couples sex dies about 5 years into the marriage.
Do people really believe otherwise?click to expand
Posted by GemitatiI've heard plenty of women say that about their marriages -- "we're just living together as best friends". In most of those cases the husband has done something that made these women lose respect for them and hence attraction.Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve met a woman today who’s mom just left her husband after 45 years of marriage and she said they are best friends and she is happiest ever been and they love each other - just can’t be together anymore...Posted by UnicornSagI don't judge her either. Her situation is pitiable actually and I feel for both the parties involved. I do think that a lot of marriages can be saved if the parties make it a priority to focus on each other's needs and to remain interested in each other.Posted by GemitatiI'm not really sure what she's doing cause she's very closed about everything but I think she's seeing one man now, she mentions him a lot and sees him quite often as well. And I mean seeing only cause my parents as divorced still live together like I wrote before. Weird shit...but it's basically cause of the apartment only,neither one can afford to buy another right now.Posted by UnicornSagI am glad you ‘get’ it! Because most people don’t!
I told you before, this reminds me of my parents lol they different with age tho and not so big gap between...my mom is 2 years younger than your husband...my dad is the one as well who did nothing when it comes to sex life. And they had no sex life for as long as I can remember, that means very long time ago from childhood. And my mom snapped out of it in her 50's finally?! He's also perfectly fine with just laying around and doing absolutely nothing! He doesn't care either that she finds someone else. In fact I told him she did once, no reaction! Why I got involved was cause she faked up my life at that time and I couldn't stand that guy being around 24h! I'm glad she got life on her own finally and been telling her much earlier to do so but for whatever reason she wasn't doing it. So I can understand this kind of man completely cause I have one in my house and I never ever want to be with man who's like that! So in the end it has nothing to do with sign, it has only thing to do with personality of those people. I don't know how do people stay with those who completely reject sex or don't even bother doing it...I know I couldn't. It's not base for good life for sure but it's a mandatory part of life for me at least! I couldn't stand a guy for just few months who was like this, can't imagine being with one for years!
Is your mom alone now or with a partner?
Oh yeah I get it...it's easy to be judgmental and not look for reasons behind it, but when you do look and even more when you know real life examples of such things...I can't really judge
I don't know what I would do in a similar situation, but I would try to not complicate it any further.
I thought...if you just knew how I get it!
Hope will talk to her again!click to expand
You should find out what made her leave after 45yrs. Maybe she's in a process of self discovery?
Posted by GemitatiWhat's so different with the Scorp? What do you value most? The friendship aspect? Because I remember you saying that he wasn't great at sex either...Posted by PINK_ROSES11/18/61 and thanks a lot!Posted by GemitatiWhat's the Scorp's DOB?Posted by PINK_ROSESNo. The problem was so old and established and I didn’t know it can change! I wasn’t looking for a change.Posted by GemitatiThat's sad to hear. You say you were okay with the way your marriage was going until the Scorp came along? So you had no complaints before?Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!Posted by GemitatiWhy did you marry him?Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!
I think the moment you got attracted to the Scorp, should have been a wake up call for you. That there was something missing in your marriage. Did you ever attempt to fix the problems there?
It came totally unexpectedly!
And blood boiled over the brain.
Don’t forget 5 years of friendship and just nothing else...
I was looking at your synastry with your husband and I noticed his Saturn opposes your Mars. Hard aspects between Saturn-Mars apparently indicate bad sex or sexless marriages...if you want to explain it astrologically.
So...it’s been pre-destined— Wow!click to expand
Posted by PINK_ROSESExplaining it is mission impossiblePosted by GemitatiWhat's so different with the Scorp? What do you value most? The friendship aspect? Because I remember you saying that he wasn't great at sex either...Posted by PINK_ROSES11/18/61 and thanks a lot!Posted by GemitatiWhat's the Scorp's DOB?Posted by PINK_ROSESNo. The problem was so old and established and I didn’t know it can change! I wasn’t looking for a change.Posted by GemitatiThat's sad to hear. You say you were okay with the way your marriage was going until the Scorp came along? So you had no complaints before?Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!Posted by GemitatiWhy did you marry him?Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!
