Libra Man and Capricorn Woman

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This Capricorn says she’s attracted to me and flirts. I’m attracted to her as well. I told her I wanted her. She told me she was single at first. After I said I wanted her she said she has a “complicated” situation still going on with some guy..

I said “that’s none of my business, I still want you.”...

Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that.

After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls.

I went up and talked to her yesterday assuring her that we were “cool” and whenever she changes her mind to hit me up. She flirted with me. Says she likes my hair, my style , and my hands lol...

I just want to sleep with her and release this tension I have with her. At least I’m being honest.
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This Capricorn says she’s attracted to me and flirts. I’m attracted to her as well. I told her I wanted her. She told me she was single at first. After I said I wanted her she said she has a “complicated” situation still going on with some guy..

I said “that’s none of my business, I still want you.”...

Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that.

After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls.

I went up and talked to her yesterday assuring her that we were “cool” and whenever she changes her mind to hit me up. She flirted with me. Says she likes my hair, my style , and my hands lol...

I just want to sleep with her and release this tension I have with her. At least I’m being honest.


Like seriously? Dude—? What the fuck is happening to "real love" in this world?

My Cap boss was so right. The world is so fucked up. Urghhhhhh
This dude is just ambitious. lol Also I think had the Capricorn not played with him, in the beginning, his response might have been totally different.
Anything Libra totally can kill me in the inside.

#deadinside
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gurrrlll you have libra xD
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This Capricorn says she’s attracted to me and flirts. I’m attracted to her as well. I told her I wanted her. She told me she was single at first. After I said I wanted her she said she has a “complicated” situation still going on with some guy..

I said “that’s none of my business, I still want you.”...

Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that.

After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls.

I went up and talked to her yesterday assuring her that we were “cool” and whenever she changes her mind to hit me up. She flirted with me. Says she likes my hair, my style , and my hands lol...

I just want to sleep with her and release this tension I have with her. At least I’m being honest.


Like seriously? Dude—? What the fuck is happening to "real love" in this world?

My Cap boss was so right. The world is so fucked up. Urghhhhhh
This dude is just ambitious. lol Also I think had the Capricorn not played with him, in the beginning, his response might have been totally different.
Anything Libra totally can kill me in the inside.

#deadinside

Its highly logical and I think it should make perfect sense.
Venus in Libra especially. They are for every women. I mean, not tryin' to be mean but come on man, why would...urgh..okay nvm.
You are not looking at the other side. I think Capricorn is the main culprit in this scenario. As I always say, Capricorns can not operate from the position of power at all times. They have to bow down to the love that a libra has to offer coz reciprocity is what Libra seeks.
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hey libra guy, stay with the cancer young woman. 😛 xD
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This Capricorn says she’s attracted to me and flirts. I’m attracted to her as well. I told her I wanted her. She told me she was single at first. After I said I wanted her she said she has a “complicated” situation still going on with some guy..

I said “that’s none of my business, I still want you.”...

Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that.

After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls.

I went up and talked to her yesterday assuring her that we were “cool” and whenever she changes her mind to hit me up. She flirted with me. Says she likes my hair, my style , and my hands lol...

I just want to sleep with her and release this tension I have with her. At least I’m being honest.


Like seriously? Dude—? What the fuck is happening to "real love" in this world?

My Cap boss was so right. The world is so fucked up. Urghhhhhh
This dude is just ambitious. lol Also I think had the Capricorn not played with him, in the beginning, his response might have been totally different.
Anything Libra totally can kill me in the inside.

#deadinside

Its highly logical and I think it should make perfect sense.
Venus in Libra especially. They are for every women. I mean, not tryin' to be mean but come on man, why would...urgh..okay nvm.
You are not looking at the other side. I think Capricorn is the main culprit in this scenario. As I always say, Capricorns can not operate from the position of power at all times. They have to bow down to the love that a libra has to offer coz reciprocity is what Libra seeks.
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This Capricorn says she’s attracted to me and flirts. I’m attracted to her as well. I told her I wanted her. She told me she was single at first. After I said I wanted her she said she has a “complicated” situation still going on with some guy..

I said “that’s none of my business, I still want you.”...

Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that.

After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls.

I went up and talked to her yesterday assuring her that we were “cool” and whenever she changes her mind to hit me up. She flirted with me. Says she likes my hair, my style , and my hands lol...

I just want to sleep with her and release this tension I have with her. At least I’m being honest.


Like seriously? Dude—? What the fuck is happening to "real love" in this world?

My Cap boss was so right. The world is so fucked up. Urghhhhhh
This dude is just ambitious. lol Also I think had the Capricorn not played with him, in the beginning, his response might have been totally different.
Anything Libra totally can kill me in the inside.

#deadinside


gurrrlll you have libra xD
I hate that Libra mars of mine tbh. Nevermind, whatever Librat...whatever.
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aw. it's my fave libra placement.

maybe someday you'lll love your libra mars.
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This Capricorn says she’s attracted to me and flirts. I’m attracted to her as well. I told her I wanted her. She told me she was single at first. After I said I wanted her she said she has a “complicated” situation still going on with some guy..

I said “that’s none of my business, I still want you.”...

Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that.

After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls.

I went up and talked to her yesterday assuring her that we were “cool” and whenever she changes her mind to hit me up. She flirted with me. Says she likes my hair, my style , and my hands lol...

I just want to sleep with her and release this tension I have with her. At least I’m being honest.


Like seriously? Dude—? What the fuck is happening to "real love" in this world?

My Cap boss was so right. The world is so fucked up. Urghhhhhh
This dude is just ambitious. lol Also I think had the Capricorn not played with him, in the beginning, his response might have been totally different.
Anything Libra totally can kill me in the inside.

#deadinside

Its highly logical and I think it should make perfect sense.
Venus in Libra especially. They are for every women. I mean, not tryin' to be mean but come on man, why would...urgh..okay nvm.
You are not looking at the other side. I think Capricorn is the main culprit in this scenario. As I always say, Capricorns can not operate from the position of power at all times. They have to bow down to the love that a libra has to offer coz reciprocity is what Libra seeks.
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Meaning, she is just being playful here, may be at her highest but not giving in for real connection bacuase of her control issues maybe. Libra tries and tries but never feels the real connection.. he gets pissed and then he just wanna settle the score. Her mistake = dont play with a libra when he is being real.
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my reaction was to your "bow down" comment... we don't... really...do...that....
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This Capricorn says she’s attracted to me and flirts. I’m attracted to her as well. I told her I wanted her. She told me she was single at first. After I said I wanted her she said she has a “complicated” situation still going on with some guy..

I said “that’s none of my business, I still want you.”...

Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that.

After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls.

I went up and talked to her yesterday assuring her that we were “cool” and whenever she changes her mind to hit me up. She flirted with me. Says she likes my hair, my style , and my hands lol...

I just want to sleep with her and release this tension I have with her. At least I’m being honest.


Like seriously? Dude—? What the fuck is happening to "real love" in this world?

My Cap boss was so right. The world is so fucked up. Urghhhhhh
This dude is just ambitious. lol Also I think had the Capricorn not played with him, in the beginning, his response might have been totally different.
Anything Libra totally can kill me in the inside.

#deadinside

Its highly logical and I think it should make perfect sense.
Venus in Libra especially. They are for every women. I mean, not tryin' to be mean but come on man, why would...urgh..okay nvm.
You are not looking at the other side. I think Capricorn is the main culprit in this scenario. As I always say, Capricorns can not operate from the position of power at all times. They have to bow down to the love that a libra has to offer coz reciprocity is what Libra seeks.
heh..?

