
cappysweetie
@cappysweetie
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Posted by FeistyAquarian
hahaha Yeah, I was one of the characters in Twilight *gag*
I joke around about things too, but I basically don't leave anyone out when I joke 😛 I'm an opportunistic joker, everyone gets a jab from me, unless they are ultra sensitive. But there's also a fine line you shouldn't cross...You'll just come off as an insensitive prick and you'll make people feel like dirt. And neither is good, of course. I think most humans are capable of great things and to treat people like they are beneath you is stupid.
I get annoyed bc sometimes people think I'm a big snob (Scorpio Rising, people! lol) but I can just be really shy and self-conscious at times but in reality, I tend to like most everyone!

Posted by ReclusiveScorpioPosted by buttercupSG
wow lovelyscorp you live in indiana :O. i have to be honset that it would not be one of the desirable places for me. i enjoy diversities and not very patient with ppl who are close-minded.
i admire your strength. your children are lucky to have such a loving, strong and protected mother. they are now beautiful people because of you 🙂.
You're incredibly ignorant.
I'm not even from Indiana, but you just insulted everyone who lives in that state basically by saying they aren't diverse and they are all close-minded....What the fuck?
Clearly it's you who is close-minded by generalizing everyone from Indiana as being White and Close-Minded.
Where's YOUR Open Mind about people from the Midwest?
And then you add your snobby, conformist comment about how a place such as Indiana isn't "desirable" enough for you to live. Oh Noes! Indiana isn't good enough for Princess Buttercup!
Every state in America is beautiful in its own way. What we need are less pretentious assholes like you who think that only California and New York are the only places anyone should live, and more people who appreciate every city and state.
Hell, Now I may move to Indiana (or any other Midwestern State) just to spite you.click to expand

Posted by HappyCappy
all these beautiful women getting called names. makes me sad. i have a sister who was impregnated when she was 15. she has mixed kids. i took care of my niece the first yr she was born. that girl was very beautiful. blue eyes. and later on her hair got redder lol. i havent seen her in yrs though being in the navy. but yeah...she was beautiful. her brother was lighter though with blue eyes. he was a trip...really receptive of me. of course when i last saw my neice she was screaming and yelling anytime i tried to hold her or get near her...made me hurt a little but is to be expected from not seeing her for so long. i think ill visit them when i get home from japan. they need to meet thier favorite uncle again. haha.
capricorn uncle. oh noessss. here comes high standards. dont think ill question a 4 yr old about her aspirations in life. loool

Posted by periperiPosted by buttercupSG
black like all other colors is beautiful but i'm not so sure about psycho tho lol
Black is not a color. It's the absence of it. Learns your physicz 😉...LULZ...Aside from that, I love my chocolate women 😉
Dang...what a piece of woman...She can melt in my mouth, and in my hands 😉
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Posted by periperiPosted by MorningMist
The thing is, I have been given a hard time about my cultural quirks not only by caucasians but by other minorities as well. It's idiotic really. People make it sound like only the light skin people are racist but frankly I've faced hate from everyone even minorities.
What's your cultural background? And yeah, your friend is a hypocrite based on the fact that she wouldn't be dating Caucasian men if the same rules applied to her. This topic is far more complex that the thread can handle...I could easily nail it down in two posts but I'm not going to.click to expand

Posted by cap..Posted by LovelyScorpPosted by cap..
A lot including RACISM is our ancestors' fault unfortunately
....and if we keep it going it becomes our fault.
I totally agree.
I mean why dint the first black guy slap some one sho would have called him black or N**ro. Or why were some continent's resident men not wise and strong enough to tell the fat headed white guys to fuck off.click to expand

Posted by periperiPosted by cappysweetiePosted by periperiPosted by MorningMist
The thing is, I have been given a hard time about my cultural quirks not only by caucasians but by other minorities as well. It's idiotic really. People make it sound like only the light skin people are racist but frankly I've faced hate from everyone even minorities.
What's your cultural background? And yeah, your friend is a hypocrite based on the fact that she wouldn't be dating Caucasian men if the same rules applied to her. This topic is far more complex that the thread can handle...I could easily nail it down in two posts but I'm not going to.
Aside from that last thread we were both on, this is one thing we can agree on. This whole subject is complex and not that cut-and-dry.
I don't recall us ever disagreeing. ?click to expand

Posted by Prince_Pisces
omg. . .when cappysweetie talks, she definately talks. taking up a whole page LOL!!!

Posted by periperiPosted by cappysweetiePosted by periperiPosted by cappysweetiePosted by periperiPosted by MorningMist
The thing is, I have been given a hard time about my cultural quirks not only by caucasians but by other minorities as well. It's idiotic really. People make it sound like only the light skin people are racist but frankly I've faced hate from everyone even minorities.
What's your cultural background? And yeah, your friend is a hypocrite based on the fact that she wouldn't be dating Caucasian men if the same rules applied to her. This topic is far more complex that the thread can handle...I could easily nail it down in two posts but I'm not going to.
Aside from that last thread we were both on, this is one thing we can agree on. This whole subject is complex and not that cut-and-dry.
I don't recall us ever disagreeing. ?
I know 😛
So you like to wear your little 'things' huh? I happen to be a little 'things' connoisseur.click to expand



Posted by periperiPosted by cappysweetie
But that's cool you play soccer. I like soccer but I suck at playing it, no matter what, I just can't play it without falling down lol seriously. My gemini friend makes-fun of me too when I slip and fall but he does help alot ... but he's still a jackass.
Gems are jackasses, haha. I could teach you. I make wonders out of people. Yeah, I don't mind intense weather. I'm pretty daring. And I'm three shades darker now too 🙂
Did you know that my one true love was a Cappy? I still remember her even though it's been 6 years ago and she's engaged to someone else now. Eh well, I wish the best.click to expand

