OceanWanderer?? GEG??

OceanWanderer... I was just looking for your advice and latest w/ the Cap. I had last read how he'd reappeared after 5 or so months and then you made him wait for another 4 months before you contacted him, which I found really GREAT! I know that back earlier in the year, you were through w/ this guy and I just wondered if he learned any lessons since he's been back? I've been dealing w/ one (a Cap. male!) for a little over a year, and am currently "on a break"- going on 3 months- and trying to figure out if I'm actually moving on or going to get something out of dishing him back his dirt, if I were to initiate contact. You've got a level-headed, intelligent approach, OW, so I like hearing your stuff! ; )

And wondering how GEG is doing, always??

OW~ I am trying and starting to get to that same place. My Cap. fell off the face of the earth, when I approached him and tried to corner him about dating/relationship. It's been a month now since I've tried to contact him and I'm not planning on putting forth any more effort. I'm slowly getting him out of my head/heart and it feels good not to be analyzing and settling for weird behavior. Every week that goes by without talking to him is another step away from it with no looking back. I always knew we were too much alike and that I couldn't let someone have that much power and control over me, but I kept battling it out because of the intense connection/chemistry.

GEG~ I hope you get some holiday time w/ him! I'm still wishing and hoping for the best and that it works out for you. 😉