I think the moment you got attracted to the Scorp, should have been a wake up call for you. That there was something missing in your marriage. Did you ever attempt to fix the problems there?
It came totally unexpectedly!
And blood boiled over the brain.
Don’t forget 5 years of friendship and just nothing else...
I was looking at your synastry with your husband and I noticed his Saturn opposes your Mars. Hard aspects between Saturn-Mars apparently indicate bad sex or sexless marriages...if you want to explain it astrologically.
So...it’s been pre-destined— Wow!
click to expand
Have you ever stood next to someone and got goisebumpes all over your body just from the looking? It’s like...you don’t know why! Energy is making you...wet! And dead becomes so alive...
Posted by GemitatiLol. I think I can understand.Posted by PINK_ROSESExplaining it is mission impossiblePosted by GemitatiWhat's so different with the Scorp? What do you value most? The friendship aspect? Because I remember you saying that he wasn't great at sex either...Posted by PINK_ROSES11/18/61 and thanks a lot!Posted by GemitatiWhat's the Scorp's DOB?Posted by PINK_ROSESNo. The problem was so old and established and I didn’t know it can change! I wasn’t looking for a change.Posted by GemitatiThat's sad to hear. You say you were okay with the way your marriage was going until the Scorp came along? So you had no complaints before?Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!Posted by GemitatiWhy did you marry him?Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!
I think the moment you got attracted to the Scorp, should have been a wake up call for you. That there was something missing in your marriage. Did you ever attempt to fix the problems there?
It came totally unexpectedly!
And blood boiled over the brain.
Don’t forget 5 years of friendship and just nothing else...
I was looking at your synastry with your husband and I noticed his Saturn opposes your Mars. Hard aspects between Saturn-Mars apparently indicate bad sex or sexless marriages...if you want to explain it astrologically.
So...it’s been pre-destined— Wow!
Have you ever stood next to someone and got goisebumpes all over your body just from the looking? It’s like...you don’t know why! Energy is making you...wet! And dead becomes so alive...
click to expand
What if this feeling lasts only till the time your relationship retains that forbidden quality? Do you ever fear that things may not be so exciting once you're together?
Posted by PINK_ROSESI would be really surprised if after almost decade of relashionships things would be not as excited! Though I thought about it!Posted by GemitatiLol. I think I can understand.Posted by PINK_ROSESExplaining it is mission impossiblePosted by GemitatiWhat's so different with the Scorp? What do you value most? The friendship aspect? Because I remember you saying that he wasn't great at sex either...Posted by PINK_ROSES11/18/61 and thanks a lot!Posted by GemitatiWhat's the Scorp's DOB?Posted by PINK_ROSESNo. The problem was so old and established and I didn’t know it can change! I wasn’t looking for a change.Posted by GemitatiThat's sad to hear. You say you were okay with the way your marriage was going until the Scorp came along? So you had no complaints before?Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!Posted by GemitatiWhy did you marry him?Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!
I think the moment you got attracted to the Scorp, should have been a wake up call for you. That there was something missing in your marriage. Did you ever attempt to fix the problems there?
It came totally unexpectedly!
And blood boiled over the brain.
Don’t forget 5 years of friendship and just nothing else...
I was looking at your synastry with your husband and I noticed his Saturn opposes your Mars. Hard aspects between Saturn-Mars apparently indicate bad sex or sexless marriages...if you want to explain it astrologically.
So...it’s been pre-destined— Wow!
Have you ever stood next to someone and got goisebumpes all over your body just from the looking? It’s like...you don’t know why! Energy is making you...wet! And dead becomes so alive...
What if this feeling lasts only till the time your relationship retains that forbidden quality? Do you ever fear that things may not be so exciting once you're together?click to expand
It’s very possible! He is my opposite and twin flame. Which means shit in real life.
We just learned how to live ‘non demanding’ life when IF we make plans and it fails - no hysteria or scandal!
I say outmost respect is the core of this all and no one rushing because too much is at stake!