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Meaning, she is just being playful here, may be at her highest but not giving in for real connection bacuase of her control issues maybe. Libra tries and tries but never feels the real connection.. he gets pissed and then he just wanna settle the score. Her mistake = dont play with a libra when he is being real.
my reaction was to your "bow down" comment... we don't... really...do...that....
When i said "bow down" meaning givng in, making a compromise, looking at the big picture. Bowing down in love goes a long way.
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ok ok ... we don't respond well to bow down lol
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and, now just being curious, after releasing the tension with her the attraction is going to disappear and you can move on? you know it is not that simple as you're saying 🙂 😛
hehe maybe for him being a guy and all, it is?
he should go do some workout
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meh im not one to tell people how to live their lives although society expectations can be a great moral compass.
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looool way to go with a capricorn woman, so smooth!! 😄 😄 😄
Air signs cant stay grounded for too long as much as a Cap. They need that mental stimulation and try out those new things out there and fly with their brains having eyes on the prize at the same time. They try to make every moment large and live to its fullest potential.
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And? 😄 If he wants Capricorn woman that's not the way to go... I don't know her other placements so that might differ in her case, but usual Capricorn woman wants a man who she can trust, real solid man that she can respect. He has a girlfriend and he says he loves her, bullshit! He's anything but solid, he's just selfish... Never ever would I want a boyfriend like that I'd rather be alone. I wouldn't even want a man like that just for fun without commitment, it's just plain ridiculous, I could never respect him as a man. 😉
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looool way to go with a capricorn woman, so smooth!! 😄 😄 😄
Air signs cant stay grounded for too long as much as a Cap. They need that mental stimulation and try out those new things out there and fly with their brains having eyes on the prize at the same time. They try to make every moment large and live to its fullest potential.
And? 😄 If he wants Capricorn woman that's not the way to go... I don't know her other placements so that might differ in her case, but usual Capricorn woman wants a man who she can trust, real solid man that she can respect. He has a girlfriend and he says he loves her, bullshit! He's anything but solid, he's just selfish... Never ever would I want a boyfriend like that I'd rather be alone. I wouldn't even want a man like that just for fun without commitment, it's just plain ridiculous, I could never respect him as a man. 😉
I totally understand your point of view. I was not talking about OP but in general.As to libras are totally opposite to Caps and it does not mean libs are at fault. If only caps could look at the other side of the coin and stop playing the hot and cold games and be straightforward and open about their feelings, a Libra would behave.

Plus the OP is just venting about his inner feelings coz of how he is continuously getting played by the cap. He is officially doing nothing wrong.
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Well and there you go... You see I couldn't be such a flaky person ever 🙂 It's not a point of view it's personality trait. You either can be faithful or not, it's simple like that. I can be totally straightforward and open, but I have to know it won't be used againts me, I have to know I can trust the person and also that person is able to be honest with me. If that person is giving me signs that they're not trustworthy and flaky then your so called hot and cold games are just reactions to that instability. It's a form of protection againts people who don't understand our feelings. Maybe on a basic level air and earth signs are just not meant to be compatible... Of course between two specific people it's more complicated than that since you can draw up synastry and composite charts and you can find out you're compatible after all. Great that he's honest, and although it's only venting it's still not right, if he didn't have girlfriend then it might be more acceptable, but he's obviously sleeping around so still a big nono.
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looool way to go with a capricorn woman, so smooth!! 😄 😄 😄
Air signs cant stay grounded for too long as much as a Cap. They need that mental stimulation and try out those new things out there and fly with their brains having eyes on the prize at the same time. They try to make every moment large and live to its fullest potential.
And? 😄 If he wants Capricorn woman that's not the way to go... I don't know her other placements so that might differ in her case, but usual Capricorn woman wants a man who she can trust, real solid man that she can respect. He has a girlfriend and he says he loves her, bullshit! He's anything but solid, he's just selfish... Never ever would I want a boyfriend like that I'd rather be alone. I wouldn't even want a man like that just for fun without commitment, it's just plain ridiculous, I could never respect him as a man. 😉
I totally understand your point of view. I was not talking about OP but in general.As to libras are totally opposite to Caps and it does not mean libs are at fault. If only caps could look at the other side of the coin and stop playing the hot and cold games and be straightforward and open about their feelings, a Libra would behave.

