james tate
@james tate
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Serendipity I think it may be a combination of boredom and serious issues with committement. Idk. When I think relationships I think of limits and weight. I also think of missing out on something being involved in one. Maybe its the Sag cusp thing? I'll probably end up alone too. By the time I do figure out what i wany it'll probably be much too late.
I think every sign has their own issues.
I think every sign has their own issues.
I love harder then most I don't have commitment issues as long as i'm right with myself. As far as breakups go people tend to make the mistake of there life somehow im included after the dust settles i'm gone.
Ehh... Yes, when i committ im all in. I dont give up easily if its going south.
I leave no stone unturned and if it still seems like there isnt enough change or compromise or whatever i need/he needs to continue... I will walk away.
I'll fall out of love and it will hurt me a lot when i do.
I mean... 3 major relationships... So far Ive loved and left, but its never the plan.
I leave no stone unturned and if it still seems like there isnt enough change or compromise or whatever i need/he needs to continue... I will walk away.
I'll fall out of love and it will hurt me a lot when i do.
I mean... 3 major relationships... So far Ive loved and left, but its never the plan.
Posted by SerendibitePosted by lnana04
Serendipity I think it may be a combination of boredom and serious issues with committement. Idk. When I think relationships I think of limits and weight. I also think of missing out on something being involved in one. Maybe its the Sag cusp thing? I'll probably end up alone too. By the time I do figure out what i wany it'll probably be much too late.
I think every sign has their own issues.
You're a capricorn/sagittarius cusp? Then maybe it's your need of freedom and change..
I don't think i have commitment issues.. I NEED a partner(Libra moon) but somehow, at some point, I just tend to mess up things and pull back from everything.
ps: It's not Serendipity but Serendibite.. a gemstone 🙂click to expand
Got it!@ the name.
Yep. I'm a Dec 23rd Cappie, so im a cuspy. I have as Libra Mars too, so I wonder if that makes it harder to figure out what I want?! Who knows. For me its committement issues all across the board though. Not just relationships.
Do you think its fear that causes you to pull back?
I HAD NO OPINION EITHIER JUST SLIPPED ON WET SHEET OF BOREDEM AND LANDED HERE.
-Trots off-
-Trots off-
I never even noticed Tate typed in all Caps lol.
CAPS FOR CAPS
I AM WOUNDERING IS IT IN SOME CASES A MATTER OF INTELLIGENTS? I FIND I CAN ONLY LISTEN TO SOMEONE GO ON FOR A SHORT TIME IF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT SOME OF THE HUM DRUM THINGS THAT HAPPEN IN DAY TO DAY LIFE. YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT astrophysics i am there. change the subject to what colour your finger nails should be and i amd not even in the same room. LETS TALK ASTRONOMY THEY WANT TO TALK ABOUT HAIR COLOUR. I JUST CAN'T DO IT AFTER THE SEX WEARS OFF I GOT TO GO.
I AM WOUNDERING IS IT IN SOME CASES A MATTER OF INTELLIGENTS? I FIND I CAN ONLY LISTEN TO SOMEONE GO ON FOR A SHORT TIME IF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT SOME OF THE HUM DRUM THINGS THAT HAPPEN IN DAY TO DAY LIFE. YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT astrophysics i am there. change the subject to what colour your finger nails should be and i amd not even in the same room. LETS TALK ASTRONOMY THEY WANT TO TALK ABOUT HAIR COLOUR. I JUST CAN'T DO IT AFTER THE SEX WEARS OFF I GOT TO GO.
Posted by Serendibite
Fear? i don't know..
I'll explain it as i feel it: Let's say that, for me, relationships were like being on a hot air balloon with someone.
At first everything was all right. We were floating, I would feel when he's dreaming and I would make those dreams embrace my reality. I would intercept every movement like it was directed towards me. I would think that every glance holds a magic spark. I would dig into his soul to extremes to know what he thinks of me, the air around, the earth below and the infinite sky above.
I will hold his hand and look to the farthest place with hope.
Then, when i would finally see clear into his mind i would slowly figure out that the sparks on his eyes were just reflections of the sun, that he made most of the movements to find a more comfortable posture. The sparkly glances weren't because he sees my dreams and he didn't move to block the wind hurting my eyes.
