I am a 25yo Aries male who likes this 30yo Cappy woman. We met in an online game 5 weeks ago and we are in same guild/clan so we talk everyday. Even when she is at work, she is in game as well. She told me she has a bf because I asked her. We started flirting gradually and told me she likes me calling me her boo and all. I got confused and asked her about her bf again as I did not want to be the 3rd wheel. She said "lol, it was fun while it lasted" and we remained as friends. If I do asked her questions about herself, fave color, what she will be doing later etc, she will tell me without hesitation.
1 week ago, she started to tell me a little about her relationship with her of bf 4 years who is currently overseas. Shes in the states and hes working in Dubai. He was supposed to return in 1 year but stretched to 3 years. And he wanted her to be there with her but she refused to. I said to her "4 years is a long time, so hang in there. Then she immediately stopped the convo.
Our guild has like 500 members and she will start singing her praises of me to everyone. I am a born leader in game and in real life. Yesterday I told her my boss took me to this charity gala to introduce me to ppl in businesses. I told her the goals that I have set for future and she was impressed.
Today she told the guild ppl that I am starting to climb the social ladder. I whispered and asked her why did she have to say that when I told her that in confidence. She laughed it off saying that ppl dont take her seriously so I dont have to worry.
When we are online, I am always the one that says hi to her. Then she blows hot and cold as usual. Sometimes I just feel like ignoring the crap out of her. lol.
First thing, You can't believe on someone you just met online. And it seems like she is just having fun nothing more. Just step back from her . Well just my opinion .
For me, it's not real until I actually meet the person in real life. So, she's not taking the flirtation seriously. Sure, you can make really good friends on line, but as far as feelings or a relationship goes, it's not real unless it's in person.
Just enjoy the on-line friendship and don't think anything of it.
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1 week ago, she started to tell me a little about her relationship with her of bf 4 years who is currently overseas. Shes in the states and hes working in Dubai. He was supposed to return in 1 year but stretched to 3 years. And he wanted her to be there with her but she refused to. I said to her "4 years is a long time, so hang in there. Then she immediately stopped the convo.
Our guild has like 500 members and she will start singing her praises of me to everyone. I am a born leader in game and in real life. Yesterday I told her my boss took me to this charity gala to introduce me to ppl in businesses. I told her the goals that I have set for future and she was impressed.
Today she told the guild ppl that I am starting to climb the social ladder. I whispered and asked her why did she have to say that when I told her that in confidence. She laughed it off saying that ppl dont take her seriously so I dont have to worry.
When we are online, I am always the one that says hi to her. Then she blows hot and cold as usual. Sometimes I just feel like ignoring the crap out of her. lol.