Plus the OP is just venting about his inner feelings coz of how he is continuously getting played by the cap. He is officially doing nothing wrong.
Well and there you go... You see I couldn't be such a flaky person ever 🙂 It's not a point of view it's personality trait. You either can be faithful or not, it's simple like that. I can be totally straightforward and open, but I have to know it won't be used againts me, I have to know I can trust the person and also that person is able to be honest with me. If that person is giving me signs that they're not trustworthy and flaky then your so called hot and cold games are just reactions to that instability. It's a form of protection againts people who don't understand our feelings. Maybe on a basic level air and earth signs are just not meant to be compatible... Of course between two specific people it's more complicated than that since you can draw up synastry and composite charts and you can find out you're compatible after all. Great that he's honest, and although it's only venting it's still not right, if he didn't have girlfriend then it might be more acceptable, but he's obviously sleeping around so still a big nono.
Well and there you go... You see I couldn't be such an INSECURE person ever 🙂

" but he's obviously sleeping around so still a big nono." = Hypothetical Accusation on OP, as nowhere in the thread OP even once mentioned that he is sleeping around, in fact he said he loves his current gf but the CAP is still playing with him by showing up at places he visits frequently and is not giving in either. Which the CAP must stop doing as she already knows that the OP is in a relationship.

If only you people stop being so insecure about your own feelings and start caring for other people's feelings as well.. then things might have been very different.

Also, I don't understand where in my post have I showed the flaky behavior? if you could quote or highlight the sentence I might get a chance to explain myself.
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Actually it has nothing to do with insecurity, we are just picky people, we don't let everyone inside our lives, we are just carefull because deep down we are extremely caring, giving and loving people. We take love and people seriously. We can give you everything and even forget about our own needs if we really love you and trust you. We're just not easy peasy, it takes time and patience to get us... All I meant to say was that shady behavior is not the path to our hearts. We don't look for meaningless relationships that have no impact.

"Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that. After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls." ---> He didn't say it out loud, but it wouldn't surprise me after reading this. And he's playing games himself so what does he expect?... That she's just gonna sleep with him, because he wishes so? 😄 It's ridiculous really...

I didn't say you are flaky, I was pointing to this situation and what I meant is that this kind of behavior is flaky to me. It's fishy at least... Maybe I was raised to be faithful and good person and can't understand this. Maybe I'm not open minded enough. I just don't understand why is it so hard to commit to someone you supposedly love... When I say I love somebody I can't imagine having sex with someone else... It's just wrong no matter how you look at it. And saying otherwise doesn't change the facts...
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looool way to go with a capricorn woman, so smooth!! 😄 😄 😄
Air signs cant stay grounded for too long as much as a Cap. They need that mental stimulation and try out those new things out there and fly with their brains having eyes on the prize at the same time. They try to make every moment large and live to its fullest potential.
And? 😄 If he wants Capricorn woman that's not the way to go... I don't know her other placements so that might differ in her case, but usual Capricorn woman wants a man who she can trust, real solid man that she can respect. He has a girlfriend and he says he loves her, bullshit! He's anything but solid, he's just selfish... Never ever would I want a boyfriend like that I'd rather be alone. I wouldn't even want a man like that just for fun without commitment, it's just plain ridiculous, I could never respect him as a man. 😉
I totally understand your point of view. I was not talking about OP but in general.As to libras are totally opposite to Caps and it does not mean libs are at fault. If only caps could look at the other side of the coin and stop playing the hot and cold games and be straightforward and open about their feelings, a Libra would behave.

Plus the OP is just venting about his inner feelings coz of how he is continuously getting played by the cap. He is officially doing nothing wrong.
Well and there you go... You see I couldn't be such a flaky person ever 🙂 It's not a point of view it's personality trait. You either can be faithful or not, it's simple like that. I can be totally straightforward and open, but I have to know it won't be used againts me, I have to know I can trust the person and also that person is able to be honest with me. If that person is giving me signs that they're not trustworthy and flaky then your so called hot and cold games are just reactions to that instability. It's a form of protection againts people who don't understand our feelings. Maybe on a basic level air and earth signs are just not meant to be compatible... Of course between two specific people it's more complicated than that since you can draw up synastry and composite charts and you can find out you're compatible after all. Great that he's honest, and although it's only venting it's still not right, if he didn't have girlfriend then it might be more acceptable, but he's obviously sleeping around so still a big nono.
Well and there you go... You see I couldn't be such an INSECURE person ever 🙂

" but he's obviously sleeping around so still a big nono." = Hypothetical Accusation on OP, as nowhere in the thread OP even once mentioned that he is sleeping around, in fact he said he loves his current gf but the CAP is still playing with him by showing up at places he visits frequently and is not giving in either. Which the CAP must stop doing as she already knows that the OP is in a relationship.