Posted by GemitatiI was just looking at your relationship profile with the Scorpio on thesecretlanguage.com. It talks about a hidden relationship. Interesting!Posted by PINK_ROSESI would be really surprised if after almost decade of relashionships things would be not as excited! Though I thought about it!Posted by GemitatiLol. I think I can understand.Posted by PINK_ROSESExplaining it is mission impossiblePosted by GemitatiWhat's so different with the Scorp? What do you value most? The friendship aspect? Because I remember you saying that he wasn't great at sex either...Posted by PINK_ROSES11/18/61 and thanks a lot!Posted by GemitatiWhat's the Scorp's DOB?Posted by PINK_ROSESNo. The problem was so old and established and I didn’t know it can change! I wasn’t looking for a change.Posted by GemitatiThat's sad to hear. You say you were okay with the way your marriage was going until the Scorp came along? So you had no complaints before?Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!Posted by GemitatiWhy did you marry him?Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!
I think the moment you got attracted to the Scorp, should have been a wake up call for you. That there was something missing in your marriage. Did you ever attempt to fix the problems there?
It came totally unexpectedly!
And blood boiled over the brain.
Don’t forget 5 years of friendship and just nothing else...
I was looking at your synastry with your husband and I noticed his Saturn opposes your Mars. Hard aspects between Saturn-Mars apparently indicate bad sex or sexless marriages...if you want to explain it astrologically.
So...it’s been pre-destined— Wow!
Have you ever stood next to someone and got goisebumpes all over your body just from the looking? It’s like...you don’t know why! Energy is making you...wet! And dead becomes so alive...
What if this feeling lasts only till the time your relationship retains that forbidden quality? Do you ever fear that things may not be so exciting once you're together?
It’s very possible! He is my opposite and twin flame. Which means shit in real life.
We just learned how to live ‘non demanding’ life when IF we make plans and it fails - no hysteria or scandal!
I say outmost respect is the core of this all and no one rushing because too much is at stake!click to expand
I think you should check it out, if you haven't already. https://www.thesecretlanguage.com/report/relationship/index.php?r=05261118
Your case is interesting, because you are not someone who was looking for an affair or someone who does this often. You just ran into one! There is a distinction to be made. But affairs bring a lot of pain and suffering to the people involved, so most will find it difficult to condone.
Posted by PINK_ROSESThanks for this link. Very true and about communications when everything is revealed and hidden.Posted by GemitatiI was just looking at your relationship profile with the Scorpio on thesecretlanguage.com. It talks about a hidden relationship. Interesting!Posted by PINK_ROSESI would be really surprised if after almost decade of relashionships things would be not as excited! Though I thought about it!Posted by GemitatiLol. I think I can understand.Posted by PINK_ROSESExplaining it is mission impossiblePosted by GemitatiWhat's so different with the Scorp? What do you value most? The friendship aspect? Because I remember you saying that he wasn't great at sex either...Posted by PINK_ROSES11/18/61 and thanks a lot!Posted by GemitatiWhat's the Scorp's DOB?Posted by PINK_ROSESNo. The problem was so old and established and I didn’t know it can change! I wasn’t looking for a change.Posted by GemitatiThat's sad to hear. You say you were okay with the way your marriage was going until the Scorp came along? So you had no complaints before?Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!Posted by GemitatiWhy did you marry him?Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
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He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!
I think the moment you got attracted to the Scorp, should have been a wake up call for you. That there was something missing in your marriage. Did you ever attempt to fix the problems there?
It came totally unexpectedly!
And blood boiled over the brain.
Don’t forget 5 years of friendship and just nothing else...
I was looking at your synastry with your husband and I noticed his Saturn opposes your Mars. Hard aspects between Saturn-Mars apparently indicate bad sex or sexless marriages...if you want to explain it astrologically.
So...it’s been pre-destined— Wow!
Have you ever stood next to someone and got goisebumpes all over your body just from the looking? It’s like...you don’t know why! Energy is making you...wet! And dead becomes so alive...
What if this feeling lasts only till the time your relationship retains that forbidden quality? Do you ever fear that things may not be so exciting once you're together?
It’s very possible! He is my opposite and twin flame. Which means shit in real life.
We just learned how to live ‘non demanding’ life when IF we make plans and it fails - no hysteria or scandal!
