faith$golphin
@faith$golphin
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My Cap is contemplating on leaving his girlfriend
He said he want his freedom but for what after all this time? Not to jump in relationship with me! Do you think he just tired of cheating? Why now after 3 years?
*sigh* I can't take not another story about a darn Capricorn man.
And what is it you want to hear? He said he wants his freedom. Was that not a clear enough answer? Who knows why now.
It sounds like he's setting it up to where he can still sleep with/see you and meet other people. The ONLY difference in this is he'll no longer have a girlfriend he cheats on.
And what is it you want to hear? He said he wants his freedom. Was that not a clear enough answer? Who knows why now.
It sounds like he's setting it up to where he can still sleep with/see you and meet other people. The ONLY difference in this is he'll no longer have a girlfriend he cheats on.
I agree with the others.
Posted by capgirl75Posted by lnana04
It sounds like he's setting it up to where he can still sleep with/see you and meet other people. The ONLY difference in this is he'll no longer have a girlfriend he cheats on.
Yup. That's what will happen. And as soon as he meets someone he likes he will drop her like a hot potato.click to expand
Basically.
This bitch....
LOL Always.
Thanks 4 the reply Inana and I will keep this thought in mind.
Posted by lnana04
*sigh* I can't take not another story about a darn Capricorn man.
And what is it you want to hear? He said he wants his freedom. Was that not a clear enough answer? Who knows why now.
It sounds like he's setting it up to where he can still sleep with/see you and meet other people. The ONLY difference in this is he'll no longer have a girlfriend he cheats on.
Thanks 4 the reply Inana and I will keep this thought in mind.
Posted by lnana04
*sigh* I can't take not another story about a darn Capricorn man.
And what is it you want to hear? He said he wants his freedom. Was that not a clear enough answer? Who knows why now.
It sounds like he's setting it up to where he can still sleep with/see you and meet other people. The ONLY difference in this is he'll no longer have a girlfriend he cheats on.
Are all the story pretty much the same? He was hinting around like he wanted me to be his girlfriend but I don't think he want to jump into another relationship right away. I I know he want out of the relationship for sure.
Posted by lnana04
*sigh* I can't take not another story about a darn Capricorn man.
And what is it you want to hear? He said he wants his freedom. Was that not a clear enough answer? Who knows why now.
It sounds like he's setting it up to where he can still sleep with/see you and meet other people. The ONLY difference in this is he'll no longer have a girlfriend he cheats on.
etty much honest so far. He not manipulated me! I think I like our relationship better than he do. .Posted by Chance11Posted by faith $ golphin
He said he want his freedom but for what after all this time? Not to jump in relationship with me! Do you think he just tired of cheating? Why now after 3 years?
not being aware of what his motivations are after 3 years allows him to manipulate you pretty easily..would be hard to believe anything he says at this pointclick to expand
I refuse to believe that at the age of 41 that you are so dead clueless as to basic human interaction. Be well space traveler.
I'm with him right now. He feel like I know a lot about him and I haven't even invited him over my house yet.
Posted by FoxGlove
Well, I don't know the situation as well as some of the other posters, but my first impression was this: why would he "hint" that he wants you to be his girlfriend, then announce that he wants to be single? To me, that makes no sense -- he is either trying to gauge how much you like him (without giving anything away himself) or simply trying to mess with your head. Neither is very good. Sometimes it pays to be straight forward -- can you just ask him what he'd like out of his relationship with you?
I'm not dead clueless. I know he really falling for me. He wants to leave his girlfriend and I'm sure of that. They live together while he's in town he's talking about buying another house.
There
There
I mean, he is the guy you've had this situation with these 3yrs. You announce your "with him right now" as if you're privileged in some way, or as if that's suppose to mean more than what it really is. I honestly didn't see the point in letting us know that.
Your view of him, and yourself has got to change is what I'm seeing right now
Your view of him, and yourself has got to change is what I'm seeing right now
If you're with him now, why can't I see him—
Posted by faith $ golphin
He wants to leave his girlfriend and I'm sure of that. They live together while he's in town he's talking about buying another house.
Talk is cheap.
I hope she never breeds
If they cheat with you they'll cheat on you.