If only you people stop being so insecure about your own feelings and start caring for other people's feelings as well.. then things might have been very different.

Also, I don't understand where in my post have I showed the flaky behavior? if you could quote or highlight the sentence I might get a chance to explain myself.
Actually it has nothing to do with insecurity, we are just picky people, we don't let everyone inside our lives, we are just carefull because deep down we are extremely caring, giving and loving people. We take love and people seriously. We can give you everything and even forget about our own needs if we really love you and trust you. We're just not easy peasy, it takes time and patience to get us... All I meant to say was that shady behavior is not the path to our hearts. We don't look for meaningless relationships that have no impact.

"Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that. After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls." ---> He didn't say it out loud, but it wouldn't surprise me after reading this. And he's playing games himself so what does he expect?... That she's just gonna sleep with him, because he wishes so? 😄 It's ridiculous really...

I didn't say you are flaky, I was pointing to this situation and what I meant is that this kind of behavior is flaky to me. It's fishy at least... Maybe I was raised to be faithful and good person and can't understand this. Maybe I'm not open minded enough. I just don't understand why is it so hard to commit to someone you supposedly love... When I say I love somebody I can't imagine having sex with someone else... It's just wrong no matter how you look at it. And saying otherwise doesn't change the facts...
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Look, it’s not ideal. I am faithful with my heart. I take good care of my girlfriend and she is good to me. I guess I’m just one of those guys who need physical stimulation from multiple sources. My heart is only big enough for one woman though.

The first thing this cap girl said to me was, “I saw you with some girl.” She knew what she would be getting herself into, still she continued to flirt.

Asking me about my work, family, where I live. I’m an open libra and all, but I still have a scorpio moon lol.

She wants to do the whole getting to know each other thing, and that’s cool and all but not what I’m looking for. She’s so sexy though, the things I’d do to her if she’d just let me lead.
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looool way to go with a capricorn woman, so smooth!! 😄 😄 😄
Air signs cant stay grounded for too long as much as a Cap. They need that mental stimulation and try out those new things out there and fly with their brains having eyes on the prize at the same time. They try to make every moment large and live to its fullest potential.
And? 😄 If he wants Capricorn woman that's not the way to go... I don't know her other placements so that might differ in her case, but usual Capricorn woman wants a man who she can trust, real solid man that she can respect. He has a girlfriend and he says he loves her, bullshit! He's anything but solid, he's just selfish... Never ever would I want a boyfriend like that I'd rather be alone. I wouldn't even want a man like that just for fun without commitment, it's just plain ridiculous, I could never respect him as a man. 😉
I totally understand your point of view. I was not talking about OP but in general.As to libras are totally opposite to Caps and it does not mean libs are at fault. If only caps could look at the other side of the coin and stop playing the hot and cold games and be straightforward and open about their feelings, a Libra would behave.

Plus the OP is just venting about his inner feelings coz of how he is continuously getting played by the cap. He is officially doing nothing wrong.
Well and there you go... You see I couldn't be such a flaky person ever 🙂 It's not a point of view it's personality trait. You either can be faithful or not, it's simple like that. I can be totally straightforward and open, but I have to know it won't be used againts me, I have to know I can trust the person and also that person is able to be honest with me. If that person is giving me signs that they're not trustworthy and flaky then your so called hot and cold games are just reactions to that instability. It's a form of protection againts people who don't understand our feelings. Maybe on a basic level air and earth signs are just not meant to be compatible... Of course between two specific people it's more complicated than that since you can draw up synastry and composite charts and you can find out you're compatible after all. Great that he's honest, and although it's only venting it's still not right, if he didn't have girlfriend then it might be more acceptable, but he's obviously sleeping around so still a big nono.
Well and there you go... You see I couldn't be such an INSECURE person ever 🙂

" but he's obviously sleeping around so still a big nono." = Hypothetical Accusation on OP, as nowhere in the thread OP even once mentioned that he is sleeping around, in fact he said he loves his current gf but the CAP is still playing with him by showing up at places he visits frequently and is not giving in either. Which the CAP must stop doing as she already knows that the OP is in a relationship.