I would then set his hand free, rearrange my thoughts and hopes and jump off the balloon. Leaving a part of me and halves of my broken hopes and carrying the other halves, obsolete and heavy, with me.
( well.. yes i have issues 😄 )
Hoorah.
Posted by Serendibite
Fear? i don't know..
I'll explain it as i feel it: Let's say that, for me, relationships were like being on a hot air balloon with someone.
At first everything was all right. We were floating, I would feel when he's dreaming and I would make those dreams embrace my reality. I would intercept every movement like it was directed towards me. I would think that every glance holds a magic spark. I would dig into his soul to extremes to know what he thinks of me, the air around, the earth below and the infinite sky above.
I will hold his hand and look to the farthest place with hope.
Then, when i would finally see clear into his mind i would slowly figure out that the sparks on his eyes were just reflections of the sun, that he made most of the movements to find a more comfortable posture. The sparkly glances weren't because he sees my dreams and he didn't move to block the wind hurting my eyes.
I would then set his hand free, rearrange my thoughts and hopes and jump off the balloon. Leaving a part of me and halves of my broken hopes and carrying the other halves, obsolete and heavy, with me.
( well.. yes i have issues 😄 )
I think I get an idea of what you are saying. Almost as if you realize someone isn't as capable of completely merging or being as invested as you are?
Posted by ellessquePosted by james tate
CAPS FOR CAPS
I AM WOUNDERING IS IT IN SOME CASES A MATTER OF INTELLIGENTS? I FIND I CAN ONLY LISTEN TO SOMEONE GO ON FOR A SHORT TIME IF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT SOME OF THE HUM DRUM THINGS THAT HAPPEN IN DAY TO DAY LIFE. YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT astrophysics i am there. change the subject to what colour your finger nails should be and i amd not even in the same room. LETS TALK ASTRONOMY THEY WANT TO TALK ABOUT HAIR COLOUR. I JUST CAN'T DO IT AFTER THE SEX WEARS OFF I GOT TO GO.
you can avoid that in the beginning by not being polite about it upfront.
if you don't want to hear that shit, you say so as soon as it happens. that immediately weeds out the *blah blah blah* crap. sure, it might hurt someones feelings, but who gives a fuck? you'd eventually weed them out anyways. why make either of you suffer?click to expand
Comunnication I rarely dislike something if I do that means I let it get to a point where it frustrates. Hadn't happended since I told emotions to shut the fuck up. There are categories that everyone is placed in. Dumbassness, nonchalance, irrelavant, talks to much I rarely pay attention to folks if I put them a category of dumbassness how dumb would I be listening over and over on repeat. There's paying attention or talking to them as they are simply science projects thats...about it. Ever heard someone speak shit you already know.......this is where you checkmark it into hes rambling I know this or you nod and agree. At the end of the day Tater-Snot speak your mind. Id make sure I was speaking to someone who cares unless for some odd reason you just have to let that person no how you judge or feel about them.
Btw you cant avoid shit because some fagits are blind seeing in the first place. -.-
Last but not least if your bored theres always a exit sign standing above you or you can take part in changing what your bored about complaing about it while not fixing it....sounds boring. This is if thats what you do.
if your hearts no longer in it way stay?
if i love you im in it .i will put in effort til im drained i go extremes but if you cross me in some way im out
if i love you im in it .i will put in effort til im drained i go extremes but if you cross me in some way im out
Aww shux. Its snapping out of lala land and into the reality of it.
may be i stuck a dick in her mouth she would seem smarter
Ski mask oh gosh.
Serendibite,
No, I don't think it sounds like fear. What I heard you say is that in your relationships you start out seeing what you want to see and as time goes on your pleasant self-delusion is replaced by the cold-hard facts of reality that then compel you to act as you know you must. Reality is an issue with which we all must learn to cope 🙂
No, I don't think it sounds like fear. What I heard you say is that in your relationships you start out seeing what you want to see and as time goes on your pleasant self-delusion is replaced by the cold-hard facts of reality that then compel you to act as you know you must. Reality is an issue with which we all must learn to cope 🙂
Good God with all the shouting. No cookies! Not a damned one! *gathering skirts and sailing off*
why is everyone YELLING at me
Posted by SerendibitePosted by lnana04
I think I get an idea of what you are saying. Almost as if you realize someone isn't as capable of completely merging or being as invested as you are?
That + what StoicGoat said.