Posted by periperiPosted by cappysweetie
But that's cool you play soccer. I like soccer but I suck at playing it, no matter what, I just can't play it without falling down lol seriously. My gemini friend makes-fun of me too when I slip and fall but he does help alot ... but he's still a jackass.
I actually play defender. It's one of the positions that requires the most energy, endurance, speed and stamina. You're always running fast for the full 90 mins, around 11 miles on average per game.click to expand




Posted by periperi
And I like this one 🙂


Posted by periperiPosted by cappysweetiePosted by periperi
And I like this one 🙂
DUDE! I forgot when this song came out but OMG, I think I was ether still in high school or I just graduated lol. Geezzzz, this was the song lol
Yup, me too 😉 about the same time line. How old is you?click to expand


Posted by periperiPosted by cappysweetiePosted by periperiPosted by cappysweetiePosted by periperi
And I like this one 🙂
DUDE! I forgot when this song came out but OMG, I think I was ether still in high school or I just graduated lol. Geezzzz, this was the song lol
Yup, me too 😉 about the same time line. How old is you?
Young and old enough to be your sister ^_^. lol
Haha. How about girlfriend? 😉click to expand





Posted by MorningMist
Slavery was pretty much an accepted trade in the past. And it wasn't based on race alone. The conquering party held the invaded country as slaves. And that happened amongst europeans with other european people, African tribes held other smaller tribes as slaves, same thing with China, latin America, Aztecs and India ( caste system etc). These days the suppression takes on a different more subtle form. And just because the dynamics are not what you once read does not make it acceptable( for US to harbour terrorists and OK for them to use drones on other countries is another form of suppression. India using the AFSPA on North East people and kashmiri people to kill them on sight despite being Indian citizens for example. China's suppression of Tibet. Zimbabwes handling of the european descent farmers etc).
The thing is we accept forms of suppression when our own people commit it on others because we see it as right even when in hindsight it would be wrong. when the suppressed fight back we name them "insurgents", "anarchists", "terrorists" or freedom fighters depending upon how badly we want to hate or like them. It doesn't make the inhumane acts committed by these people acceptable but the larger more powerful party's reaction to counter it is usually as violent but justified. History will be written differently than how we perceive it today. Our children will wonder why we tolerated some of the things we do today. Just like we wonder why our ancestors tolerated the things they did back then.


Posted by buttercupSG
wow the fast growing of this thread has triggered my anti-social mode lol. i need my zen time lol (😉@sweetie)
just a note, periperi, i don't get techincal in a virtual world cuz i had enough in the real world i even try to escape them as much as i can now in real life lol. i should know my color wheel well cuz it matters to my new found passion / profession thx for reminding me lol.
later later later everyone 🙂.

Posted by periperiPosted by cappysweetie
oh dear LOL!!!! Did you really just post that pic of Trouble xD!!!!! Oh your silly ..
you moon must be in .... ummm
Capricorn... 😄click to expand

Posted by cap..Posted by MorningMist
Slavery was pretty much an accepted trade in the past. And it wasn't based on race alone. The conquering party held the invaded country as slaves. And that happened amongst europeans with other european people, African tribes held other smaller tribes as slaves, same thing with China, latin America, Aztecs and India ( caste system etc). These days the suppression takes on a different more subtle form. And just because the dynamics are not what you once read does not make it acceptable( for US to harbour terrorists and OK for them to use drones on other countries is another form of suppression. India using the AFSPA on North East people and kashmiri people to kill them on sight despite being Indian citizens for example. China's suppression of Tibet. Zimbabwes handling of the european descent farmers etc).
The thing is we accept forms of suppression when our own people commit it on others because we see it as right even when in hindsight it would be wrong. when the suppressed fight back we name them "insurgents", "anarchists", "terrorists" or freedom fighters depending upon how badly we want to hate or like them. It doesn't make the inhumane acts committed by these people acceptable but the larger more powerful party's reaction to counter it is usually as violent but justified. History will be written differently than how we perceive it today. Our children will wonder why we tolerated some of the things we do today. Just like we wonder why our ancestors tolerated the things they did back then.
I agree but thats what i am saying. Nature or god did not send some one to be slave for others , he didnt make some one superior or inferior. I know slavery existed in past but what made it start? No men would have been happy to be a slave. Like you said the conquering party held the invaded country as slave. BUt what made one party conquere so much. Why were scientific developments happening in some part of the world and other continent remained 3rd world. I am just saying only if no tribe or countrymen would have let the others rule them by being strong and wise enough. WHen things start and expand its difficult to stop , the best way is to stop at the very begining. I blame the older generation to not stop it at the very begining.click to expand


Posted by ReclusiveScorpioPosted by justSophs
I AM BLACK AND I AM MOTHERFUCKING PROUD.
SAY IT LOU😱 IM BLACK AND I AM PROUD.
The Black Proud Pyscho
Wouldn't that make you a "Black Supremacist"?
Be fair now...click to expand


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THAT'S IT! That's the connection -- actually traveling outside of your comfort zone and understand what's around you instead of what's in front of you. I'm soooo glad I grew up the way I did, by my own choosing that is lol. Thats exactly what separates social/ worldly opinions -- those have actually traveled to learn and those who just merely go on 'vacation'. *Rolls eyes* There's a huge difference between the two.