I say outmost respect is the core of this all and no one rushing because too much is at stake!
I think you should check it out, if you haven't already. https://www.thesecretlanguage.com/report/relationship/index.php?r=05261118
Your case is interesting, because you are not someone who was looking for an affair or someone who does this often. You just ran into one! There is a distinction to be made. But affairs bring a lot of pain and suffering to the people involved, so most will find it difficult to condone.click to expand
Pain and suffering is enormous! But ending seems impossible.
And yes, I wasn’t looking for it! For 22 years I had not looked at any men and on that particular day I’ve met about 50 of men due to a business establishment.
I am still wondering WHY? And what FOR.
And if there is a purpose in it AT ALL!
Thanks ❤️
Posted by JuliietteHmm...so he is able but unwilling BUT he loves her...that’s another twist in a similar story.
anyway. my mother is a gemini. she had a lover, a love whatever for 15 years, not that it makes some statistics but since we are on astro forum maybe it's relevant. he was a scorpio too. and i knew about it. not like your daughter. she admitted it when he tried to blackmail her, and ask for help.
her complains were the same, he is not interested in physical love anymore. i bought that. 10 days ago, from his drunk speech and from other things i realized he started cheating on her way before she started. but he is so codependent he would rather die than lose her. his lover now is younger than me lol.
anyway good luck.
How old are they?
I am glad people finally getting some understanding about life, love and infidelity. Thanks for participation.
Posted by JuliietteIt’s just he is always home. And my mom is there. At 2pm he starts his lunch with vodka that transfers into midnight when he passes out...but looking at him you wouldn’t suspect a thing about him drinking. He just happy having good food, watching tv, homebody to the point it’s sick!Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteHmm...so he is able but unwilling BUT he loves her...that’s another twist in a similar story.
anyway. my mother is a gemini. she had a lover, a love whatever for 15 years, not that it makes some statistics but since we are on astro forum maybe it's relevant. he was a scorpio too. and i knew about it. not like your daughter. she admitted it when he tried to blackmail her, and ask for help.
her complains were the same, he is not interested in physical love anymore. i bought that. 10 days ago, from his drunk speech and from other things i realized he started cheating on her way before she started. but he is so codependent he would rather die than lose her. his lover now is younger than me lol.
anyway good luck.
How old are they?
I am glad people finally getting some understanding about life, love and infidelity. Thanks for participation.
my father is 1950y and she is 1957.
he loves her i can bet that's the truth.
but their sexuality is somewhere else.
as their child i couldn't care less until that scorpio wanted to do a revenge thing. i told him i would break his legs if he says something. so. don't underestimate your cap.
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I can bet anything he is not having anyone. I had suggested. He signed up to a dating site but was too lazy to check.
Lol
Posted by JuliietteToo late! I’ve been doing what I wanted always! But thanks for all the info. These stories need to be told!Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteIt’s just he is always home. And my mom is there. At 2pm he starts his lunch with vodka that transfers into midnight when he passes out...but looking at him you wouldn’t suspect a thing about him drinking. He just happy having good food, watching tv, homebody to the point it’s sick!Posted by GemitatiPosted by JuliietteHmm...so he is able but unwilling BUT he loves her...that’s another twist in a similar story.
anyway. my mother is a gemini. she had a lover, a love whatever for 15 years, not that it makes some statistics but since we are on astro forum maybe it's relevant. he was a scorpio too. and i knew about it. not like your daughter. she admitted it when he tried to blackmail her, and ask for help.
her complains were the same, he is not interested in physical love anymore. i bought that. 10 days ago, from his drunk speech and from other things i realized he started cheating on her way before she started. but he is so codependent he would rather die than lose her. his lover now is younger than me lol.
anyway good luck.
How old are they?
I am glad people finally getting some understanding about life, love and infidelity. Thanks for participation.
my father is 1950y and she is 1957.
he loves her i can bet that's the truth.
but their sexuality is somewhere else.
as their child i couldn't care less until that scorpio wanted to do a revenge thing. i told him i would break his legs if he says something. so. don't underestimate your cap.
I can bet anything he is not having anyone. I had suggested. He signed up to a dating site but was too lazy to check.