Do you have no self-esteem or are you just really stupid? How old are you, you can't possibly be 41 years old and that damn naive. I mean this in the nicest way possible
Do you have no self-esteem or are you just really stupid? How old are you, you can't possibly be 41 years old and that damn naive. I mean this in the nicest way possible
I have read that Capricorni are very loyal. I kinda like my relationship with him right now. I don't have to worry about him cheating on me LOL.I'm sure he like what we have also. Recently we been seeing each a lot more often. I see him atleast 3 to 5,times a week and we spend almost the whole entire day together. Since we have been seeing each other a lot more often I figured he was fallen for me. That's why I have questions all of a sudden.
Posted by cowpuncher
Faith, you can bet the guy will be just as trustworthy for you as he has been for his current GF, which is to say, not very.
Do you want to be the other woman, or just an optional insurance plan for getting laid, forever? If so, stay on course. If not, ditch this guy.
I swear I'm about 1 INCH away from offering a bounty to any woman who posts a POSITIVE story about a monogamous, faithful relationship with a Capricorn male. *growl*
I'm not naive and I'm far from having low self-esteem. I know a lot of men and far as I'm concern over 95% of them cheat. I only know maybe 2 men that haven't cheated while they were in a relationship.
Posted by GodMadeBeauty
If they cheat with you they'll cheat on you.
Do you have no self-esteem or are you just really stupid? How old are you, you can't bly be 41 years old and that damn naive. I mean this in the nicest way possible
ot to be arrogant but he will never drop me until I wanna be dropped. He probably would stop seeing me as much but drop is out the question. He' s like a habbit that I can't quit and I'm the bomb that make him tick. He thinks I will stop seeing him if I meet someone that I really like and he's correct.Posted by capgirl75Posted by lnana04
It sounds like he's setting it up to where he can still sleep with/see you and meet other people. The ONLY difference in this is he'll no longer have a girlfriend he cheats on.
Yup. That's what will happen. And as soon as he meets someone he likes he will drop her like a hot potato.click to expand
Because I was trying to reply and he ask me what I was writing on the phone. If he knew I was posting all this stuff about our relationship he would have a fit.
Posted by lnana04
I mean, he is the guy you've had this situation with these 3yrs. You announce your "with him right now" as if you're privileged in some way, or as if that's suppose to mean more than what it really is. I honestly didn't see the point in letting us know that.
Your view of him, and yourself has got to change is what I'm seeing right now
Posted by rockyroadicecream
I hope she never breeds
Unfortunately, love.. Faith claims to have (iirc) not one, but TWO Capricorn sons herself.
I remember, because I pointed out that she is ACTUALLY TEACHING her own young and impressionable men how to treat women. And that one day, the Cap guy cheating on his woman to be with another woman might be HER OWN SON.. and I wondered.. in that case, would she identify with the girl he's cheating ON, or the one he's cheating WITH.. and would his total lack of respect/morals with BOTH women make her PROUD? *smh*
Faith, Faith, Faith.. please tell me this is all a huge, involved fairytale of a story, and that you don't really have rocks for brains to go along with an obvious lack of morals or self-esteem! We've been listening to your tale for YEARS now.. the ONLY thing that's 100% certain is that HE'S A KNOWN CHEATER, and will NEVER REALLY RESPECT OR LOVE YOU, because you are OKAY with being a jumpoff, and OKAY with him being a CHEATER!
I have an unrelenting headache about this whole thing. This whole situation is just ridiculous beyond words. :c
Yeah, this has to be a joke.
! That's why I don't understand why even bring the thought up if he's not really contemplating. I have been seeing him too long for him to make up something like this. Either he fallen 4 me or he is really sick of his relationship.Posted by truecapPosted by faith $ golphin
He wants to leave his girlfriend and I'm sure of that. They live together while he's in town he's talking about buying another house.
Talk is cheap.click to expand
nd that's no fairytale! I'm a good person regardless of what you say about me.Posted by NeferPosted by rockyroadicecream
I hope she never breeds
Unfortunately, love.. Faith claims to have (iirc) not one, but TWO Capricorn sons herself.