Posted by StoicGoat
Serendibite,
No, I don't think it sounds like fear. What I heard you say is that in your relationships you start out seeing what you want to see and as time goes on your pleasant self-delusion is replaced by the cold-hard facts of reality that then compel you to act as you know you must. Reality is an issue with which we all must learn to cope 🙂
Very true, that's what i meant 🙂
I guess i'm somehow immature, when it comes to relationships. Long way to goclick to expand
gawd do i know these feelings...
woundedleo are you woundedbirds sister?
I AM TORN I LOVE SEX I AM PROBABLOY A SEX AHOLACIC
HEAD DOING A 30% EXTERNAL ROTATION AS A BIRD WALKS BY
I LOVE THE WAY THE SHORTS ARE SHORT ENOUGH TO SHOW THE BOTTOM OF THE BUTT.
WHERE WAS I OH YES I LOVE SEX BUT I ALSO NEED A WOMAN WHO CAN UNDERSTAND THINGS I AM WORKING ON AS A HOBBY ASTRO-PHYSICS
THE MATH BEHIND THE THEORY SOMEONE WHO HAS THE ABILITY OF ABSTRACT THOUGHT WHO CAN GRASP A HYPOTHESIS HAS A SYSTEMATIC VIEW OF A EQUATION.
OR SOME ONE WHO FUCKS MY EYEBALLS OUT AND LEAVES ME ALONE WHILE I MESS WITH THE EQUATIONS.
I AM TORN I LOVE SEX I AM PROBABLOY A SEX AHOLACIC
HEAD DOING A 30% EXTERNAL ROTATION AS A BIRD WALKS BY
I LOVE THE WAY THE SHORTS ARE SHORT ENOUGH TO SHOW THE BOTTOM OF THE BUTT.
WHERE WAS I OH YES I LOVE SEX BUT I ALSO NEED A WOMAN WHO CAN UNDERSTAND THINGS I AM WORKING ON AS A HOBBY ASTRO-PHYSICS
THE MATH BEHIND THE THEORY SOMEONE WHO HAS THE ABILITY OF ABSTRACT THOUGHT WHO CAN GRASP A HYPOTHESIS HAS A SYSTEMATIC VIEW OF A EQUATION.
OR SOME ONE WHO FUCKS MY EYEBALLS OUT AND LEAVES ME ALONE WHILE I MESS WITH THE EQUATIONS.
I'm attracted to guys who are covertly intelligent. If we talk about theories, research, blah blah blah on our first date, sorry I will not be calling your or returning your call. Ish* I may not even make it though the date. I may just bounce. *SMH*
Posted by james tate
CAPS FOR CAPS
None of you shits are CAPS EXCEPT ELLE STOP TYPING IN CAPITALIZED LETTERS VB GIVE ME A COOKIE.
NO ONE BUT TIGER WOODS WANTS SEX 50 TIMES A DAY 25 IS GOOD FOR MOST OF US.
I SPENT 1/2 HOUR LAYING SOMETHING OUT AND THIS MOTHERFUCKING SITE DID NOT TAKE IT FUCK THIS SITE I AM DONE.
Pms are messing up as well Duncan is smoking something long and annoying.
Posted by MPosted by venusianbull
Good God with all the shouting. No cookies! Not a damned one! *gathering skirts and sailing off*
There were cookies?
*sails off in pursuit*click to expand
😄 Give one to Article, or he'll pout.
Yes. 🙂
Posted by james tate
WHERE WAS I OH YES I LOVE SEX BUT I ALSO NEED A WOMAN WHO CAN UNDERSTAND THINGS I AM WORKING ON AS A HOBBY ASTRO-PHYSICS
THE MATH BEHIND THE THEORY SOMEONE WHO HAS THE ABILITY OF ABSTRACT THOUGHT WHO CAN GRASP A HYPOTHESIS HAS A SYSTEMATIC VIEW OF A EQUATION.
JAMS TAT YOU ARE TO PRETENCIOUS TO TALK ABOOT LIEKiNG ASTRO PHYSIC. I KNW SOMEONE INTO QUANTUM PHYSIC THEY ARE BETTER. BUT THEY TOO YOUNG FOR YOU.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
*smh*
🙂
You can't make cookies for just one. Tears will ensue. Have to be fair. 😛 🙂
😄
Posted by everevolvingepithet
No need to shout, you'll take the roof off!!
roof of your head?!
