Quick back story, I've known this cap man for a few years and weve always been flirty with one another like highschool kids with a secret crush. Hes 43, I'm 29. We began hanging out and eventually it led to some of the best sex I've ever had. The…
There is a back story to all of this, but I'm trying to keep it brief. I guess my question is this: Would a Capricorn man conceive of a child with a woman that he didn't love? He said he's "interested and happy to give me an heir." I really need a…
So there's this guy I really like and when we met he was having problems with his gf at the time and broke up with her. We talked for a week and he decided to go back and try to make things work with her and dropped all contact with me but by that point…
I recently started dating a Capricorn. When we're alone he is quiet, doesn't talk much about himself so I do most of the talking. However, when we're out with his friends he is very chatty, but he talks to his friends without even looking at me.…
Oh boy I wish somebody would've told me years ago how alluring a Capricorn man can be. Here's some background... Met a Cap (clearly I'm a Taurus) and the connection we had was outstanding when we first met. Common interest, such a motivator to me…
How to make a controlling narcissist capricorn boyfriend suffer the breakup and my…
1 year ago I met a Cap guy. Im a pisces female. We liked each other and started dating. After 1 month he said lets just be friends. I was crushed of course. He meant what he said , lets just be friends. But he continued to hang out with me every week…
What does it take for you to admit feelings? I dont even mean I LOVE YOU. I mean just feelings. How to get you to open up? IF you are still talking to someone after 2 years, is it safe to assume you like them. How do you show care for…
Facts or Fiction? I hear Capricorn males especially have a penchant for drinking............ and apparently, whiskey and hikes in the country are a way to Capricorn males…
I reconnected with a Cap man that I’ve known for about 9 years (he's 9 years older too), almost a month ago. Last August we stopped talking and I finally built up the courage to send him an apology, we’ve been talking since. Late spring 2016 there was a change in him – he went from being super snarky to me (which how our friendship was lol) to actually paying a few compliments, trying to hang out. I never imagined he would like me in that way, so I never told him I had been seeing someone (he was just a friend, why would I). I knew telling him the truth straight up would hurt him, and make him angry – not to mention end our friendship, so I tried avoiding his advances (I’m a Pisces, it’s what we do). He finally blew up at me in August, and I wasn’t “able” to respond....
He’s a Cap Sun, Scorp Moon, Sag Mercury, Scorp Venus and Cap Mars – I am fully aware that he’s going to be a bitch to me for awhile, which he has been. What I need advice on:
I kind of feel like his perceived indifference from me (because I was dating someone and not a cheater lol) attracted him to me last Spring (we did hook up just once, early Dec 2015, and then things went back to 'normal'). We never talked a ton, we would talk more during Game of Thrones because we both like the show – but that would dwindle once it ended. I never paid him any compliments, we argued a bunch, always teasing each other (very sarcastic), sometimes I would yell at him for being too bitchy, too pessimistic, etc. He’s a smart guy who has opinions and doesn’t kiss my ass – I like him, always have, I enjoy talking to him.
Point is – I don’t want to waste time on a man who is ‘ONLY’ interested in me, because I seem indifferent. Who’s to say he won’t lose interest once he’s won me over, and I don’t have time for games. However, if it’s just a time thing and once he trusts me again it will be cool – I can feign some mild indifference to win him over.
I seem to attract a lot of men with Scorpio moons, and they all seem to have problems getting over me lol… But I’m not a heartless man eater – I’m a squishy Pisces with a Virgo moon and do worry... A LOT.
He’s been a raging dick-whistle to me lately… Very mean and critical. I am doing my best to be understanding of his hurt feelings and bite my tongue – but I do not tolerate disrespect, and he’s been pushing me to my limit. How long will his 'punishment' last— I’ve mini snapped at him a few times, he knows I have a short fuse – and I feel like he’s purposely pushing my buttons. It almost seems like he doesn’t like me, so I won’t message him – but then he message me instead. I don’t even need him to like me romantically, but he’s not even acting like a friend.
So to summarize: How long do I need to be patient with him, and is it even worth it – will he come around? Or am I better off just calling him out on his BS and moving on…? I really like this idiot, but I know my own feelings could be clouding my judgment.
Thanks for reading!