Lol
you have my blessings. do what you want to do.
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Posted by GemitatiI understand. This can happen to anyone, so I will not judge.Posted by PINK_ROSESThanks for this link. Very true and about communications when everything is revealed and hidden.Posted by GemitatiI was just looking at your relationship profile with the Scorpio on thesecretlanguage.com. It talks about a hidden relationship. Interesting!Posted by PINK_ROSESI would be really surprised if after almost decade of relashionships things would be not as excited! Though I thought about it!Posted by GemitatiLol. I think I can understand.Posted by PINK_ROSESExplaining it is mission impossiblePosted by GemitatiWhat's so different with the Scorp? What do you value most? The friendship aspect? Because I remember you saying that he wasn't great at sex either...Posted by PINK_ROSES11/18/61 and thanks a lot!Posted by GemitatiWhat's the Scorp's DOB?Posted by PINK_ROSESNo. The problem was so old and established and I didn’t know it can change! I wasn’t looking for a change.Posted by GemitatiThat's sad to hear. You say you were okay with the way your marriage was going until the Scorp came along? So you had no complaints before?Posted by PINK_ROSESI’ve loved him to pieces! Like...fun and generose man who acted like a man!Posted by GemitatiWhy did you marry him?Posted by PINK_ROSESMillion percent! I wish he did...Posted by GemitatiAre you sure your husband is not getting sex from somewhere else?Posted by xyinsaturnNO! I’ve been to my separate bedroom for 2 years. I don’t accept him as a sex object anymore. He is my family. Father or my child. I love him and I care about him and I will take care of him if god forbid something happen to him...but his touch makes me cringe. Its over.Posted by GemitatiSuppose he wants sex again, would you do himPosted by xyinsaturnHe is still happy/go/lucky man!Posted by RooSagicornI wonder whyPosted by xyinsaturnThat’s a lot of marriages at age 37. Hmm it would be interesting to see. Seems to me he gave up.Posted by RooSagicorn4th at 37 and a capPosted by xyinsaturnNo kidding! Crazy!Posted by GemitatiAnd he is a cap....Posted by xyinsaturnNot at all! We are European decent and I was 26 and he was 37 and I am his 4th wife!Posted by GemitatiWas it an arranged marriagePosted by RooSagicornOk. Having a child. Getting demanding job. Buying a house. Being stressed out...isn’t a good foundation for sex live!
He stopped having sex & you said ok?
For a month, a couple months, but ten freaking years? Being lazy is not a good excuse. Or do you mean he couldn’t?
Seemed like it’s ok, life just going on!
Thinking maybe that’s how everyone is living.
Until.,.bag of bricks hit you over the head and you wake up from sexless existence thnking...wow! I’ve just missed life!
Nothing like forced! We are free will people. So my free will prevails. Now! Lol
I'm trying to calculate and guessing his chart
-.-
He will never give up! As long as he has his TV and home made food and his drinks - he doesn’t give a shit’
He grabbed my ass and moved me with himself and it felt right!
It lasted 17 years! Well...even in sexless marriage we were in tune. Too much stress, I was ok with that until...you know the rest...
Apparently we grew older and became different people and that’s that!
I think the moment you got attracted to the Scorp, should have been a wake up call for you. That there was something missing in your marriage. Did you ever attempt to fix the problems there?
It came totally unexpectedly!
And blood boiled over the brain.
Don’t forget 5 years of friendship and just nothing else...
I was looking at your synastry with your husband and I noticed his Saturn opposes your Mars. Hard aspects between Saturn-Mars apparently indicate bad sex or sexless marriages...if you want to explain it astrologically.
So...it’s been pre-destined— Wow!
Have you ever stood next to someone and got goisebumpes all over your body just from the looking? It’s like...you don’t know why! Energy is making you...wet! And dead becomes so alive...
What if this feeling lasts only till the time your relationship retains that forbidden quality? Do you ever fear that things may not be so exciting once you're together?
It’s very possible! He is my opposite and twin flame. Which means shit in real life.
We just learned how to live ‘non demanding’ life when IF we make plans and it fails - no hysteria or scandal!