If only you people stop being so insecure about your own feelings and start caring for other people's feelings as well.. then things might have been very different.

Also, I don't understand where in my post have I showed the flaky behavior? if you could quote or highlight the sentence I might get a chance to explain myself.
Actually it has nothing to do with insecurity, we are just picky people, we don't let everyone inside our lives, we are just carefull because deep down we are extremely caring, giving and loving people. We take love and people seriously. We can give you everything and even forget about our own needs if we really love you and trust you. We're just not easy peasy, it takes time and patience to get us... All I meant to say was that shady behavior is not the path to our hearts. We don't look for meaningless relationships that have no impact.

"Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that. After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls." ---> He didn't say it out loud, but it wouldn't surprise me after reading this. And he's playing games himself so what does he expect?... That she's just gonna sleep with him, because he wishes so? 😄 It's ridiculous really...

I didn't say you are flaky, I was pointing to this situation and what I meant is that this kind of behavior is flaky to me. It's fishy at least... Maybe I was raised to be faithful and good person and can't understand this. Maybe I'm not open minded enough. I just don't understand why is it so hard to commit to someone you supposedly love... When I say I love somebody I can't imagine having sex with someone else... It's just wrong no matter how you look at it. And saying otherwise doesn't change the facts...
Lol, You must be a traditional conservative girl and so are your thoughts. But they are highly one sided and does not take into consideration the other side of the same coin. Because of this, you can not project your traditional, conservative thoughts as FACTS and judge people. It wont stand for long. Plus I am also starting to think that Caps are not only INSECURE but SELFISH too.

In OP's main post, the Capricorn got exacly what she deserved. Hope she realizes her part of the mistake soon or else a good real life experience might set her up straight.
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The truth is you don't know anything about me 🙂 I might not be as conservative as you think... I just have morals and like to treat others fairly. It's okay though I don't really care what you think about me. I'm sorry if I hurt your ego by saying my opinion. You seem not able to accept that somebody just doesn't agree with you, and have a need to attack me personally although I didn't say anything bad about you... Sorry doesn't work on me. I see the other side of coin perfectly clearly, still don't have to like it. If it's reasonable I don't have a problem accepting different opinion, can't say that wanting to cheat on your gf with someone else is reasonable... Anyway I'm done, I said everything I wanted. Have a nice life!
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looool way to go with a capricorn woman, so smooth!! 😄 😄 😄
Air signs cant stay grounded for too long as much as a Cap. They need that mental stimulation and try out those new things out there and fly with their brains having eyes on the prize at the same time. They try to make every moment large and live to its fullest potential.
And? 😄 If he wants Capricorn woman that's not the way to go... I don't know her other placements so that might differ in her case, but usual Capricorn woman wants a man who she can trust, real solid man that she can respect. He has a girlfriend and he says he loves her, bullshit! He's anything but solid, he's just selfish... Never ever would I want a boyfriend like that I'd rather be alone. I wouldn't even want a man like that just for fun without commitment, it's just plain ridiculous, I could never respect him as a man. 😉
I totally understand your point of view. I was not talking about OP but in general.As to libras are totally opposite to Caps and it does not mean libs are at fault. If only caps could look at the other side of the coin and stop playing the hot and cold games and be straightforward and open about their feelings, a Libra would behave.