I remember, because I pointed out that she is ACTUALLY TEACHING her own young and impressionable men how to treat women. And that one day, the Cap guy cheating on his woman to be with another woman might be HER OWN SON.. and I wondered.. in that case, would she identify with the girl he's cheating ON, or the one he's cheating WITH.. and would his total lack of respect/morals with BOTH women make her PROUD? *smh*
Faith, Faith, Faith.. please tell me this is all a huge, involved fairytale of a story, and that you don't really have rocks for brains to go along with an obvious lack of morals or self-esteem! We've been listening to your tale for YEARS now.. the ONLY thing that's 100% certain is that HE'S A KNOWN CHEATER, and will NEVER REALLY RESPECT OR LOVE YOU, because you are OKAY with being a jumpoff, and OKAY with him being a CHEATER!
I have an unrelenting headache about this whole thing. This whole situation is just ridiculous beyond words. :cclick to expand
Posted by faith $ golphin
I have read that Capricorni are very loyal. I kinda like my relationship with him right now. I don't have to worry about him cheating on me LOL.I'm sure he like what we have also. Recently we been seeing each a lot more often. I see him atleast 3 to 5,times a week and we spend almost the whole entire day together. Since we have been seeing each other a lot more often I figured he was fallen for me. That's why I have questions all of a sudden.
He's not loyal to his girlfriend, you silly ho.
I would say that this is a joke, but she asked the same questions on another forum when this all had started. Freaking crazy coincidence, too. She was posting her crazy here, and poof, her question came up on another advice forum that I frequent. Even there, people told her that the situation is a lost cause and to move on, if I remember right.
Posted by NeferPosted by rockyroadicecream
I hope she never breeds
Unfortunately, love.. Faith claims to have (iirc) not one, but TWO Capricorn sons herself.click to expand
Oooh yeah. I remember now.
He have been pretty honest for the most part. Most of my relationship started out similar and ended up good. Right now everything is definitely better. I will keep u posted.
Posted by Pecheresse
If you're able to put up with his lies and crap for 3 years I guess you know you will never be considered a girlfriend. You'll always be the friend he can have sex with whenever he feels like it.
No I haven't. I'm not familiar with the charts stuff. I would like to learn it.
Posted by SwimmingLioness
@faith $ golphin, I can't remember, but have you posted your chart?
to date about the chart info. I'm clueless about that.Posted by cowpuncherPosted by SwimmingLioness
@faith $ golphin, I can't remember, but have you posted your chart?
+1
Yeah Faith would you please post your chart, as well as your Cap's chart if you could? I'd like to see them both.click to expand
men in general have a relationship or was seeing someone at some point. The majority of my relationship started the same way that's all.Posted by EusiveSoulllPosted by faith $ golphin
He have been pretty honest for the most part. Most of my relationship started out similar and ended up good. Right now everything is definitely better. I will keep u posted.Posted by Pecheresse
If you're able to put up with his lies and crap for 3 years I guess you know you will never be considered a girlfriend. You'll always be the friend he can have sex with whenever he feels like it.
Ok wait??_.I'm lost. All your relationships started the same way and ended up GOOD !? I don't know what your definitions of a relationship ending good may be, and I obviously must be missing something here for I just cannot comprehend your previous statement??_.but it is quite hilarious I must admit !!
Plus as CP stated??_.being on this site for three years and knowing your own chart?!?! This IS a jokeclick to expand
I'm leaving this one alone from now on!
I'm enjoying my life what's so wrong about that. I be with him all the time and were not just having sex. Infact we have a lot of fun together and we don't even have sex a lot.
Posted by TasteOfChaosss
I've asked her years ago for her chart... She just keeps acting stupid.
I'm telling you, it's just a kid behind a computer getting off on all this bullshit.
Do you really believe a Leo would settle for second best in a relationship!??
Do you really believe a woman of her age could be so fucking stupid?
O
It's clearly a joke.
I'm enjoying my life what's so wrong about that. I be with him all the time and were not just having sex. Infact we have a lot of fun together and we don't even have sex a lot.
Posted by TasteOfChaosss
I've asked her years ago for her chart... She just keeps acting stupid.
I'm telling you, it's just a kid behind a computer getting off on all this bullshit.
Do you really believe a Leo would settle for second best in a relationship!??
Do you really believe a woman of her age could be so fucking stupid?
O
It's clearly a joke.
It would make sense. She writes like a retarded 12 year old.
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