I say outmost respect is the core of this all and no one rushing because too much is at stake!
I think you should check it out, if you haven't already. https://www.thesecretlanguage.com/report/relationship/index.php?r=05261118
Your case is interesting, because you are not someone who was looking for an affair or someone who does this often. You just ran into one! There is a distinction to be made. But affairs bring a lot of pain and suffering to the people involved, so most will find it difficult to condone.
Pain and suffering is enormous! But ending seems impossible.
And yes, I wasn’t looking for it! For 22 years I had not looked at any men and on that particular day I’ve met about 50 of men due to a business establishment.
I am still wondering WHY? And what FOR.
And if there is a purpose in it AT ALL!
Thanks ❤️
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Do you think your husband gave up and resorted to a sedentary life style because he felt neglected? Because you were so busy with family responsibilities, he could have felt that your focus was not him. This, in turn, led you to feel neglected too?
Affairs can actually help save marriages sometimes, if you are willing to bring those elements (from the affair) into your marriage. I say sell the TV! 😂 Plan a vacation. Do something new together. You might start seeing him differently again. In case you do leave your husband tomorrow, you will be leaving him in a better state than he is in now.
Not sure how much you can depend on the Scorpio. While women have affairs to end their relationships, men have them to stay in their marriages.
Posted by UnicornSagYes, I see a lot relationships like that. And you can never tell what your partner is going to be like a few years into the marriage. Now that is scary!Posted by PINK_ROSESI agree completely. People neglect their relationship over time and if both don't work on it that's how it can go...I know what I would do personally cause I'm that kind of person who fights until I see no more hope there and then I'm out of the door. I don't support cheating and would rather end such marriage but I can't judge her for this because it's really difficult situation. And I love Caps and everything about them but this isn't about being Cap here,it's about being that kind of person and I know that kind from my own example at home. I can't judge all Leos either by my own father because he's that way. To be honest I have a feeling if she literally tells him she's cheating on him he wouldn't care either :/ cause he's comfortable the way it is and doesn't want to change a thing...Posted by UnicornSagI don't judge her either. Her situation is pitiable actually and I feel for both the parties involved. I do think that a lot of marriages can be saved if the parties make it a priority to focus on each other's needs and to remain interested in each other.Posted by GemitatiI'm not really sure what she's doing cause she's very closed about everything but I think she's seeing one man now, she mentions him a lot and sees him quite often as well. And I mean seeing only cause my parents as divorced still live together like I wrote before. Weird shit...but it's basically cause of the apartment only,neither one can afford to buy another right now.Posted by UnicornSagI am glad you ‘get’ it! Because most people don’t!
I told you before, this reminds me of my parents lol they different with age tho and not so big gap between...my mom is 2 years younger than your husband...my dad is the one as well who did nothing when it comes to sex life. And they had no sex life for as long as I can remember, that means very long time ago from childhood. And my mom snapped out of it in her 50's finally?! He's also perfectly fine with just laying around and doing absolutely nothing! He doesn't care either that she finds someone else. In fact I told him she did once, no reaction! Why I got involved was cause she faked up my life at that time and I couldn't stand that guy being around 24h! I'm glad she got life on her own finally and been telling her much earlier to do so but for whatever reason she wasn't doing it. So I can understand this kind of man completely cause I have one in my house and I never ever want to be with man who's like that! So in the end it has nothing to do with sign, it has only thing to do with personality of those people. I don't know how do people stay with those who completely reject sex or don't even bother doing it...I know I couldn't. It's not base for good life for sure but it's a mandatory part of life for me at least! I couldn't stand a guy for just few months who was like this, can't imagine being with one for years!
Is your mom alone now or with a partner?
Oh yeah I get it...it's easy to be judgmental and not look for reasons behind it, but when you do look and even more when you know real life examples of such things...I can't really judge
I don't know what I would do in a similar situation, but I would try to not complicate it any further.
Anyway, my own perspective is, both should try to work on their marriage when it starts going in this direction and if it doesn't work people should go their own ways. But everyone knows their story best and have brain on their own to make decisions. I don't support but don't judge either, only can say I understand such situationclick to expand
So what’s your advice to budding marriages about this?
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