Plus the OP is just venting about his inner feelings coz of how he is continuously getting played by the cap. He is officially doing nothing wrong.
Well and there you go... You see I couldn't be such a flaky person ever 🙂 It's not a point of view it's personality trait. You either can be faithful or not, it's simple like that. I can be totally straightforward and open, but I have to know it won't be used againts me, I have to know I can trust the person and also that person is able to be honest with me. If that person is giving me signs that they're not trustworthy and flaky then your so called hot and cold games are just reactions to that instability. It's a form of protection againts people who don't understand our feelings. Maybe on a basic level air and earth signs are just not meant to be compatible... Of course between two specific people it's more complicated than that since you can draw up synastry and composite charts and you can find out you're compatible after all. Great that he's honest, and although it's only venting it's still not right, if he didn't have girlfriend then it might be more acceptable, but he's obviously sleeping around so still a big nono.
Well and there you go... You see I couldn't be such an INSECURE person ever 🙂

" but he's obviously sleeping around so still a big nono." = Hypothetical Accusation on OP, as nowhere in the thread OP even once mentioned that he is sleeping around, in fact he said he loves his current gf but the CAP is still playing with him by showing up at places he visits frequently and is not giving in either. Which the CAP must stop doing as she already knows that the OP is in a relationship.

If only you people stop being so insecure about your own feelings and start caring for other people's feelings as well.. then things might have been very different.

Also, I don't understand where in my post have I showed the flaky behavior? if you could quote or highlight the sentence I might get a chance to explain myself.
Actually it has nothing to do with insecurity, we are just picky people, we don't let everyone inside our lives, we are just carefull because deep down we are extremely caring, giving and loving people. We take love and people seriously. We can give you everything and even forget about our own needs if we really love you and trust you. We're just not easy peasy, it takes time and patience to get us... All I meant to say was that shady behavior is not the path to our hearts. We don't look for meaningless relationships that have no impact.

"Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that. After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls." ---> He didn't say it out loud, but it wouldn't surprise me after reading this. And he's playing games himself so what does he expect?... That she's just gonna sleep with him, because he wishes so? 😄 It's ridiculous really...

I didn't say you are flaky, I was pointing to this situation and what I meant is that this kind of behavior is flaky to me. It's fishy at least... Maybe I was raised to be faithful and good person and can't understand this. Maybe I'm not open minded enough. I just don't understand why is it so hard to commit to someone you supposedly love... When I say I love somebody I can't imagine having sex with someone else... It's just wrong no matter how you look at it. And saying otherwise doesn't change the facts...
Look, it’s not ideal. I am faithful with my heart. I take good care of my girlfriend and she is good to me. I guess I’m just one of those guys who need physical stimulation from multiple sources. My heart is only big enough for one woman though.

The first thing this cap girl said to me was, “I saw you with some girl.” She knew what she would be getting herself into, still she continued to flirt.

Asking me about my work, family, where I live. I’m an open libra and all, but I still have a scorpio moon lol.

She wants to do the whole getting to know each other thing, and that’s cool and all but not what I’m looking for. She’s so sexy though, the things I’d do to her if she’d just let me lead.

You're downgrading from an Aries to a Cap ( no offense to caps ) they r just not for Libras not as an Aries is. Man tf up and keep that thing inside.
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No offence taken everybody has preference there's nothing wrong with it. 🙂
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Posted by Awesomeyo
Posted by Baru
looool way to go with a capricorn woman, so smooth!! 😄 😄 😄
Air signs cant stay grounded for too long as much as a Cap. They need that mental stimulation and try out those new things out there and fly with their brains having eyes on the prize at the same time. They try to make every moment large and live to its fullest potential.
And? 😄 If he wants Capricorn woman that's not the way to go... I don't know her other placements so that might differ in her case, but usual Capricorn woman wants a man who she can trust, real solid man that she can respect. He has a girlfriend and he says he loves her, bullshit! He's anything but solid, he's just selfish... Never ever would I want a boyfriend like that I'd rather be alone. I wouldn't even want a man like that just for fun without commitment, it's just plain ridiculous, I could never respect him as a man. 😉
I totally understand your point of view. I was not talking about OP but in general.As to libras are totally opposite to Caps and it does not mean libs are at fault. If only caps could look at the other side of the coin and stop playing the hot and cold games and be straightforward and open about their feelings, a Libra would behave.

