Moon in Capricorn please help!

hello, i decided to post my situation here in this cap column as i think my guy is more like a cap than a sag... and has that venus scorpio in him...

basically... long story short..we are exclusive..7 months. hes not seeing anyway..

His moon makes him insecure and it makes him play a bit of game and testing on his part...

he's my bestfriend and lover..

when i mentioned to him that if i am single when i'm 35 ..i wanna have a kid of my own... as i wanna be a single parent... (moon in aqua)..

he then said " I will give you the kid "...

I was stunned.. didn't expect that from him.. firstly, he doesn't use the word relationship with us when we are exclusive anyway..

He doesn't seem to be scared by the idea of living together...

.. does that mean his capricorn moon sees me as an investment?

I replied to that statement saying.. " are you serious?:"... he said.." yes" I said " .. but now that i think about it i think i will be a pretty good mother"

Him " i know you will be a great mother "...

is it a venus in scorpio thing that makes him say this —?

thoughts please., does that mean he sees me long term?

Posted by capricornmoon
I don't know if it's different for Capricorn moon men, but if we say we're gonna do something,we do it. He wouldn't say those things if he wasn't certain or sure about it. We like stability, if you are unstable emotionally, mentally, just overall personality, he wouldn't even entertain the idea of being with you. My current boyfriend has a Venus in scorpio. From what I read, Venus in scorpio bond through sex, not romance, not getting to know the person better and all that good stuff, but sex and intimacy. So it could be also the sexual bond he has with you that's helping him to make these decisions.

Thank you for replying... yeah our sex are pure passionate.. he says it connects to his soul... we are more than 100 % satisfied, passionate and intese.
i just don't know if he meant, i will give you the kid, and thats that? I honestly see himself being a great dad too.. I just didn't think he would come straight out and tell me those things when he says he doesnn't want a " relationship" but exclusive.. it doens't quiet make sense to me.. 🙂

My taurus sun gives him that stability.

Posted by capricornmoon
I don't know if it's different for Capricorn moon men, but if we say we're gonna do something,we do it. He wouldn't say those things if he wasn't certain or sure about it. We like stability, if you are unstable emotionally, mentally, just overall personality, he wouldn't even entertain the idea of being with you. My current boyfriend has a Venus in scorpio. From what I read, Venus in scorpio bond through sex, not romance, not getting to know the person better and all that good stuff, but sex and intimacy. So it could be also the sexual bond he has with you that's helping him to make these decisions.

Also, i am only 26....thats 9 years of promising that he will b in my life then.. thats what surprised me..

Posted by capricornmoon
No problem., by exclusive, he doesn't want you sleeping with other men. By saying he doesn't want a relationship, it means exactly that.

And that means exactly what? lmfao

He doesn't want commitment but he doesn't want her sleeping with other men? Wait lemme get this down for my Player's Cookbook...

Yes we people are quite insecure and we may test our potential partner to see whether they are faithful or not once we begin to trust you we are very loyal.Be sure to stand for your right if he want to use you as a doormat. And if he sees you as a good mother then he surely sees a future with you. He just needs time in order to make a commitment. If he'd said something he mean it. We being a Capricorn moon will never waste even a single minute with you if we don't see you in our future. If he wants exclusive relationship that obviously mean he does not fully trust you. Give him some time to commit. in the mean time just show your trust worthiness.

My gf is a virgosun and cap moon. She started dating a tarus sun about a month ago and wants to ask for a ring for christmas. The only time i know of that she didn't do well with commitment was with a moody over the top cancer sun male, she was also still in love with her leo ex at the time.