*can't hear nothing✨
Posted by everevolvingepithet
*shimmys wing a bit*
James Brown move? Or is that a patented Morris Day? Haha, right. Original with slaw and mashed.
LOL!! No Maypole ribbons then? Well, it IS August. Whilst you are perched on high, try to cut down on your berry intake; it stains.
Posted by MPosted by venusianbullPosted by MPosted by venusianbull
Good God with all the shouting. No cookies! Not a damned one! *gathering skirts and sailing off*
There were cookies?
*sails off in pursuit*
😄 Give one to Article, or he'll pout.
I've licked them all. If he still wants one he can have it :p
*Not the ones with m&ms in them though*click to expand
EEHEHEHEHEHEEHE 😈
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by MPosted by venusianbull
LOL!! No Maypole ribbons then? Well, it IS August. Whilst you are perched on high, try to cut down on your berry intake; it stains.
Haha. Watch his aim :p
🙂)
Hmmm. :-?click to expand
My best t-shirt Bling. My. Best. One. 😛
Wow a sexually relationship and it only last 3 months?
Posted by capgirl75
Yes, I am that way too. In a new relationship, I give 100% . But if something turns me off, then I will just walk away, because once I see it's not going to work out, I see no point in continuing. A friend of mine just said to me last week, "your relationships may only last 3 months, but it's an intense 3 months." lol.
l back alot also. He job has him busy certain times of the year.=Posted by SerendibitePosted by lnana04
Serendipity I think it may be a combination of boredom and serious issues with committement. Idk. When I think relationships I think of limits and weight. I also think of missing out on something being involved in one. Maybe its the Sag cusp thing? I'll probably end up alone too. By the time I do figure out what i wany it'll probably be much too late.
I think every sign has their own issues.
You're a capricorn/sagittarius cusp? Then maybe it's your need of freedom and change..
I don't think i have commitment issues.. I NEED a partner(Libra moon) but somehow, at some point, I just tend to mess up things and pull back from everything.
ps: It's not Serendipity but Serendibite.. a gemstone 🙂click to expand
FUCK WENT AWAY FOR THREE DAYS THE AMERCANS DON'T WORK ON LABOR I FOUND OUT IF I RAN THAT COUNTRY THEY WOULD HAVE TO WORK 16 HOURS ON LABOR DAY. ARE THEY COULD SPEND 16 HOURS FUCKING AND SUCKING.
Thats what days off are for, Tate!!!
p:
p:
I spent part of last week alone I had thoughts of never comeing back here. But woundedleo and Spica have me believing that their is women out there that can help me.
I have been thinking about a theory that matter in the universe is highly clustered. According to the standard model the universe has an even distribution of matter. Irrespective of the viewing direction. Bottom line if this is true (clustered matter)our description of space and time is wrong. Our understanding of things like dark matter and dark energy is deeply flawed. Are we using the right tools for the task?You lookat the universe up to 350 million light years clustered.. Beyound 350 million light years up to 930 million light years looking at how the wigglez galaxies are distributed no larg scale clusters.So some say the standard theory is right but what is it like beyound 930 million light years? All this going on and I am still working on a way to detect antimatter. So anyone one got a idea as to where we go from here?
or should we just all forget about everything and just have a lot of sex? You know I talk about things like this during sex.
I have been thinking about a theory that matter in the universe is highly clustered. According to the standard model the universe has an even distribution of matter. Irrespective of the viewing direction. Bottom line if this is true (clustered matter)our description of space and time is wrong. Our understanding of things like dark matter and dark energy is deeply flawed. Are we using the right tools for the task?You lookat the universe up to 350 million light years clustered.. Beyound 350 million light years up to 930 million light years looking at how the wigglez galaxies are distributed no larg scale clusters.So some say the standard theory is right but what is it like beyound 930 million light years? All this going on and I am still working on a way to detect antimatter. So anyone one got a idea as to where we go from here?
or should we just all forget about everything and just have a lot of sex? You know I talk about things like this during sex.
I'M talking about the things above and she saying not so deep I loose my train of thought at times.
LOL
We definitely love, but also love what we want. Meaning if we see things ( and yes we are keeping score ) we don't like continuously happening we will leave like that. It may seem like a quick departure, but usually its something we've been sitting on for a minute or two (in our minds)
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