Plus the OP is just venting about his inner feelings coz of how he is continuously getting played by the cap. He is officially doing nothing wrong.
Well and there you go... You see I couldn't be such a flaky person ever 🙂 It's not a point of view it's personality trait. You either can be faithful or not, it's simple like that. I can be totally straightforward and open, but I have to know it won't be used againts me, I have to know I can trust the person and also that person is able to be honest with me. If that person is giving me signs that they're not trustworthy and flaky then your so called hot and cold games are just reactions to that instability. It's a form of protection againts people who don't understand our feelings. Maybe on a basic level air and earth signs are just not meant to be compatible... Of course between two specific people it's more complicated than that since you can draw up synastry and composite charts and you can find out you're compatible after all. Great that he's honest, and although it's only venting it's still not right, if he didn't have girlfriend then it might be more acceptable, but he's obviously sleeping around so still a big nono.
Well and there you go... You see I couldn't be such an INSECURE person ever 🙂

" but he's obviously sleeping around so still a big nono." = Hypothetical Accusation on OP, as nowhere in the thread OP even once mentioned that he is sleeping around, in fact he said he loves his current gf but the CAP is still playing with him by showing up at places he visits frequently and is not giving in either. Which the CAP must stop doing as she already knows that the OP is in a relationship.

If only you people stop being so insecure about your own feelings and start caring for other people's feelings as well.. then things might have been very different.

Also, I don't understand where in my post have I showed the flaky behavior? if you could quote or highlight the sentence I might get a chance to explain myself.
Actually it has nothing to do with insecurity, we are just picky people, we don't let everyone inside our lives, we are just carefull because deep down we are extremely caring, giving and loving people. We take love and people seriously. We can give you everything and even forget about our own needs if we really love you and trust you. We're just not easy peasy, it takes time and patience to get us... All I meant to say was that shady behavior is not the path to our hearts. We don't look for meaningless relationships that have no impact.

"Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that. After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls." ---> He didn't say it out loud, but it wouldn't surprise me after reading this. And he's playing games himself so what does he expect?... That she's just gonna sleep with him, because he wishes so? 😄 It's ridiculous really...

I didn't say you are flaky, I was pointing to this situation and what I meant is that this kind of behavior is flaky to me. It's fishy at least... Maybe I was raised to be faithful and good person and can't understand this. Maybe I'm not open minded enough. I just don't understand why is it so hard to commit to someone you supposedly love... When I say I love somebody I can't imagine having sex with someone else... It's just wrong no matter how you look at it. And saying otherwise doesn't change the facts...
Look, it’s not ideal. I am faithful with my heart. I take good care of my girlfriend and she is good to me. I guess I’m just one of those guys who need physical stimulation from multiple sources. My heart is only big enough for one woman though.

The first thing this cap girl said to me was, “I saw you with some girl.” She knew what she would be getting herself into, still she continued to flirt.

Asking me about my work, family, where I live. I’m an open libra and all, but I still have a scorpio moon lol.

She wants to do the whole getting to know each other thing, and that’s cool and all but not what I’m looking for. She’s so sexy though, the things I’d do to her if she’d just let me lead.

You're downgrading from an Aries to a Cap ( no offense to caps ) they r just not for Libras not as an Aries is. Man tf up and keep that thing inside.
No offence taken everybody has preference there's nothing wrong with it. 🙂

Thank you for understanding and I'm gonna blame it on PMS .again I shouldn't have said that. All peace and love 💟
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Ahaha you're cute ❤ don't worry about it anymore. 😊
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This Capricorn says she’s attracted to me and flirts. I’m attracted to her as well. I told her I wanted her. She told me she was single at first. After I said I wanted her she said she has a “complicated” situation still going on with some guy..

I said “that’s none of my business, I still want you.”...

Granted, I’m in a relationship and I love my girlfriend but I’d like to have sex with this Capricorn. I don’t usually get turned down and she knows that.

After a couple weeks I see her frequenting places I hang out and she sees me with other girls.

I went up and talked to her yesterday assuring her that we were “cool” and whenever she changes her mind to hit me up. She flirted with me. Says she likes my hair, my style , and my hands lol...

I just want to sleep with her and release this tension I have with her. At least I’m being honest.


Capricorns tend to forget that their actions have EQUAL and OPPOSITE reactions brother. Everything changes when you give them the taste of their own. You know exactly what I mean.

A capricorn was driving me crazy too.. But then i turned the tables... I am the one who drives her crazy.
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okkk now im listening hahaha